This Is Why You Won't Regret Your Childfree Life

Childfree are constantly told that they will REGRET THEIR CHOICE one day. So, will we?
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00:34 you might actually know what you want
01:30 it looks different for everyone
02:30 think about it
03:25 this is false
04:05 but what if...
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[WifeWithoutKids]

00:00 intro
00:34 you might actually know what you want
01:30 it looks different for everyone
02:30 think about it
03:25 this is false
04:05 but what if...
05:18 snack hunt

[bobmarker]

I was 17 when I decided kids weren't for me. I like kids, just didn't want the responsibility or cost. Now at 62, I've NEVER had a regret.

[robynr]

I am a 62 year old Black woman and no matter how many children I interact with, *I do not regret my childfree life!* And I encourage young women who are considering the childfree life to really sit with themselves and work out *their feelings and desires* about being a mother *apart from the wishes and desires of others* because that decision affects her the most. Also, whatever difficulties she will encounter as a mother, *she* will experience it the most and many times have to deal with it *by herself, * even if she is married. So *be sure of your own mind and desires* on whichever the side of the fence you decide to land.

[queerstudbroalex]

Regretting being childfree is far, far better than regretting having kids because you still have to deal with the kids!

[Mari-sqcx]

This society has people terrified of being single, unmarried and/or being childfree, it's ridiculous. It's in TV, in casual conversations, movies, magazines, etc.

Everyone should ask themselves "who decided that being single and childfree was bad?" and "who benefits from that fear or regret?"

[tc-tmmy]

Look how many people in nursing homes have kids and grandkids who don't visit.

[sburris]

I have quite a few child free friends, and none of them regret it. But I have quite a few friends who have regrets when it comes to their children. None of them out and out regret their kids. But they regret having them in general, or they wish they had them later or had fewer kids. And like you said, if you change your mind, there is fostering or adoption. But I'm 58, and every day, I find another reason that makes me glad I didn't have kids.

[k-sama]

I don’t understand why I would regret something I never wanted. I would regret never skydiving, or visiting Japan. Because I imagined and want to do those things. I imagine what it would feel like new and exciting and amazing. I never wanted, imagined, desired, planned for, daydreamed, etc about having kids. If I think about it because someone brings it up I’m washed over with some negative emotions every time. 💀

[Sarina]

I just had another one of those nightmares about being pregnant last night. I was so horrified and stressed in this dream, I was crying all the time saying that this is going to ruin my life. When I woke up I still felt shaken but at the same time very happy and grateful that this is not my reality.

[JD-demq]

Honestly, I think the majority of people lack self awareness of their own lives to be parents. Broken people and trauma is why we have major problems in our society. The constant shame of not reproducing is an added layer of how dissasociated and in denial the human Race is. Our focus should be spent on making our world better not to continue these destructive patterns. If more people took responsibility of their own lives, trauma and the lives of who they have relations with, maybe then they should be allowed to have children.

[samyuktaashokkrishnan]

People are more likely to regret not going after things that they wanted, rather than not doing something they never desired. That just doesn't make sense to me.

[shirlebryant]

Just left the gym, solo workout this morning. Stay free in heading home 🏡for a nap

[lbarnx]

Sometimes you just have to say no to repeating generational patterns of abuse by saying no to having children.

[randymillhouse]

People with kids want other people to have kids because misery loves company.

[niftydom]

At 47 I have zero regret about not having children. MY entire life I struggled with relationships and childhood trauma. Not everyone comes from a loving family and has supportive friends. Sometimes when I go to bed at night I wish to never wake up. It is what it is.

[abigailmills]

5:22 and here’s the thing, if ur like 50 and u realize u actually DO want kids, then just adopt!!

[darcy]

I have never met a childfree woman or couple who regreted not having kids.

[amberbrehaut]

I'm 36, no kids. It wasn't until recently I realized the feeling I had that I needed to have kids was more because of outside pressures than potential regret in the future. I love kids! I'm a pretty nurturing person but I really don't envision kids in my future anymore. I have a wonderful man in my life now who has 2 grown kids and is snipped (so he can't have more) but we have amazing future goals and plans and I know I'll have a super fulfilling life without kids. Plus I have nieces/nephews to spoil!

[theMermaidRhonda]

55 here..not one regret at all. Chad and I were at the flea market last weekend and a child was screaming and I actually held my hands over my ears until we got away from it. How can anyone stand that noise? No thanks!

[cutietae]

Even if you have regret it doesn’t matter that much.

I regret not trying to play sports in middle school. I regret being too scared to take chances and skipping prom. Well not like “regret” that’s deep . More like “what if I did ?” .. but we don’t get to live out all the alternate realities that we could have been . You gotta move on.