How to be a social butterfly without dying of exhaustion

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Hello! fellow Earthlings, I decided to make this video because I have a low social battery and find it hard to go out too often despite really enjoying it! I am beginning to overcome this obstacle and starting to become a social butterfly :)
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I rely a lot on the effect you mentioned. If I have just one person who I feel really comfortable with, I end up not caring what anyone else thinks, and become less judgmental of myself in the process. But when I don't, I end up feeling self-conscious and targeted. I just need to know I can rely on this one person, and then I feel safe to be myself. This happened a few times in elementary school and I had lots of friends those years. Ever since middle school it's been harder. And sometimes following up on talking to new friends is harder than the initial interaction. I'm getting better, though

fennelfin
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I can really admire how this channel helps so many people in just 5 minutes. Truly amazing!🙂

BergmansMusic
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Another video 🎉 thank you for your amazing work, I can’t wait to see where you go with this! It’s amazing!

sideosalt
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Nice analogies! Your videos have been quite great so far. You got yourself a subscriber! Keep-up the good work. Who know how many people you'll inspire‽

NK
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Another amazing video and honestly quite accurate how people go thru and feel in each stage.
My personal advice to anyone that is in the chrysalis stage, take it slow if possible. Don't rush out and try to make a lot of new friends instantly, maybe stick to some well known ones that you have had around for a while and once you are comfortable around them, try and meet up with your friends friends and see how that goes. If that goes well then try and interact with more people outside your friend groups and see how that goes.
Though do keep in mind that everyone is different and you should follow thru how you feel and how capable you are with your expansion into your social life. It might feel a bit exhausting at the start but just keep nudging yourself forward from time to time, maybe take a pause in between.

PootisGodAnimations
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Wonderful art style This was an instant subscription for me lol

sembalo
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I’m stupidly social for an autistic person. I wasn’t always this way though. I went from introvert to extrovert due to certain events in 2021.

DiamondAviator
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Caterpillar is cool, but I never saw one before.

GodOfWheatRiceBall
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YouTube forgot to remind me, curls in ball, hhhhffffvvss.

anthonywalker
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Well, I usually only interact with friends and not many other people. But I could use a bit more confidence and don't do well with just plain small talk. Kinda feels like in caterpillar mode most of the time.

tigerx
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The video title implies that death is a possible option

Pumpkinshire
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I'm in goo mode and have been for a while now

NoiseDay
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Easy Step one

Take a breather

Step 2

Speak

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