How To Get Kids To Listen Without Yelling

As parents, sometimes it takes a lot of a patience so we don't have to raise our voices. How do we get our kids to listen without yelling? In this video, we'll dive into what works better for our kids and for us as parents.

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Dr. Paul Jenkins

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[dYanamatic]

I keep finding myself coming back to these videos - this one in particular. Another video which was a game changer for me was giving them a choice with the same outcome. Either they can walk to the car themselves, or I can carry them to the car. It removes any fighting straight away because I know immediately my action plan if they resist. Less stress for me.

[madileaaa]

My child is 4 years old. She is very argumentative. Anytime i tell her to clean, or come inside when we are done playing she gets very upset and frustrated. She will grunt, scream and roll her eyes, threaten to hit or simply go and hide. I am usually very short and straight to the point. My husband on the other hand believes we need to explain everything to the kids. They do tend to listen to me more than their father. She tells us all time any time the fun ends that we are being mean and throw fits even at our calmest. Then it will escalate to raising our voices.

[tetscardoso]

Omg! I want to watch all of your videos! The quality is great! Thank you so much!

[dj_jazzywhut]

Nope doesn't work. Why do I have to ask my daughter to sit in her High Chair properly at least 6 times in a calm manner? By the 6th time I am done and offer her a choice of sitting properly and eating her lunch or going without lunch and straight to bed.

[Miszally]

I'm going to try this today I will start

[addazzin]

You should interview kids about this topic.

[melaniefigueroa]

I truly enjoy your advice and delivery on the topics that you cover. So much so I have referred you to a handful of friends. Do you have something regarding "how to deal with ungrateful teens/kids"?

[alistairdarby]

This might work with some children, but my son is exceptionally stubborn and usually results in him saying “I don’t care”.

[datooriyaz]

any suggestions on money and teens. money for education and should we give kids the responsibility or do we parents take it on ?

[madhunainasingamsetti]

Let me up through a very common situation : Once the screen time is done will you switch off the tv by ur self or do u want me to put it of for u!! Obviously he doesn't listen, so I switch off the TV and the crying, tantrums begins. What do it do in such situations????

[jpx]

It is a myth that parents automatically are no longer boss when the child is 18, or 21, or whatever. The reality is, nothing ends, as long as a child happens to remain dependent on them.

[Gamingwithunc]

When you yell at your children, they see a deformed face. Therefore, you become the monster and they become afraid. #relationshipstuff101

[princessisrael]

I have a 5 year old. Using the example of cleaning the room. If she chooses that I clean her room for her how do I tell or show her the “price” of me doing it instead?

[meo]

Speaking calmly doesn't work with my 4yr old... Screaming doesn't work.. smacking doesn't work.. He just doesn't get it

[Yuhdunno]

This probably wont work for certain parents because they already trained their child to behave a certain way and not take them serious.

[b-rock]

Okay so what happened s once I clean his room and he had no consequences

[mikeygarcia]

What if the child says.."Yes, you can clean my room." I am not going to clean his room..he is going to grow up spoiled...is there any other option?

[prettyenergy]

I’m so upset that my kids don’t listen especially my 3 yo daughter I’m trying to learn a better method because it’s not useful

[addazzin]

I developed a private communication with my child.
I show him one finger it means now. 2 fingers 2 minutes. 5 fingers 5 minutes. If not accomplished there is consequence. We wink our eye to say I love you, 2 times your welcome.
Lifting 1 eyebrow means we need to talk about it in private.

[Notyourplainjane]

What if they say "ok mom, no problem " then it becomes a habit for me to clean up their room instead??!