Why are you hurt? | J. Krishnamurti

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Why are you hurt? | J. Krishnamurti
Extract from Public Dialogue 1, Brockwood Park, UK, 1976

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[akshayranade]

I wish to hear this whole talk. Any links?

[cassandrastornoway]

"It requires enormous intelligence to be alone, and you must be alone to find truth" Krishnamurti

[moonlightguardian]

I was at the blink of suicide, untill I heard Krisnamurti, he was the only one that prevented me from taking my own life.

[priyankamishra]

"Attention is like a flame that burns out past and present hurts"
- J Krishanmurti

[thakur]

Why I'm hurt
*Expecting them to do something*
*Expecting them not to do something*
*Expecting something to happen*
*Expecting something not to happen*

[almightyalious]

Treat emotions like visitors let them come and go, feel them and release them, that leads to mastering calmness, love, peace and serenity to all

[BunnyUK]

Other people can no longer emotionally hurt me. Yes they can kill me, cut me, burn me, etc. But the key for me to giving up emotional pain caused by other people, was no longer caring, not even a crumb, about other people's ideas & opinions about me. I was lied about by a so-called family member & other people bought those lies, even though I did nothing wrong. In that experience, I realised it no longer mattered what I did, how well I behaved, how much I did for others, it would never guarantee safety from other people's negative opinions about me. The other key for me, was to stop trying to control what other people think of me - whether it is good, or bad. Just let them choose whatever opinion they want. It's their business what they think and that's the same for me, I choose my thoughts and opinions too. You have to allow other people to think whatever they want, and not care about the outcome. You can still prefer them to think well of you, but it's not required.

[haydn]

My notes on this:

When someone does something 'to us' or we perceive some hurt inside of us, ask ourselves why we are hurt? who is hurt? the ego is hurt. We cannot be hurt in our essence. If we focus on why someone is behaving in a certain way and/or trying to blame or attack them for it we lose sight of the true lessons that are inside of us. The 'other' person is only an extension of ourself and is a great teacher about ourself, we just have to pay attention to within.

May all beings be happy <3<3<3

[Donnybrook]

50 years ago I sat at meetings like this one with Jiddu Krishnamurti he became and still is one of the most important teachers in my life, I am 73yrs old now and beginning to understand finally what this great teacher is saying.
Love Rules.

[annihilatorzone]

If u can live without any single image of yours In your mind. Then nobody can hurt you.🙏

[alienclockii]

Putting this in the life-changing folder

[raja_d_]

It's only when there's inattention, registration of hurt or flattery takes place. Absolute gold!

[asadahmed]

"Attention is the flame that burn out past & present hurts"

[stud]

K's love is like a tsunami. Have tears in my eyes listening and watching him.

[AwakenAbundance]

This man speaks with so much passion and knowledge, it is unbelievable.

[CAP]

For the first time I have been able to understand him, although chasing and reading him for quarter of a century.When there is attention and focus your false self(the image he is talking about) vaporizes which has the tendency to get hurt.Your real self is pure and innocent that is unprovoked by the hurts.

[CD-ezgz]

He speaks in circles. It’s evident that the ego gets hurt but no one can live without an ego. The question is, how to bring the ego under the leadership of the true Self which cannot be hurt. Being present helps but also if one is truly present with their pain, they’ll have to feel the pain. It’s an unpleasant experience and maybe that’s a start, feeling it but not identifying with it. Easy to say, hard to do.

[JulioMartinsVerso]

this should be played in open TV every single day

[TheMCVR]

Take away :
#Forming a concrete image inside hurts
#Pay full attention when you are blamed
#Attention is a fire it burns past and present hurts

[baptm]

I always come back to Jiddu when I feel like I need a recall, and everytime he kicks me in the head.