Is He Sending You Mixed Messages? How to Interpret Them...

There’s nothing more frustrating than trying to read a man, especially when he’s sending mixed signals. If a guy you’re into has you questioning his every action and word, then I have some news for you… and it’s probably not what you expect...

Hey ladies, my name is Amy North and I’m a relationship coach from the west coast of Canada. Today I want to talk about a problem that SO many women face, and that’s reading a man’s mixed signals or messages.

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So then, let’s get started.

The first thing I want to do is define what I mean by mixed signals, and that’s any message a man sends you then contradicts. For instance, if he goes from texting you daily to falling off the map, or tells you he likes you then suddenly disappears. Simply put, it’s when he says one thing then does another.

Now here’s the shocking bit: While women have spent centuries trying to read a man’s mixed signals, from a guy’s perspective, these signals aren’t actually a thing. They don’t exist. He’s either into you, or he’s not. If he wants to be with you, he will. Simple as that.

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[heatheralice]

this is seriously THE BEST dating advice I've EVER received!

[realityjester]

Guys are not like girls, we don't intentionally mess with your head. This video is spot on, If a guy texts you, wants to hang out with you, or tells you he likes you. You can be 95% sure that this is the case. Just keep in mind that some guys just want sex, don't give in too quickly, don't make us wait to spend time with you, but make us wait for the sex.

The one piece of advice I can give you girls is this: BE COURAGEOUS! It's 2017, ask him out for god's sake! Don't always be the one expecting to be able to do the rejecting or accepting. Put yourself in a man's shoes, go for it, if he's showing signs stated in the video, you can be about 95% confident.

Best of luck ladies!

[ceasetheday]

I'm surprised by how on point this video was. Correct in every way.

[terryriel]

This video helped me a lot. Though I wanted to deepen our friendship, I do feel relieved that I don't have to rent space in my head about it. Amazingly I feel freedom.

[scarlettwolf]

what if he shows literally every sign of liking you but denies it???

[indisingh]

Actually I'm the one sending mixed messages but he's the reason why I do
I hate his behavior lately Thank You Ms North

[lucyblack]

She's from Canada and her name is North :D

[augustinawubah]

I LOVE YOUR HUMILITY. You radiate HUMILITY. That was my first reason why I even Subscribed to your channel. Keep it up Big Sis. You seem like a lovely person. GREAT VideoS by the way. Thumbs Up - Love- Augustina

[odxeoys]

It's so bad that we have to spend our time and energy trying to interpret what a man wants to say. I feel so bad for myself as woman in her twenties trying to date in this day and age. It was easier in the past..

[lihua]

My crush is real good at giving mixed signals . One day he will be messaging and texting for straight 3-4 hours and will keep the conversation going one, and the other day he will simply reply "haha" to end the conversation

[REDandBLUEandORANGE]

As a dude
If you want a man
-get to know them
-ask them out
90% of the time they will say yes

[jennifers]

Girl your videos are awesome. Just simple and clear.

[isabellableu]

So, True! I, enjoyed your Very Insightful video! Thank, you for taking the time to Share it! I, was interested in my neighbor and, he Rejected me stating that I have "Mommy Vibes" &, that he Prefers to date Women without children in which I have 2 boys... I'm, ok. With it -Well, I was UNTIL we hung out @ his place &, he TRIED HARD to get into My Pants He, said he dates 20 year olds so... I, Won't Compete. Friends, I'm Failing @... But, Sex was HARD NOT TO DO WITH HIM. But, it's just to feel, touch &, be close to him... 😩... I, Couldn't Break My 4+ Years of Celibacy/Abstinence &, Single the Entire time!!! To, Be someone's good enough to Poke ONLY. NO. I, DESERVE BETTER.🌬️💙💙💙.. LADIES, STAY 💪🏼✨

[fredflagstone]

I don't know who Amy North is. I stumbled across this video, but she said a mouthful when she said you can't sex your way into his heart.

[TeenK]

When it comes to texting, you don’t want to text each other all the time everyday, you’ll run out of things to talk about..

Stay busy.
He’ll fill in the gaps and don’t be short.
I’ve always found that if I just get on with my day whilst we’re texting, he gets more intrigued..

[jilliansmith]

I often get real interested in something, enjoy it for a while, and then it just wears off.  It could be that simple.  You were the flavor of the week.  Or he discovered something about you that turns him off but he still thinks you're a good person.  Why not take his behavior at face value.  If he doesn't text much anymore, maybe he just doesn't want to.   Just like the way I read the Harry Potter books twice, saw all the movies, and then I was done.  I'd gotten all I wanted from it and I quit calling, I quit texting...it was over.  Like that.

[vukadinmc]

To be fair, the ending wasn't that true at all, if you were to just ask him out then it would be sooo much easier, and would be the best chance at winning him over, not going away from him, now that's a mixed signal, and we, men, don't appreciate those AT ALL.
You see, when you ask a guy out in one of these situations, they either have never thought of the idea of dating you, they might actually feel positive about being with you, but still just want to go with your flow, or they could be just friendly. Simple as it is, they don't ghost you after you become just friends, since you've been that for some time. Again, men are extremely simple, and no, we aren't stupid, we like to keep things simple to make ours and other people's lives better, so if you want something from a man, tell him or ask him.

[karmaakabane]

Okay so I like a guy but here's the story: He originally liked me but I really didn't like him back at that time. We are still friends but I may have played too hard to get and now I'm pretty sure he doesn't really like me as more than a friend now and likes this other girl who doesn't like him back. (Sorry that was super confusing). We still text and talk a lot and he sometimes sends mixed signs like one minute he'll show the signs you talked about in your videos that he likes me, but then he will act like he doesn't or isn't interested. How do I get him to like me again and be interested in that way again (I ended up falling for him lol) and get out of the friend zone? Sorry for the long comment, but I really love your channel and videos, you give great advice! :)

[vanessaorsi]

Hi Amy, I have been talking to this guy for two months now. We met at the end of our semester in college and there was about only two-three weeks left before we are on summer for four months. Things moved pretty quickly at the beginning, from text everyday, hanging out after classes, and also kissed me a few times. Now that it's summer we have been separated by distance but he still made the effort to talk to me everyday and explain how much I meant to him saying I'm everything he has ever wanted. But also said that he is very busy and he knows it would be hard to make time for me but to know he wants too. We definitely have or "had" the same feeling for each other but over the past week he seems to have been pulling away a lot. We went from talking everyday to not talking for a week. I did still hear from him first after a week so he still has made the effort but our conversation don't feel the same and he ends up ignoring me after a while of talking. I'm not too sure what to think of this and maybe I'm getting a head of my self for liking him to much at this point but I was wondering if you had any further advice ? Thanks!

[carolburruss]

Once you develop feeling and you tell him things change.