How to Confront Your Cheating Spouse (Without Looking Crazy! )

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If you’re watching this video right now, then I’m sorry. Being cheated on is maybe one of the most difficult things anyone can go through. You feel betrayed, angry, sad… maybe even worthless and depressed. But as bad as things feel right now, just know that this isn’t your fault – there are almost no good reasons to cheat in a marriage.

But now you’re lost and confused and you don’t know how to approach this situation. Well, hopefully in this video, I can help you navigate through this very difficult spot.

1.) Has your relationship declined? Have you noticed that your spouse becoming more distant? Is he or she more apt to start fights? How’s your sex life? How often do you spend one on one time together? If you’ve noticed any of this change, it may be an indicator that your spouse might be interested in someone else.
2.) Have you observed any unusual behaviour? One of the most telling signs that your spouse is cheating on you is how they treat their phone. Have you noticed them fleeing to another room to answer phone calls? Are they very secretive when it comes to texting? When you ask them to use his or her phone, do they act strange? If they’re freaking out about their privacy surrounding their phone, this could be a strong indicator that they may be unfaithful to you (or at least talking to someone that they shouldn’t be talking to).
3.) Watch your finances. Has your spouse been spending a lot of money on something? If so, ask them about it. It’s not rude or wrong to ask why your spouse has been spending so much lately. If their reasons for spending more seems off, this could be another indicator that they’re cheating.
4.) If your spouse isn’t with you, ask them where they are. Again, it’s not rude to know where your spouse is. Write down where they are and when and try and connect the dots… is that place even open? Is he or she coming up with the same excuses all the time? You might unearth some strange patterns by asking them this simple question.

Also know that even if these four conditions are satisfied, it doesn’t mean he or she is for sure cheating on you. But knowing that your spouse is behaving in a peculiar way may encourage you to learn more about their potential infidelities.

Of course, there are other, more drastic ways to find out if your spouse is cheating. It’s not uncommon to hire a private investigator, but again, I feel quite strange recommending this to anyone. If you’re feeling desperate, then this is a potential option to explore.

Instead, know exactly what you’re going to say before entering the conversation, and expect a fiery response in turn. I also recommend talking in a non-accusatory tone of voice when speaking to your spouse. As much evidence as you may have, there may always be a chance that there’s a misunderstanding. Speak to your spouse as if you all you want to know is the truth. Don’t be overly aggressive, don’t yell, and don’t lash out and say anything that you’ll later regret. Do your best to keep your body language, voice, and emotions in check.


For example, if your spouse said that they were at the pub last night, and you have a sneaking suspicion that they weren’t, ask them which pub they went to. Then say your best friend was also there all night long too. After, observe how your spouse reacts. Do they begin to panic? Or are they calm? If you catch them on a lie, this is the time where you pounce and calmly accuse them of cheating. But if you’re unsure, then continue probing them.



Thanks for watching, and good luck.

[jamesdouglas]

she is my world my life and i love her more then anything. she cheated on me 3 times and lies. i dont trust her at all. everytime she leaves i worry where shes going whos shes with what shes doing. im going insane. im a good person and i deserve someone who doesnt cheat.

[Random_dudebro]

“No one deserves to be cheated on twice”
You lost me. No one deserves to be cheated on EVER.

[ajm]

Hi - I'm going through a very rough time right now. If you're reading this, and are also going through a very difficult time right now, I just want to wish you light, peace, love, joy, and happiness. May whatever it is you're going through change and turn for the better. God bless you! ♥️

[Keshiadalton]

My husband is a serial cheater. We have been together for 13 years and have 3 children together. I thought he was done after we went to counseling and a marriage retreat. Boy was I wrong. Thanks for the advice but I think I’m just going to disappear at this point 😂😂 disappear without a word.

[prilmac]

What should i do if my husband can't get off his phone. I feel like he's afraid when i even just touch his phone. And everything in his phone has passwords. Before, he used to call me if he has free time at work, but now he doesn't anymore. I feel so sad. I feel he is chatting with some girls online. I feel so so sad. Since the day i met him, i never flirt with anyone. Im always faithful to him, i always love and take care of him. But why he still chats online with some girls? Am I not enough? Pls help me sir🙏🙏🙏

[niblagamer]

We arent maried but being in a relationship for 4+ years to find out she has cheated behind my back has hurt so much. She slowly faded away from me and stopped sending hearts meanwhile she was sending them to another man double her age. Iam gonna confront her today after she told my sister so much about what they had done.

[pfjsxwb]

Most guys don't know they are getting cheated on!... So they probably won't be watching this video.

[gayleneflower]

They deny and say things like this "Oh no here we go again! I am sick of you constantly accusing me... I am out!"

[jamesleejr]

How can I trust her now? I work my butt off so she dont have to work. She says they started talking 3 months before I caught her. I live in Greenville and she was in sumter. But I have an job here. That pays very well. Thought of giving up with her. But this my second marriage trying make it work. She keeps saying she dont know why she did it. My first wife said she did it because she cant give me an big family. She gave me an daughter.

[michaelawilkinson]

what do you do when he cheated on you with his bestfriend who is a female, and then continues to want female friends (obviously not the girl he cheated with)? how do you navigate a situation like this.

[thunderwolfgt]

Sir, i just found out my wife cheated on me 10 years ago with my cousin.. i dont know what to do, please help, i never ever cheated because i loved her, had too many oportunities but always declined, the worst thing is that we had 2 kids, her knowing she cheated and thought i would never find out, what can i do??

[jaskell]

I knew cause my kids told me she was sneaking him in our house while I'm at work while their there. Smoking and drinking

[tarungambhir]

Hey Brad I purchased your extractor system and tried no contact. For 20 days now she says if u can leave without me for 20 days thn u can leave without me as well. Now she want me as a frnd only. And she also said k she don't want to come back.
Hlp me Brad pls what should I do?🙏

[gen_sis]

Im not the one being cheated on its my mom and i want to confront my dad about it

[MichelleShellHolliday]

I still live with my ex. We were together for 27yrs. He ended it 3 months ago.
I have my suspicions that he is seeing someone with 2 young children. I have found receipts for children's toys. He doesn't have any nephews etc.
How do I approach the subject? When we split he said he would be honest. He even told our grown up girls that he would tell them if anything was going on..

[Millyskitchen]

Hello brad.i know my boyfrnd is cheating on me...should I say him that I know he is cheating.should I make him realize he hurting me.i am in no contact for four month.but now I know with whom he is cheating on me....i want to make him realize that I know everything..

[taniaestevens]

Brad I wanted to buy ur program but I don't have a credit card or a PayPal account. I have a debit card and that it's not visa or MasterCard. Desperately need ur help.

[snailelbows]

Hey brad, my ex was having personal issues and she distanced herself from me badly before the break up, not wanting to see it speak to me for 2 months, I broke up with her thinking that's what she wanted at the time, it wasn't what I wanted but her being happy mattered to me more. The day after she said that isn't what she wanted and so I tried to convince her to work things out but she didn't want to, I begin the no contact and is coming up to 31 days in 3 days. Could you give me some advice or help?

[celiaescalante]

I found a post on my husband's friend that makes it seem like he's married to her. She says her husband, she posts his username with remarks about waiting for him. So, should I think she's been delusional? Should I think he's married to her? I asked him if she's his ex before I saw this and he said she's been his friend all his life. I can't get a private investigator because in his country that's not available. I don't want to leave the marriage. I will watch this video because I am calm, but I need ideas. I do know that our marriage represents financial plans that he's had, but he's always shown me that he loves me. Cheating and loving is a gray area. I want to know if he's been playing with my feelings. I want to know if the plans we have to stay happily married has been all a fantasy or lie.

[AyeItzEmily-uihj]

So my boyfriend isn't cheating but I'm suspicious and I'm scared of confronting him with false info also I'm scared to lose him. He told me (last weekend) that his phone would be taken bc his phone bill is too high and he would text as soon as he got it back. His grandparents said the same. But he's been posting on social media and on a game we played together one time but as soon as he saw me on he got off. Idk what to do I've been hurt by past relationships and I'd be completely broken if he hurt me too... everything feels right with him but he seems to be sneaking around. Any advice?