The Mother Wound: 7 Signs You Have It & How to Heal

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[juliash]

"You're an extreme empath, but you don't feel your own feelings or your gut feelings". This is so fucking true!

[dptfo]

I love this reminder of mirroring even 30% of the time. My little girl was crying and my little boy was laughing, because he squirted water in her face, so I mirrored her emotion and connected with her, and then I mirrored his emotion (silliness) and redirected him to squirt water in a different direction and they were both smiling within literal seconds and I’m a better mom today because of this advice

[aylinciccc]

Finally mother wound is talked about it’s always the romanticized daddy issues (I have both) but from my experience mother issues are the deepest cut you can ever get cause if your mother didn’t loved you unconditionally who’s gonna …

[moniz]

It's easy to say when your mum was busy that you understand she was not there for you. But it gets more complicated when she was there for the other silblings and emotionally neglected you, for whatever reason. My mum did many bad things to me that I can't forget and even if I put myself in her shoes, I still can't understand how you can treat a beautiful child like this. It was pure evil. I am not going to forgive and my feelings are valid.

[xcamilachica]

My entire life I felt that my mom was very harsh, critical, & distant. I never felt close or warm with her. 4 years ago I started my inner work journey & I feel that I resented her so strongly in the past 4 years than ever, & today, she is my best friend. I truly healed & forgave her finally, & knew in seeing herself as a human & woman, instead of resenting her for the past, things would change. They did, & I feel very safe & close to her now which I believe would be impossible considering her nature over all these years. There are always possibilities for growth, but the change starts with you.

[OMatic]

Please make the video on the Father Wound!

[Milioem]

My mother broke me!!!!
I am now thirty and although I strive to never be a victim of my past….it has been a tough journey of depression and self hate. I destroyed my own life thanks to my childhood issues that I didn’t know how to process.

[iconoclastic-fantastic]

"Follow your gut" to me just translates to "Follow that anxious feeling in your stomach", and I've found that in trying to listen to that "gut feeling" so many people talk about is just me enabling my OCD compulsions. My body is hardwired for anxiety thanks to the mother wound + cptsd

[denisecastellanos]

I don't resonate with most of the points anymore, but still sometimes find myself mourning every now and again. My mother is the type of person who is so highly egoic, she actively competes against me and makes me look bad in front of others. I have all but cut off contact. It was the only solution. I don't want a relationship with her at all. Interestingly enough, after I made this decision, it lead to more decisions which allowed people to came into my life who DO offer the support I need. Like a light switch being flipped. That is how manifestation works. Letting go of what does not serve to let in what does.

[jessicagoode]

You're videos have completely changed my life, I'm in a much better headspace because of you, I've watched many youtubers and you are by far the one that's impacted my life the most and changed my whole perspective on everything, thank you from a fellow Australian 🥰

[dptfo]

My mom never admits it when my kids are too much for her. The evidence is obvious, she gets snappy and frustrated, she gets stompy and bitter, and she gets so obviously annoyed by their presence that sometimes I have to walk away to cry. But when I ask her if she is ready for space, or if I tell my kids grandma doesn’t want us around right now, she will object like hearing and knowing that is going to hurt them. She has no clue how much that contradictory message hurts for a kid. “I want you here but I’m going to be annoyed and frustrated at you.” It’s so triggering for me, because my own childhood was that way. It would have hurt so much less if she had just told me that sometimes people need time and space to themselves. And that she loves me when I’m with her and when I’m not.

So as much as it bothers her, I always let my kids know, out loud, that grandma needs space right now. We will come back when she is ready for us

[bat_brat_]

I've recently moved in with my mother and realized how much resentment I have towards her. And I don't want to continue feeling this way. This video really helped. Thank you.

[utilisateur]

this made me cry i always feel like an inconvinience its so hard to be confident its like fighting against everything you learned from her

[bunnbun_thatgothchic]

I got screamed at and gaslighted from childhood on I blocked her this yr. She went off on my for not giving her money, and asking a question. I refuse to deal with the toxicity anymore in my early 30s.I didn’t get heart palpitations this time I was firm in my decision.

[georginakaye]

You listing the Mother wound:

Me. Me. Me. Yup, me. Ouch. Me. God - yes. Me.

My mother hasn't been in my life for 10+ years. I tell well-intentioned idiots - it's not the alcoholic I cannot forgive, it is the sober woman who never took accountability. Who lied about me to friends and family. The works.

I have two daughters, 10 and 4. It TERRIFIES me how this festering wound will effect them. I love them both so much and pour into their lives in so many ways. Yet - eventually I know they will see the depths of my pain. How could they not?

Thank you for this video, Margarita.

[aimee]

I genuinely do feel like I’ve become a stronger, more self confident and boundaried woman since discovering your content. Thank you for the mentorship ❤

[sahrishmansoor]

I'm a Muslim and I'm genuinely sending prayers your way, Margarita. To you and your children. Thank you for existing for us!

[emma]

This is so hard! Long story short, I cut contact with my mother for a good 6 years and about a year ago after a long personal journey I reached out to my mother and asked her to tell me her story and it's probably the best thing I've ever done in my life.

I am so happy I allowed myself to give her the space to open up, we're building a safe relationship now and it's helped me heal so much pain. Letting go of anger and disappointment and allowing others to be human is very freeing.

[lllllllladybuuuug]

me scrolling through the chapters/signs to see if this vid is for me going “ahahahh cool I have all of them!!!”

[felicia]

This is very true and then add in a Step Mother that did not want you to exist .