When They Won't Commit But Won't Let You Go Either...

Have you experienced this before?

Ultimately, there’s nothing generous or romantic about them not being able to let you go. It’s all about THEIR comfort—providing you with hope that never materializes into something real.
 

#Shorts #RelationshipAdvice #Commitment #MatthewHussey

[maryl]

"Just let me waste your time while I continue my search for someone better than you."

[fedesperanza]

Soooo true. Possessiveness, self-centredness and controlling behavoiur... committed only to their own convenience...keeping you on their leash, always available to satisfy their needs..

[Imabelieva]

‘That’s not a generous act’ hit the nail on the head 💡

[asnoopy]

The worst part of narcs is that they don't (want to) let you go.

[bettyboop]

Annoyingly, it’s so easy to feel special to them when they say that!

[robertrussell]

This is the exact phrase that kept me on the hook for years. And what ultimately made me let her come back and tear me down all over again.

[Mayfloweralways]

This is the best description i have seen. It explains that it’s manipulation and totally selfish. Nothing to do with you. Everything to do with manipulating your emotions to get what they want. If they really cannot let you go, they would commit to you.

[TamaraKnowles-iyib]

LOUDERRR, FOR THE ONES AT THE BACK. MATTTT🎉🎉🎉🎉

[k.domenica]

Say it Matthew, Say it!!! Thank you Matthew our Angel. God bless you.

[kimberley-zgql]

So freaking true and scary... Thanks Matthew

[bruci]

Protect this man at all cost. Thank you, sir!

[SophieOrozcoCoaching]

That's such a tough spot to be in, and you deserve someone who's truly all in. ❤️

[lilycha]

Yup. I still would've wanted to be with him after we parted in healthy terms, but him breadcrumbing me and violating the no contact rule a couple of times turned me off so much I'm now fully convinced dumping me was the best thing he ever did for me.

[craighalcrow]

Wow 😮 this is spot on .. love the enthusiasm.. narcissist be gone !! Giving myself a brighter happier future away from drainers .)

[MariaCosta-gofc]

I just love Matthew’s wisdom and how he articulates it, so filled with sentiment. He speaks from the heart and knows what he is talking about. It is so refreshing and helpful 🙏🤗

[kylieholmes]

So true. Thank you for the reminder. I needed to hear this as this happening for me right now

[crissycobain]

Wow.. I never thought about it that way. Thank you, Matthew!

[alexandra]

This is what happened to me in a 1 year relationship with a married narcissist waiting for him to divorce.

[JackieStringer-ndtt]

Thank you. It hurts to hear this but it is exactly what I have experienced.

[donnadavidson]

OMG...I needed to hear this!!! Thank you, thank you, thank you....God bless you for giving us this message ❤