Protect Your Pretty Privilege! Gatekeep & Move in Silence!

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This may seem harsh, but I'm rarely around broke and unattractive women. They can be quite bitter, catty, and dangerous. Not sorry!

EconomicWarfare
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Pretty girls HAVE to gatekeep…. I never fell for the social media trend bc some things need to be a mystery

mjelani
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Babes, I GATEKEEP NOW!!! When I told people how to level up, they never did it and then tried to bully me for leveling up after I told them what to do. Now, I just say that I woke up like this. 💅🏽

audreym.f
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I find that even if you tell people what you do to be fit or have tailbone length hair, these people are way too lazy to be consistent. We all have the internet and libraries. The trial and effort to find out what works for you is it's own journey. I went to cosmetology school, make my own beauty products, eat whole foods, water fast weekly, monthly and seasonally, exercise, massage my scale daily, sleep on a satin pillow case, prioritize relaxation , get quality sleep, have regular bowel movements and eat vegetarian. Those are the basics and very vague and not on purpose. Use ingredients that are natural that you understand and eat a vegetable soup with navy beans at least 4 days a week. Laziness is at an all time high but solutions are out there. Have a fun and appreciative mindset when you beautify yourself. As a married mother of 4 I make time for these things and it's sooo worth it.

imandalton
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Interesting. I remember an UABW asked me how I got my teeth so white. So, I told her that I did Zoom years ago and that now I simply maintain it with bleaching trays when I need too. Someone later on complimented me on my smile and how white my teeth were, and the same chic jump up and said “ it’s because she BLEACHES them. I looked at her like that’s right, it’s expensive too, most can’t afford it! I sure did say it because WTF was that about. I suppose she thought she was trying to expose me……didn’t work.

GoBelindaGo
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Yup !!! Game ain’t free! Gone are the days of me writing workout routines and meal plans for overweight friends and meeting up with girls which turns into an interview of what I do for everything . Bye 👋🏻

habibtiz
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Someone told me i was only pretty cus i was lightskin and i believed it. Then i had my daughter and she has MY WHOLE FACE but darkskin and this girl is gorgeous. People literally stop us to compliment her and it got me thinking how i could ever believe such a thing when this baby girl is beautiful and not cus of her being “lightskin”

imdinma
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"Real G's move in silence like lasagna" has really stuck with me through the years.

bre
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BTW what you say about generational pretty privilege is spot on! My grandmother won a contest for "most attractive pregnant lady" in Atlanta back in the 1950s. We have the newspaper articles to prove it! Mind you, the city was highly segregated at the time and white women still voted for her. 😅

Bluesmoke
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Never stop making these videos!!! I am one of those girls who are constantly leveling up. Every time people see me they comment on my progress, what I'm doing, and ask how I achieved XYZ. They would grill me for answers but would never do it. It took me awhile to realize they just wanted to be nosy and find "the source" of my glow up so they didn't have to credit me for it. You're the first person who helped me realize being able to glow up is a skill. I used to have people tell me they were taking notes whenever they saw me and I thought they were joking but I see now they were serious. These were people who wouldn't really compliment or validate me, only question me on what I'm doing and how I did it. I used to think I was doing life wrong because they barely say anything to me. I see now it's because I was doing it better than them. They were secretly taking notes and just didn't want me to know I was their inspiration.

privacywanted
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This is so true! I had a friend say … the only reason I stay skinny is bc I I eat a granola for breakfast with coffee. She was huge.

AyyBaybay
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I don't gatekeep, but after listening to this video, I will 😂

yolandavicente
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First they make fun of you, then they COPY you. I’d tell my ex best friend I buy all my clothes on shein and fast to lose weight and gym. First she’s saying how it’s so cheap and bad quality. After we break up, she’s buying on shein!!!

DO NOT share your beauty secrets ladies!!!

monicadrew
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Honestly I am not worried - I don’t gate keep because I know they just can’t do it like me - they can try but you can’t become a chef overnight by cooking one recipe.

They can copy my style but without my slim thick/petite body it won’t slay the same. They can copy my makeup but their eyes are not a big almond like mine so my face card cannot be replaced. They can copy my hairstyle but I get to wear my butt-length Indian hair to bed because it’s from my scalp. They can copy my workout, but they would never push themselves as hard and lift as much as I can. They can learn what I know, but their minds will not be able to analyze like me.

Confidence is knowing you are irreplaceable

nannaed
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There's only one person I tell about my things and that's because she loves what I do and she does the routines... She now even has her own routines and tells me about them... We share so many tips and tricks and our friendship has become stronger because of it! We both put in the work and uplift each other! I got really lucky with her❤

alignedandobsessed
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Omg i have had that happen when they will try to use my tips against me or act like they told me the tip and not the other way around🙄

ExoticalSauce
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When I first started getting clients this really used to irritate me because women would walk up to me in the gym and be like "you're so pretty how do I look like to you" and I would literally write out step by step everything I ate everything I did and they would not even try. So now I charge handsomely lol. I've been telling women for years now to stop eating so many carbs, all these random vegetables, seed oils, junk food and sugar. eat protein and lift weights. If you don't like lifting weights walking is the next best thing that (doesn't make you super hungry or cause injury) but you can't just walk for 5-10 minutes you need to be walking (10-20k steps) and wear your waist trainer AT LEAST 5 times a week.... nobody wants to hear that. My hair is down my back, I drink a lot of bone broth, I eat lots of salmon, steak, bison and I oil my scalp on a regular basis. " oil makes my hair frizzy. Salmon is expensive... I dont want to smell like fish. I dont want to get fat or bulky, thats a lot of meat" and im standing there with a tiny waist, clear skin, toned legs and a nice booty... like 😂😂😂 this is why I like hanging around guys sometimes because if a guy tells his homies "I eat a pound of ground beef and six eggs and do bench presses and that's how I got jacked" the homies literally go do that and glow up together. You see it all the time at the gym there's always a group of four guys sharing a machine and in a couple months they all look good. Woman just be so messy for no reason. And it sucks because when I do talk to other pretty, successful women I really do want to learn from them and support them.

bre
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I realized my last two “friends” were jelous. Trying to compete with me. I’m naturally slim but I eat VERY clean, I walk, I’m naturally funny & bubbly. I have 3C/4A healthy hair and I’m alwaysss trying to level up. I’m DONE giving advice. Both of those girls were big. And would say stuff like “whew chile idk how you do all that” but lowkey admire me. Gatekeeping starts now. I liked this video!

dejanasnaturalway
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I gatekeepe too, bc I get tiered of people wasting my time, and then them saying “that’s too much work” after I done sat there and explained myself. People want to eat crab legs, hot Cheetos, and drink Mountain Dew, and drink alcohol every weekend, wash their face with a dove soap bar, change their pillow case 3 times a year, wear frontals glued down for months and months, and wonder why their skin is bad, their hair won’t grow and they can’t lose weight.

KiaRoane
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My daughter was so beautiful and she had so many haters. She came home crying because her hair was curly. The other girls had straight hair and they were so mean to her.

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