DIVORCE PANDEMIC!! WHAT'S THE CAUSE? - EP 17 || BITTER TRUTH SHOW

#MARRIAGE #RELATIONSHIP #DIVORCE

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[AliDawah]

The Prophet ﷺ said: “Whoever builds a Mosque for Allah, Allah will build for him a similar house in Jannah.”

If you support this project, you will in sha Allah get a house in Jannah and share in the rewards of all the people:

✅ Praying in the Masjid!
✅ Making Dhikr!
✅ Memorizing the Qur’an!

[Sunsun]

I got married young. The brother was supposedly practicing. Prayed all his prayers. Turns out he’s a serial cheater and narcissist. I caught him cheating and left. He still can’t own up for his mistakes. Alhamdulilah no kids. I plan of remarrying when Allah wills for me

[saadiqa]

Alhamdulilah we never met or saw each other until after Nikah..was 19 he 21
Married for 50 beautiful magnificent years.. Our arguments must have been only as much as could be counted by fingers
Went thru many trials tribulations but the axis was always jocular😅
Sadly Almighty Allaah called him 18 months ago and the pain of separation wrenches like a knife within
Alhamdulillah
Almighty Allaah was so Merciful❤

[ameenaola]

What this episode was missing was the perspective amd wisdom of a man and a woman who have been married for a long time (over 20 years) and have made it work and are still making it work. We can learn from such people.

[zappernarven]

I'm a new Muslim. Alhamdulilah i reverted 2 years ago. I really love how our brothers and sisters on this podcast are lowering their gaze while listening to each other. MasyaAllah. Alhamdulillah for Islam.

[MCrYsTaL]

Zeeshan is on 🔥🔥🔥 He needs to be on the show more. Wonderful input from him. May Allah bless our marriages.

[Nazia.S]

Brother Zeeshan spoke with a lot of wisdom and made the most sense MashaAllah. His realistic and emotionally mature approach to this topic is setting clear levels. If only more people had this level of understanding. JazakAllah khair

[Seanus]

1) Criticism 2) Defensiveness 3) Contempt/resentment 4) Stonewalling - Well said by Hijab. It is horrible to be on the receiving end of these. Crushing! It takes away your character, even. The sister is right to mention compatibility. We try the test but if a toxic relationship takes us away from our best behaviour and drains us, we cannot give that.

[Freetheworld]

Wow no one is meant to be the soul mate is the person you decide to make it work with - this is the single most best and hopeful quote I have ever heard and needed to hear. Thank you brother.

[shifayanasrine]

Brother Zeeshan and the sisters made strong points. Br. Hijab's perspective on divorce could potentially harm our Muslim community's approach to handling such matters. I advocate that only mature adults should enter marriage. As Muslims, it's our duty to ensure the well-being of our children resulting from these unions. With the increasing prevalence of divorces, it becomes challenging. Additionally, it's important to give space for the sisters to express themselves. I found Br. Hijab's constant interruptions and laughter towards a counselor sister's points condescending. While I typically respect Br. Hijab's opinions, this time, I find myself disagreeing with his views

[sobyali]

Absolutely ridiculous. To be so casual about divorce. No it’s not ‘just’ pain. When you lose your parents is it “just” pain?! What Hijab said is actually the reason why divorce has become so prevalent, to belittle it and water down its traumatic and negative impact on society. Thank you brother Zeeshan for your more respectable advice to men and woman regarding commitment and the integrity in taking this commitment seriously.

[rifakhan]

100℅ agree with Zeeshan sir over Mohammad hijab

Glorifying divorce is so wrong, mature people should only seek their partners people shouldn't intend to go for the trial and error method in the the case of marriage at all. But if it doesn't work after giving 100% then that is a different thing. Marriage should be taken seriously and the spouse should compromise with love and respect

[Dianeek]

I was reverted to Islam since 5 years and 25 years old when I got married to my husband.
He was 14 years older than me, married and with 4 kids.
We met only twice in public spaces, before getting married.
Now Alhamdulillah everything is good.
But what I want to say with this comment is that, in the 5 years in which I were Muslim, but before knowing my husband, I did dress modestly but without hijab. After getting married, I listened to my husband when he told me that niqab is the best kind of hijab, and went from nothing to being a niqabi.
I also became more consistent with prayers!
This is to say, that the right marriage can make a person better.
And now as I said everything is good. InshaAllah I'm having my first child, and his 6th.

[uzmas]

"I am going to change him" This is pushed on women from their mothers or MIL in desi families. Many husbands in our culture are mommy's boys.

[HelloimthisguyYT]

“Whoever draws close to Me by the length of a hand, I will draw close to him by the length of an arm. Whoever draws close to Me the by length of an arm, I will draw close to him by the length of a fathom. Whoever comes to Me walking, I will come to him running”
Sahih Muslim 2687

[somao]

You cannot get married just to save yourself from eg zina when you are not ready for marriage.. you need to think about the other person! You can’t use another person & then when it doesn’t work out you just leave them & say it was just to ‘test the waters’…

[arfamustasam]

Muhammad Hijab is so toxic. Perfect depiction of toxic masculinity. Don’t marry a woman who’s not wearing a hijab and then force her to wear one. Find a woman who wears a hijab if that’s your make it or break it requirement. I’m in shock at how he spoke and how he kept cutting off the women & the main narrator when they were speaking.

[shanahdil]

I got married early came to England.. My husband and i were practicing on and off.. I try not to back bite him.. But he has an addiction.. I thought thing will get better but never did.. After 18 years of marriage and one child.. We are divorced but alhamdullilah I'm closer to Allah swt and understand why Allah swt planned this.

[jouharfarah]

That is completely true. Qur’an, it's a set of instructions that must be followed to succeed Either in Life or hereafter. And I'll never stop saying that we are blessed with the Quran.الحمد لله ✨️🕊

[norrie]

Subhanallah I noticed Zeeshan had his head down the whole time when he spoke. May Allah reward him.

Btw, Oh Allah bring victory to this ummah.