How To Make The First Move! | Courtney Ryan

In this video I go over some scenarios where I think you should make the first move, signs she wants you to and some tips on how to do it successfully! It can be difficult to put yourself out there and go for it but at the end of the day it's better to at least say you tried. I believe in all of you and don't forget... confidence is sexy! Hope you all enjoy and find this helpful ☺️

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[tstreb]

The best rejection I ever got was, "Hey, thanks for asking. I am flattered, but to be honest, I'm not attracted to you and don't want to waste your time. Good luck." Direct communication is what men want and love!

[joehepburn]

" The worst thing she can say is no. "
me: * asks her out *
her: I thought you were gay
me: * dies inside *

[josephfogarty]

“Rejection lasts a minute. Regret lasts forever.” -Alpha M

[chenenzejackson]

I don't have a problem if she says no, I appreciate the honesty. What I do have a problem with is her not replying at all. Like I don't exist.

[parabadaba]

Me to myself: "The worst she can say is no."
Her: "Ew."

[JohnnySoccer]

Courtney’s like that sister that you have that’s always looking out for you especially when you’re having trouble with dating.

[palamecianrider]

"Just ask her out" was the thing I always keep in mind especially if the fears start to creep in. Worked wonders but I'm still making sure that the plans are set and my actions done with tact

[bahaatamer]

1. Make the first move
2. Ask her out on a date
3. Going for a Hug/Kiss (OH GOD, THE KISS! - THIS ONE IS A NIGHTMARE TO GET IT RIGHT)
4. Physical Intimacy

[Kjertinge]

My grandpa always said to me when it came to girls, if I can be brave for a minute the possibilities are endless.

Especially if you’re someone who is introverted/shy. If you can just step out of your comfort zone for 1 minute, you might end up with someone meaningful. As soon as you can spark the conversation it’ll become easier as the date or interaction continues

[toymachine]

If she rejects a kiss say, “it’s ok, I didn’t brush my teeth either” and smile.

[badsr]

Always make the first move. Get used to rejection, but get even more used to success.

[hannaassaad]

I wish more girls had a calm smooth voice like Courtney's

[austinrising]

One thing that helped me avoid fear of making a move was going out seeking failure and rejection. As in, “I’m going to go and get 100 overt ‘no’s’ in a row” and if I get a “yes”, it resets the counter. Seeking rejection consistently freed me up more than pressuring myself to go find success.

[Elluzive]

That feeling when you craft the perfect witty message and get no response. 🙃

[alexanderjacksonart]

'The worst thing that she can say is no'- I think that's one of the better things she can say since the 3rd option is 'yes' and then just flake out later because rejecting people is awkward so just say yes and then pretend to be busy everyday forever. At least 'no' won't waste your time.

[JosueRealty]

If she rejects your kiss at first, don’t feel awkward or dejected just play it cool. It’s not unusual for the girl to come back around and kiss you later that night!

[Lifes_Frosting]

About going in for a kiss on the first date my advice is to hold off until the second date or just kiss her cheek. If she’s looking at
you like she wants to kiss, not kissing her builds tension and leaves her wanting more. You’ll be on her mind and she will be anticipating the next date.

[Stephen-]

I was cursed with scoliosis since my early teens and it destroyed me mentally I lost all my self esteem and confidence.

There were so many woman I wanted to ask in my late teens and through my 20's and didn't and I live with regret everyday it never goes away and is a nightmare to live with I am 47.

Guys if you see a girl you like ask her out just go for it because regret is way worse than rejection.

[shanejones]

You’re an angel Courtney. You give a lot of these dudes the encouragement they need to especially coming from a pretty woman like yourself it’s a breath of fresh air.

[FH-isej]

So basically the main point of making the first move is to pay extra attention to subtle things. I wish I was a psychologist or a communication expert I think it would help a lot in this case. Anyway's thanks for the awesome video I learned a lot!