5 Stages of Grief and the Grieving Process

[carolineday]

My mother passed away and I am glad that I'm at the best stage, acceptance, after about a year I am only 12, if I can do it than you can do it too

[gingerdaye]

It's been 2 months since my mom and my best friend died. I'm a signal parent to two daughters and a new miracle baby boy. My husband walked out of our life for 3 months now. I'm going crazy..im hurting too much. My heart feels heavy like I'm having a heart attack. I am still mad. I'm pissed. Im never gonna forget the past. She is my mother.

[michaeld.williamsiii]

I’ve lost about six people within the last year a good friend about two weeks ago making him the sixth. So grief for me has been quite difficult and sometimes the sadness, numbness, emptiness, feels like it’ll never end.😥💔🥀 Thanks Mr. Carl for this video, “Everyone Grieves Differently” it’s very true.😭 Sometimes the pains hits so deep because those who’ve gone you want so badly to return...😢

[sand]

I lost my wife of 26 years Nov 9, 2020 due to heart failure. Though I've been through loss such as the death of my father, loosing a spouse this way must top the stress chart. I realize I must go through the stages of grief but it's so very difficult when dealing with organizing a funeral, contacting my wife's friends, suddenly being alone in a home without her and the sudden financial burden thrust upon me finds me overwhelmed. Perhaps after all the funeral services are done the healing begins. As an introvert I process internally and keep to myself. In the era of covid it seems most are doing the same. But yes, grieving is difficult and it sucks big time!

[macabre_delights]

Very interesting video. I'm here because I'm angry. My mother died almost a year ago because of pancreatic cancer and I've finally accepted I need to talk to someone and am starting counselling next week. I just moments ago took my anger out on my TV and broke the screen. My blood is still boiling. I just know that know that my grief is the main reason for my anger.

[kellycollins]

My heart aches. I feel like it has been torn from my chest and ripped to shred. My soul is empty. You have given me kindness with this videa. Thank you.

[mate]

I feel lonely, i keep crying every day

[bobbymack]

Thank you so much for the video. My best friend lost his girlfriend earlier this year. I’ve been checking on him and he’s still not feeling well ( like random panic attacks, skipping work, and crying himself to sleep.) I’m not giving up on him and doing the best as I can to be there for him. Please keep him your prayers. 😢😢😢😢😢😢

[Stacyannecole]

Brilliant. The best explanation I have ever heard regarding grief. It is spot on. Hopefully one day I will reach acceptance

[yehyeh]

My father passed from cancer three weeks ago.. The first few of these sounds just me and what i am going through. Thank you for your video.

[gilbertjaramillo]

I just lost my wife a month ago due to kidney and bone cancer. I have always thought myself as a strong person but my grief is so overwhelming that I cry everyday. I was married to a wonderful spouse for over 45 years and now it seems like the world around me does not exist. I have lost interest in all my home projects and am lost. Fortunately I am retired, otherwise I would not have been able to concentrate at work. I just hope that acceptance comes quickly so I can move on. My two adult kids(in their 40's) are not married so our family bloodline will end with all our eventual deaths. I just hope to keep going for them, but they themselves are grieving for their mother, as she spoiled them terribly. Thank you for the very instructive video.

[JesusisLord..]

Thank you so much for the soothing video. Today is my birthday, and my mother died yesterday. She was an alcoholic my whole life and our relationship was distant. The grief is more intense than I ever could’ve imagined. I thought I would not cry because she was so abusive and horrible to me and my brother and everybody in this life.

[murka]

My ex forced me to sell my house 9 years ago and moved all my money to his business, he made me and our son homeless. All this years I was in denial ... and now I understand, I need to go through all stages. I will try my best. don’t know where to start. Thanks for the video

[christopherstewart]

having just lost my brother my dad and my dog within a month, i cant make sense of the world right now i feel lost alone and the hurt im feeling is so intense. at leastcounselor carl has helped a little

[MiauxCatterie]

ive been having a really hard time since my husband left me and i had to move into a small room in another town. thank you for this video. it's been helpful to me. i think i'm finally processing things in a way i was not letting myself before.

[victoriagaylord]

I lost my husband and my father within five months this year. Its rough!! Hardest year of my life. I'm 52 and still have my whole life ahead of me. I'm going through the hardest. Anger, bargaining and depression
I'm living in hotels now, no way to live. Self destructive, still working on that. I know I will reach acceptance some day, but, damn, it hurts like hell

[timhughes]

Thanks so much!! 4.5 years after my mother died, I am "accepting" what will never be what it was before. I am learning that going through more and more grief to keep my mother "alive' is not worth it anymore and I must do what i can for the future. I am learning she would not want me to be broken by this so long. Thanks!!

[leetrichell]

I went through shock of my mother's passing for decades. After major personal struggles I had a breakdown in 2006 and the grief hit me hard. My sister passed from cancer about two weeks ago and I don't think I went through a shock phase. I suffered with her as she declined from a smart and healthy loving sister that I felt secure to frail and in hospice care she faded. I never go a day without crying. When I found out about her going to hospice if treatments didn't work, that is when my grief started. I am getting therapy and have to stay medicate. One tiny bit of strength is a message she sent to me via another family member writing. "Be strong." I did not get that message until the day after she passed. I am weak.. toggling in between grief and how do I find a purpose to keep going without her. I tell her to wait for me and light candles. I know she isn't suffering but a part of me feels like she left me and others who needed and depended on her. My heart is broken over that my own dad felt secure with her, now he grieves. My heart breaks deeply for him. This is all still fresh. Videos did explain some things that made me understand better how I broke down so horribly after decades of my mother's passing. Now I am searching in a dark room for relief from my sister's passing.

[Stacyannecole]

One of if not THE best Videos on griefs. I lost my mom to cancer 3 years ago and navigating the process has been daunting . I am finally on step 2 as step one I was stuck on unable to find a way out. Thank you for this video as I do see the proverbial light

[blacknbougie]

I loss my boy a few days ago. Grief and despair are two merciless monsters that devour ppl into a shell of themselves. You're consumed with fear and you don't even know how to find the courage to live again. I hate it here.