How To Know They Are The ONE

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How To Know They Are The ONE

In this week's live stream, my wife and I discuss in detail issues found in the dating world. We go through 13 red flags that you should look out for and avoid while cultivating a relationship. We share the difference between real love and obsessive love and answer your questions at the end.

Chapters:
0:00 - Intro
Four Principles to Dating
0:50 - The Bible focuses more on purity than who one should date
2:58 - Be the right person rather than finding the right person
6:07 - The Bible limits our options to “ONLY IN THE LORD” when it comes to who is the right person we should be with
20:22 - Find the right person by following God's Word, common sense, and listening to godly counsel
13 Red Flags in Dating:
22:28 - 1. Having a relationship with God is not a priority
23:52 - 2. Their actions and words don't match
24:38 - 3. If they have close friends who are not committed to the Lord
25:16 - 4. Has a wandering eye
27:24 - 5. Recently got out of a relationship without healing properly
30:42 - 6. A person shows signs of controlling or abusive behavior
32:18 - Six characteristics of obsessive love
33:19 - 7. They have sinful habits, addictions, and struggles
35:59 - 8. They don't respect purity and have no desire to wait till marriage to have sex
38:03 - 9. You don't want kids to become like them
38:53 - 10. You don't have peace about marrying this person
29:29 - 11. Your mentors and family feel iffy about this person
40:11 - 12. This person has distracted you from God, the church, and close friends
42:19 - 13. You are already praying for God to change that person
42:48 - Final thoughts about red flags in dating
47:45 - How did you know I was the one for you?
53:22 - Overcome the fear of the past
59:36 - How did you know the person before was not the one?
Taking Questions:
1:05:36 - Should people marry a person with the same spiritual gifts
1:06:45 - Kissing before marriage?
1:08:09 - How to deal with your man if he is tempted to watch porn
1:11:30 - Do consequences follow you?
1:13:10 - Do you have to go to church to meet a man who loves God?
1:16:44 - How do you balance waiting on the Lord to bring a spouse vs dating apps?
1:19:52 - If my BF/GF is against deliverance?
1:21:12 - Is it okay to be married to my husband who is not a believer?
1:22:04 - Will God make me marry a girl I don't like?
1:24:53 - How do I start working on my marriage?
1:25:57 - Is there an age difference that should be avoided?
1:27:57 - Should I marry within my ethnicity?
1:36:00 - Shop our merch!

TAKEAWAY NOTES FROM TONIGHT’S STREAM:

1. The Bible focuses on walking in purity more than on how one should date.

Purity is being without mixture.
It’s an issue of the heart, not the body. Ps.24v4; Mt. 5v8
It’s not a point you reach but a pursuit after God.

2. The Bible focuses more on being the right person than on finding the right person.

3. The Bible limits our options to “ONLY IN THE LORD” when it comes to who is the right person we should be with. (2 Corinthians 6v14)

4. The Bible doesn’t teach that God plays a lottery with relationships, He gives liberty to marry whom we wish. (1 Corinthians 7v39)

• It’s better to wait for God to bring the right person than to wait for God to fix the wrong person you bring to God.

• Don’t be blind to what you see during dating: a spoonful in dating will be tons in marriage.

• Before we get married, we tend to focus on what we want; but when we are married, we will be focused on what we need.
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Ways to Support the Ministry:
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vladhungrygen
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"If you're addicted, you need deliverance and discipline, not dating." Come on somebody 🔥🔥🔥

hannahcharmaine
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I’m in Russia. Got saved last year and changed my life 360. And I love Pastor Vlad’s preaching ❤️❤️ bless you and your wife

tchissolafigueiredo
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Marriage is not your identity, your identity is in Christ! 🔥🔥🔥

abbz
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"The perfect love casts out fear" that's a good one!!!!

kylacakes
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Literally made me cry when Lana said she had to remind her self " I am a new creation" when she felt rejected and all her fears came back about being not good enough after her past.. ladies, you are a new creation, let God do his work.. Like an onion.. let each layer fall off. This goes for guys as well, let God renew your mind daily. - I had to tell myself- I am an new creation! - I am a new creation!!

chloeg.
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I am 41 years old never thought about marriage or settling down because I was always having to much fun lusting for women at the night clubs for half my life. I started attending my local church to brake free from sin and after one year of attending bible college and serving as usher, for the first time I want to get married to a woman of God and I no longer desire to go to the night clubs to seek woman. So far, there is one young woman who has been so nice to me at church since day one, and I am believing and asking God for her to be the one thank God and these pastors for helping me brake free.

ysierra
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"If you’re single and you’re dating someone who’s addicted and they don’t seek deliverance nor do they want to put any kind of disciple in their lives, drop them like a hot potato and run from them like a plague." PREACH! Thank you, God, for this!

msluna
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Very good!

"Men usually fall in love with their eyes, women with their ears." Great point!

marytetreault
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I was waiting for God to show me my husband 😂😂😂😂😂 but thank you for this video. It has changed my perspective

melissawabacha
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You both are so precious! This old lady is in tears listening to you. I love you in Christ,
Grandma

---wuqj
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Watching this at my job- work overnights as a Crisis Counselor on the 988 Suicide Hotline and watching you guys has truly blessed me and I’m sure it also blessed the people I counsel!!! Bc I get to extend everything I learn here to them. Thank you ❤️ Praise Jesus

SalwaAmin-fn
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Made me laugh when you talked about Red Flag number 13-Praying to change the person.- IT SPOKE TO ME INDEED! "It's better to wait for God to bring the right person to you than to wait for God to change the wrong person" God surely wants me to watch this. Also, thank you Lana for reminding me that God loves us and that we are precious to Him and that we are WORTHY! I love you guys! God is using you to be a blessing to us. To God Be The Glory! Everything you talked about, gives me enough confirmation from the Lord! Thank you heaps! - Jessie from Philippines.

jeanalanis
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I wish my daughters find a man like this pastor!! It is a meddle in a haystack....and he was sound enough to find a lady of the Lord like his wife! She also was wise enough and blessed enough to choose him. Thank you sooo much for allowing Father to use your talents! I am sharing this with my children. May be high-school kids, Yet is never to early to learn!

MariAna-vukb
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OK so it's five minutes in and pastor Vlad is already coming for me. "You want someone to take care of you but are you taking care of you?" ... oh Lord Jesus help me

cluesonliving
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Amen. She is telling my story. I have a dirty past, always feared I will never been married with a good Godly man.

Lovelybeliever_
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I am rewatching and married. I am a believer but my husband is not. This video has been great counsel to me. Not to try to change him but to change myself.
Thank you

julietdumas
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As a single man, open to a kingdom marriage, this gave me hope and helped me to self access and access who I entertain in hopes of developing a relationship with them

ronniehull
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In a time where preachers act supra Holy and as if sin never came their way, we have this couple time and again talk about their mess and use their sin to teach us to stay away from sin. This is the kind of teaching we need. Love you guys.

pradeepsilas
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Identifying abusive, narcissistic or obsessive suitors, reviewing his or her closest friends who are not decent or godly and the people he or she follows on Facebook, etc. also are EXTREMELY important and are at the top of my list.

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