Dark Psychology Tricks 🖤🧠 w OnlyJayus - #Shorts

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“when someone punishes you because they can’t communicate their own feelings”
iv never heard that put better tbh

herewegoagain
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Please note: not all of these things are done maliciously. Some people experienced this growing up from parents so they think it’s normal, some people only got affection and attention from their parents when they acted this way. This doesn’t excuse the behavior, but keep this in mind.

flatbread
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the "silent treatment" can also be a trauma response, being overwhelmed with confrontation or emotion can cause the body and mind to just go "yeah nah no emotions, no thoughts, lets just lockdown until it fixes itself :)" which is super frustrating

Luna_Kobold
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That last one is literally a discription of addiction

snap.-_-
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"I'll send you lovebombs after the war" hits different now 💀

avamadiboo
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The silent treatment can also be a defense against toxic people, sometimes people do some obviously shitty things and it pisses you off so much you don't want to speak to them, not until they apologise at least.

Atom_X.
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I’d like to see two people who memorized all of onlyjayus’ videos trying to manipulate each other

Slightly_Toasted
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Awesome thing about silent treatments and cold shoulders, when you have siblings you ignore it. I had a co-worker who was upset with something I said. Gave me the silent treatment and when she was done told me what was up. Then followed it up with "that's why I gave you the silent treatment", my response was " oh, I didn't notice. Having sisters you ignore it." Then walked away.

lizziekaptain
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I unintentionally do the silent treatment. I'm either afraid of hurting them again, or its one of those times where I can't speak because I feel so guilty and pressured.

Deviousness
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the first one is so true. people be like “actually- nevermind..” and i’m just like “okay.” like man i’m not gonna do this with you 💀

OnlyAbriS
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honestly love the great danes in the background of the beginning 😭

qosvczt
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As an introvert who dislikes people and gets happy when people leave me alone. I just know I'm never falling for manipulative people's BS. I never care enough about them and it's actually a problem my friends had with me but I'm fixing it for my friends and the manipulative one's just gave up on me.

RandomSwiftie
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icl the pettiness towards Mattie is what I’m living for rn
edit: lol get ur popcorn for the argument and yes, I believe Mattie cheated on bella
edit 2: all y’all switchin sides rq now that Mattie came out w their “apology”

fishy_blublub
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The silent treatment thing needed to be talked about. It’s a horrible and childish thing to do to someone. I had a friend that would get mad and me and ignore me but never tell me why and I feel into the trap every time and we were best friends for maybe eight years and then finally she told me she didn’t want to be friends anymore after eight years of me trying to be enough for her. But in the long run I’m so glad she cut me out because I finally met my true people who love me for me and communicate their feelings.

callierichards
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Love bombing is no joke man, fell into a very bad relationship because of that crap. Never wanna deal with it again.

Rizzitriver
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the silent treatment is kind of a reaction or coping mechanism for me. if i’m so upset with someone and their bothering me/trying to talk to me instead of screaming and possibly doing something stupid i just choose to use the silent treatment as a form of self control until i’ve calmed down/ found a way to respond

ihatemyschool
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The only person I really considered my best friend because they were the only friend I consistently hung out with when I was younger used to use all these tricks on me and as soon as it stopped working I never heard from them again. Growth hurts.

taylorbrowning
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I do all that UNCONSCIOUSLY, then question why I attract unwanted attention. 💀💀💀

j.e.r.
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Bro I kinda needed 2 hear that cause it’s been so hard lately to figure my life out so it’s actually kinda helpful to know what toxic or manipulative traits to avoid

karissabartlett
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The first one, I learned about that a while ago and love seeing the people’s reactions when I just say “oh okay.”

ImstraightforBakugou