Dark psychology trick to tell if somebody likes you 

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Some people(like myself) are really terrible at comforting people even though we feel for you

flapjack
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This test is extremely flawed. I'm pretty sure anyone would comfort someone crying, even if they disliked you the natural human instinct is to comfort. Only extreme assholes would be annoyed

zirka
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Damn. if someone cries near me I'll try my best to comfort them, I'll just be shit at it. I'll just give them a rock

Tnyfox
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Jeez. People get distant and annoyed when Their friend is upset enough to cry? I wouldn't want to even be friends with someone with so little empathy.

randominfochick
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Some people can comfort you not because they like you, but because they feel bad for you.

stefania_demon_you_love_
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Even if I really disliked a person, I wouldn't be able to ignore them if they were crying... heck, I'd even go all protective to make sure they're fine...👀

arreyray
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one time i couldn’t sleep crying like full anxiety attack at my boyfriends house i was trying not to wake him up i looked for a lighter to go smoke outside couldn’t find one so i just layed back down next to him but he woke up and was like “what are you doing.” i explained and he was like “so ur rlly just gonna sit here crying mad loud trying to wake up my whole family” i got mad so i stayed silent quietly went out the back door outside to separate myself and calm myself down cuz he was only making me feel worse and escalating things i went back in cuz it was cold and i kept asking him to hug me he said he didn’t hear me and put his arm on me and i couldn’t sleep that night.

grouchysoup
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If they r a narcissist it will bother them if u cry they won’t like u taking control of their feeling to feel sorry for u they want to remain in control but it doesn’t mean they don’t like u… bad thing is, is that ur involved with a narcissist.

DeadKisses
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One of my girlfriend cried, one morning, while I was sitting with her and another guy who wanted her. I looked at the guy, because, clearly, he wanted her, and she seemed to like him back. He hadn't even notice she was crying. So I took her hands instead, gave her tissues, and spent the next two hours to listen and comfort her. After 15 minutes, the guy rose up and go, pretexting having stuff to care, elsewhere. When we separated, my girlfriend and I exchanged hugs and kisses for a moment and she thanked me. The guy, he considered me as a rival for the next two weeks. My God, human nature is such a b*tch...

florianpierredumont
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My cats ran away and hid when I cried… I guess they must despise me 😭

spookylittlebat
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What about a person that doesn't know how to comfort somebody that's crying

demarcusfaulkner
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You know they love you when they cry with you 😂😂

Hazardous
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My sister in law tried this today on me. It's funny that after more than 10 years married to my brother she still has doubts about me not liking her, lol

josemari
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I can confirm this is true. My dog died earlier this year and my now ex said I was overreacting. It was a dog, not a person. Dogs > people.

chaoskitteh
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Except if he is a narcissist who cannot feel empathy. My ex husband always got annoyed when I cried but we were together for more than 10 years
But generally you are right

Bianca
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I would never fake cry... but it is a good idea to show your true tears if they come up. It's a huge danger sign fot someone to be distant or annoyed or any non-empathic reaction!!!! If someone doesn't care about your emotions, THEY DON'T CARE ABOUT YOU! And never use tears/emotions as manipulations!!!

juneelle
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It's not like I don't feel bad when I see someone cry, it's just since I'm not close with them, I get shy and feel like I shouldn't be the one comforting them.

db
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Me who struggles with emotions and other peoples emotions 👁️👄👁️

madalynrapp
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This trick does make sense but I thought about the dismissive avoidant attachment style. They may distance themselves because they don't know how to react especially if they think the discomfort was their fault.

dawnjohnson
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If they try to comfort you, they like you. If they get distant or annoyed, they're a Virgo.

trangtran