Dark psychology trick to get in someone’s head - Part 4 #psychology

[daisy]

As a daughter I love my father so much but I would never wanna spend the rest of my life with someone like him cause I've seen how much my mom struggled

[oa_]

Yikes
i dont remember getting the unconditional love i wanted from my parents.

[apureenergyme]

You are half right. People looking for the partner that similar with their parent, girl looking for a man like her dad, boy looking for a man like his mom. However, many many times, we in unconsciously looking for a person resembling our parent who is very toxic or unhealthy emotionally / mentally. It is not these toxic partners provided unconditional love hooked you, it is their toxic traits similar to your mom or dad, you hated when your parent couldn’t provided these care and love to you, but unconsciously you go for a partner just like them. You keeping feeling very unhappy, very miserable, you can’t see it’s because you are choosing a person who is like your toxic parents. It is familiar but it is very bad to you. You have to wake up learn these lessons in your life, heal your self, fill up those needs from yourself. That is the only way that you can become better person and be able to attract better person.

[celissewillis]

That depends on your conditioning growing up... if you had a toxic/unhealthy/abusive relationship with a parent, than you will look for a partner with similar energy, or the type of relationship you would've wanted. You'll be driven to unconsciously fix, save, or change that person, in order to make sense of or "fix" the situation with that parent, through that partner...

[jeannievail]

Yes! I made him so happy when I threw him a retirement party that he was acting like a little kid, chair dancing, singing along with the crowd, gently bouncing his massive shoulders between mine and his friend’s, and holding our hands and waiving them in the air like we just don’t care. 🥰

[ALPHA-fzwo]

Lol thats so untrue...no matter how much I like a guy the moment I find any resemblance in his behaviors with my dad, I am out..i say this for fact bcoz this has happened to me several times

[NoOne-wtom]

I'm searching for a father, that's why I date old men.

[RisaLeexx]

As a daughter who never got any love from her mother, no physical or verbal affection..I always seeked for a clingy partner who will actually love me and not abandon me..

[MariamMariam-cfrv]

So true, it really feels from heart, an unconditional love, but it doesn’t mean you have call your partner as daddy or mommy.

[malwaysfine]

I did this regularly without any bad intentions but no one became obsessed with me. It is just a time waste. Although I felt good for myself I could do something for someone without any expectations. I wish I could meet you somewhere sometime in this life to thank you for this channel.

[kourtneydouthard-becker]

Did this, and ended up going through some of what my mom went through. He possessed the positive traits my dad had but didn't realize the negative ones as well. Situation was pretty much identical. Thank God I left before it got worse. And guess who helped me through it? My mom. ♥️

[lukeskywalker]

This happens only if you're unhealed, unconscious, and trauma bonded.

[uvanshgoraya]

Mam can u please make a video on psychological tricks to study and remember what u have studied at last moment 🙏

[rabbit]

Its true actually because whenever someone gives me attention and i feel safe with them. I end up liking them a lil

[calypsowhiteheart]

I never felt unconditional love from my parents, only a mild dismissive semi-benevolence from my father and exploitativeness from my mother

[virologistic]

Finally, someone in psychology actually acknowledging Freud’s theories.

[Edibletidepod]

Nah I hate my dad.... I can never imagine being with a manipulator like him and I realized it the hard way cause my ex was literally a copycat version of him.

[umarraza]

When you said why are you still watching

I literally had a little heart attack 🤣

[hazelsciona]

Its so hard to change it and I don't know what to do, my dad is narcissist and I used to be very close with him for all my life, and never had a bf, then one guy showed up in my life, like the bigest manipulator I have ever seen and first started with love bombing, then analysis, then gaslightings, then criticism, then when I started to loving him he leave because he had commitment issue like me. Then I had a very hard time to get detached and to realize all this things. Now when I realised everything I can't change my feelings still, I still need a man near who I will be feel safe, and there is no mans like this. And even if I finde man near who I will feel safe and loved, as I feel near my dad, he will be narcissistic and toxic as my dad... I mean I still love my dad, but now I just understand that he is toxic and I need to change it, but I cant, its not easy at all. I have never feel safe with any guy who isn't narcissistic.

[aayushisingh]

I love your realistic approaches and i love your shorts of psychology when its real 🩷🌹