7 Reasons Why Sociopaths Hurt You (Sociopath Storytime)

If you've ever been hurt by someone you suspect to be a sociopath, here could be 7 reasons why. As a professionally diagnosed sociopath (ASPD) I am here to give you insight into the mind of someone with this disorder. Make sure you stay till the end to hear some of my past personal stories in relation to this. I've changed though.. I promise :)

00:00 Intro
00:30 #1 Loneliness
02:33 #2 Gets us ahead
04:11 #3 Boredom
05:36 #4 Control
06:56 #5 Lack of Value
08:12 #6 Rage & anger
09:32 #7 We just don't care
11:25 Story #1
13:03 Story #2
14:16 Story #3
15:20 Conclusion

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[aminanp]

Hi Kanika, I have psychopathic traits so can relate a lot to your videos, I would like to share something : while I lack empathy, do not feel emotions like guilt and remorse, I have never felt the need to hurt lie or manipulate people, the reason is my education. My parents did a very good job with me, instead of teaching me that doing bad things was not good because of social norm (which I wouldn’t understand anyway) they associated bad behaviour with being pathetic. So me being a narcissist, it worked for me because I do not want to be associated with pathetic things and low level behaviour because I have a high self image of myself and want to associate myself with great and noble things. When I do bad things I don’t feel remorse but I feel shame because I feel I let down myself and basically pathetic (not because I feel bad for the person). I don’t know if that makes sense but I feel this is a great way to educate young sociopaths and psychopaths by using their narcissistic traits as a way to regulate themselves

[brunoserafimovski]

The loneliness you explain at the beginning is a very neurodivergent thing, but usually I find it referred to as isolation. Because most people are neurotypical you only get to hear the neurotypical perspective. And it's amazing how different neurodivergents react to it. In adhd it makes you more susceptible to being gaslit because you've been told your entire life you're inadequate so you have self-doubt and trust other people's judgement more than your own.

[MellowJelly]

most of the time women who are subjected to male violence then react accordingly are stigmatized and told they have a mental illness for having an actually normal reaction to trauma

[nanipanini]

"the child who is not embraced by the village will burn it down to feel its warmth"

[bxcs]

Another thing: I think you wanted to destroy that tenant, because She fulfilled your needs which you wanted to be fulfilled by your Mother/Father. Some kids do this often: they push away the caretaker who gives more love/care/time/gifts/etc than their Fav Parent. When they are not used to a certain high level of care, they don't know how to handle it, so the easiest is to destroy so to avoid these overhelming moments for the future

[StandByMyOwnPrivateEmpty]

Being a sociopath sounds exhausting. Thanks for the insight, always very educational for those who had or still have to deal with them!

[chocobabes]

Humanizing a sociopath is hard... hearing these things is kind of scary but at the same time I know it's something sociopaths can't control it, these videos really are helping me understand a lot.

[sapiwette]

Okay, hot take : I genuinely believe every relationship is transactional, but the difference is that ASPD people get bored and thus do not get their part of the bargain whereas empathetic people who don't lose interest keep getting something out of a relationship (even if the only thing they get is a good time with a friend)

[aliisakalma]

I *LOVE* you for saying the first one. I am empathetic and most people who know me and my tendencies to be empathetic towards bad people have roasted me for being overly naive for thinking sociopaths and "toxic people" usually have some sort of a deep sense of helplessness. I think the belief in "evil" that exists in a vacuum is more naive 👀

[thevidnatin]

15:22 - I literally had this happen to me recently. I understand more of ASPD now, and I've been working on controlling my urges. I was honest about why a group therapy situation would never work and how my antisocial behavior would do more harm than good. But that honesty opened a dialogue about alternative and individualized therapy I could utilize.

[semplybalanced]

The boredom one, you really tried to downplay that one with “we don’t like to hurt people”, then list of some of the most vile behaviors sociopaths do out of boredom, that literally destroy people. Wild.

[birdOfswords]

girl i love you and your story so much. for a long time of my life i couldnt feel guilt, when i became a mother i would start to feel mom guilt, and i can remember crying because i was so scared that i was truly incapable. Now that im older i believe i have psychopathic tendencies, but can kind of pick and choose when to utilize it. i love hearing your story and giving myself and others insight on how varied the conditions can be

[teesense]

I really respect her for embracing herself. Especially to be an advocate for something that’s not widely known.

[vanessas]

one has absolutely ruined my life. sabotaged and abused. I'm a physical and emotional wreck. finished. feel suicidal most days.

[nicolehincapiee]

Fellow aspd and narc here…Love how often you’re posting 😻 also, if you’re comfortable with it, I’d love to hear more story times

[greengal]

Kanika, your production quality as of late is impressive. Excited to see you back and growing on YT!

[david_]

To know that this really exist is the closest version of a real horror movie. Thank you for sharing, better be aware.

[lisabaginski]

It was explained to me that sociopaths are so upset by the authenticity and love of others that they feel othered and I suspect that is why you wanted to bring down the nice neighbor who treated you well. I have a ex friend that I saw do that to people. It would upset her to find they were lovely because she just wasn’t. It was a facade. It upset her to realize this.

[BBFCCO]

I admire your honesty and calling out low functioning sociopaths. My father has strong sociopathic tendencies, but I suppose you would call him as high functioning? However at home, if the world did not revolve around him, he would become unbearable to be around. I feel sometimes that the world validates sociopathic tendencies, especially in succeeding at work. Is this true? Can you do a video of how to best handle a sociopath at work without completely bending to their will, more like sharing the same space, if that is a possibility.

[sagemoderasengan]

What matters is you've learned from your mistakes and actively seek to become better. Change is possible you just gotta give people the chance. I don't think any less of you. I've done plenty I'm not proud of at all. 💖 Just keep doing what you do