The #1 most powerful question you can ask a man (questions to ask a guy)

[avgonyma]

What are your intentions with me?

1. He's clear about it and able to communicate it.
2. He's not clear. Doesn't know what he wants. Decide at that moment if that lack of clarity is O.K. with you. Within 1-2 years a guy should be able to clarify what he wants with you.

Do you want to be in a relationship with me?
Am I in your heart?

If you have a fear of this conversation find out why that is. Don't build a house on the sand.

[carls]

I would never ask a man.. "What are your intentions for me"?.... That is not something that a women even needs to ask....clearly HIS actions will spell all that out with a little time

[gillaim]

"the right guy does not become the wrong guy because you asked a wrong question" - another gold sentence from Jack Butler that clarifies it all and removes all doubts and what ifs ! So glad I found your channel, I'm learning loads from each video !
PS: love your big, warm smile at the beginning of each video 👌

[germanylicious]

If you have to ask, the answer is always no.
You've said that too before.
It is true. You can feel when someone really likes and wants you! Nothing even has to be said.

[fatadesculta]

It’s so good to hear that from you! I asked him after 1.5 months what’s his intention & he said that at the beginning he didn’t know, bc he really likes me, then he decided for himself that he would keep it casual with me (he is dismissive avoidant). I kind of blamed myself for bringing this up so early, it was heartbreaking, but I walked away. It’s been 3 months, since then I started to discover & love myself deeply 💕🙏☀️

[stephaniedescoteaux]

When a guy is into you... they declare it. You don't have to ask.

[Yvette.T]

Yep, it's all about authentic communication: sometimes difficult, always worthwhile 🤗 💞

[marisamlovendino]

Sometimes it's really hard to find the courage to ask someone how they really feel about you because we don't want the feelings 💔 😔

[embermiller]

I agree!!! Recently asked a guy I was chatting with daily what he’s looking for. He immediately got defensive...I pointed out that I just want to make sure we’re on the same page. He said that’s an interview question & never contacted me again.

[germanylicious]

I always make it very clear when I'm not into someone and I mean VERY! I also don't send them mixed messages or cross that line. If I feel they assume hope I will repeat myself. I have no problems shutting anyone down. And I've always been respected for it.
I also think it's extremely attractive in men when they are solid and don't need every girl's attention and approval.

[nickysmith]

I really liked this....how much unnecessary pain can be avoided. I will be using this question....Thank you for examples.

[stacyk]

Love this :) simple question.

I've definitely had to encourage myself to be willing to see the end of a connection as a result of me speaking my truth. Willingness. 💜💜

[meredithgall]

Always straight yet empathetic, thank you again Jack B

[jacquelinenoel]

Oh my goodness! I’m the youngest of five daughters; oldest sisters being 14 yrs older. I love psychology; particularly how the male mind thinks. I’m a divorced woman, in a relationship with a man, enjoying him for companionship. I am so loving by nature, seeing myself possibly leading my very fine man on, knowing that he’s probably not “the one!” I don’t know what to do! Help! Jack Butler is brilliant. He’s so unique; unlike the others I e viewed, and gets into the psychological aspects of the female, helping her find her true self and power within. How refreshing! Ladies take note!!! He’s opened a whole part of my female essence, just by a mere browse on YouTube one day during quarantine recently. ‘Wish there were more Jack’s around. 🤗

[nimfabangay]

The most powerful answer has been given....Ty.😊

[nimfabangay]

Maybe not so good.... Unclear....but God works in mysterious ways....ty.😊

[syytnkc]

Good morning, Jack! I sleep & wake up with your videos, which means that I needed CLARITY in my mind to put evthg in order!💗

[germanylicious]

I had someone shut me down very bluntly, who could have easily had me or taken advantage of me. But he never did. I liked him even more after bc of how solid he was and I was pretty persistent. Even on a friendship level. Just to even get to know him better.
He opened up a lot via text trying to scare me away. But it didn't work.
He said I wasn't his type but showed signs of jealousy. It never mattered how much I tried to explain things I didn't have to explain, I don't think he trusted me or maybe thought I knew too much now. I was a bit hurt but didn't take it personally at all. I felt his pain. He never let me in beyond that but regardless what he really feels or felt, I think he knew I really cared. I just never stood a chance.

[frankiefranfraser]

Awesome. Thank you for this video 😍🥰💖😍💖🥰

[lc]

My man says "were together forever, an honest couple...till the end" but his habit of porn is extremely degrading to me. Jack...You need to do a talk on the effects porn. Its ruining my self esteem and He doesn't see a problem. Can a guy really love you and still 'need' porn?? I do NOT believe porn is an addiction, that makes it easier for an excuse not to quit. I believe its a habit they don't want to quit. your thoughts please?!