How To Stop Comparing Yourself To Others

How To Stop Comparing Yourself To Others - Learn 7 key reframes or mindset shifts you need in order to stop comparing yourself with others.

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[MarioTomicOfficial]

Best self-development channel on YouTube.

[AaronDoughty]

Realize there are no others. We are all connected and can only be separated by mental constructs and labels. Then it becomes a collaboration of energy versus a comparison. Great video Leo.

[aimeeplunkett]

“You’re a slave to other people’s value assignments”

Wow that line really stood out to me

[Poppyhar]

i have been listening to your videos for a year now and i just wanna thank u for changing my life .

[editname]

Imagine if this man never went through what he has been and never decided to push the boundaries we may never have had this channel and this energy and insight would be forever locked away and never actualised, I'm going to take this opportunity and follow it to the top. I would like to thank you for everything you do hats off to you sir...

[AnthonyDecide]

1. Thank you for never using Jump cuts.

2. Thank you for making your videos concise and helpful.

3. Thank you for existing.

[bkw]

I have a big issue with this. I really see myself as a "loser" compared to others considering what I've done in life, and it's hard to shake

[Prija]

Re frames suggested
1. Self worth does not exist - No amount of accomplishments ever gives you worth. Sit down and think from where the worth comes from...things don't have worth
2.Human beings are too complex to compare...Apple vs Orange
3.Competition is stupid - Matured adult is creator
4.Yes I have handicaps just like everyone else....accept natural strengths and weaknesses
5.Being normal is overrated - accept you eccentricities
6.I'm too busy loving myself - take ownership of your life
7.I love to see people succeed....

[Nidhi-llyq]

I can't believe I discovered this channel so damn late.
His values and his videos are priceless and yet they are absolutely free. Thank you so much man for turning our lives around !!!

[Yourhighnessnona]

If you are completely aware of your own unique individuality, it becomes the most honorable value that you have. In comparing yourself to others, it is easy to celebrate someone else's beauty, success and talent, without devaluating your own if you are aware of your individuality - or celebrate your own beauty, succes and talent, without devaluating the other. Individuality is unique, and unique is not competitive, dependend nor comparable. So, comparing yourself is not inherently bad. In fact, it is only natural and it serves many obvious purposes. It is how you value yourself within a comparison that makes all the difference.

[king-nick]

I compare myself to myself and look down on no one.my goal is to be better then the person I was yesterday.

[mumpygumboo]

I like how deep and articulate this talk is, while at the same time, uses plain, straight-forward language that any layperson can understand and relate to. This is full of great insights.

[youvegotmail]

Every teenager or preteen in middle school should take the time to watch this

[stephentimoney]

I thought ( or my ego thought) I was doing well in life until I started watching your videos. Thanks Leo for giving me a mental kick in the ass!

[jehriasean]

I should be paying you money for these insights.

[angie-vgo]

Leo, I have shared your videos with my friends, but not one has listened! Why are they not as excited to learn? It reminds me of when the University of Kentucky announced that everyone who works there can now attend classes for free, why very few people signed up? I went back, took me a long time, but for me, it was an enormous blessing!!

[joanjepkirui]

You have really inspired me. I had started losing myself comparing myself with people. thanks for this reminder.

[Katziezi]

35:25 to 38:24 that's the healthiest, best attitude. Very good explaination. Such truth. Amazing.

What you think is what you become. Think positive and center your life around these positive thoughts, and happiness will come to you. It's just meant to happen that way. Negativity will attract negativity, and likewise positive thoughts will attract positive things. It's all about the mindset.

Awesome vidéo, thanks you a lot Leo !

My notes of the video :

7 reframes :

1. No amount of accomplishement gives you worth ! ( spiritual insight)

2. Human-being are too complex to compare.
Differentes experiences, environnement, personnality, ressources, focus . Somme people want work more in spiritual and no money, some will focus on career and neglate health and relationship, some will focus on relationship and neglate career, … We see only the surface on people, the emmerged piece of the ice-berg. So


3. Competition is stupide ! Be a creator …
Focus on you, your own work, your purpose and value.

4. Yes I have handicaps ! Weakness… Reframe them positively and focus on your strenght ! Let go …

5. Being normal is overrated ! The average person is mediocre….
The goal is to be yourself ! The actualization process can be defined as the gradual ability to be ourself, to express our personnality.

6. I am too busy loving myself to having time to compare myself to others

7. I love to see people succeed ! ( Abundance mindset vs scarcity mindset)
Success of others are like a menu that you can take and add what they have to your vision. Divorce the quality of the personne !

8.Being a creator open an infinite ressources and possibilities… ideas are infinite ! …


The only useful and positif comparaison is to see what is possible and expand your vision and how much you can have, transform and get of life …

[financialadvisor]

It is true. If you stop comparing what you have and just enjoy it, accept it, things change.