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Presented by Orion Taraban, Psy.D. PsycHacks provides viewers with a brief, thought-provoking video several days a week on a variety of psychological topics, inspired by his clinical practice. The intention is for the core idea contained within each video to inspire viewers to see something about themselves or their world in a slightly different light. The ultimate mission of the channel is to reduce the amount of unnecessary suffering in the world.

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[miketindol]

This reminds me of a statement my grandfather would say. “When it comes to women, don’t start out like you can’t keep up.”

[HealthyHowToSolutions]

Agree! Just like a job. If you overdeliver, it'll become your new baseline.

[godleveleldritchblast]

You can de-escalate by putting down boundaries and saying no. If she doesn't accept that as a reality then you know what her systems are.

[khorinus]

Hey, I already mastered this. I give them all so much space that not one woman contacts me or seems interested anymore. Booyah!

[thelastgoodmaninjersey]

My brother gave me this advice before I got married. He said that his biggest marital mistake was starting out offering too much. His wife came to expect that as the baseline and it led to burnout.

[paintnhope]

Constant messaging kills desire and mystery. This guy's spitting facts . What texting did for relationships is devastating. It is what it is . Learn to play the game because that's all it is

[DivineLogos]

Narcissists also like to move things fast.
So you'll weed out toxic ones by moving slow.

[yahdood]

You can de-escalate. Did everyone forget how to set boundaries and communicate? Admit to mistakes? State your changing needs. Now, if she can’t handle that then you’re better off moving on.

[DonovanAenslaed]

That's how it is with women. Be extremely careful to what you accustom her to. Orion is completely spot on. And even then, if the woman wants you to escalate, don't!

[whocarescrapsa]

This man knows his stuff! I met the woman of my dreams and spoilt her too soon. Weekends were filled with hot air ballooning trips and stuff like that. You get the girl and then she expects that all the time. Don't make life difficult for yourself.

[tommyy]

Protect this man at all cost. He is a national asset to the brotherhood.

[yanven]

my grandpa once said "never fall harder than they fall for you" meaning you gotta love each other equally

[jedpittman]

This is true for all relationships not just women.

[robertjohnson]

He is exactly right. I lived this. I was conscientious and thoughtful and I would respond to her texts within seconds. She got upset with me and scolded me like a child when I stopped responding at around midnight when I fell asleep. The next day I had work. I told her it was unreasonable to expect me to respond during the middle of the night. She exploded and said it was early in the relationship and we are supposed to get to know one another. I told her we were through.

[jvyu]

I'm learning this the hard way 🤦🏻‍♂️

[andrewhall]

Yup…. I was 2 hours late on a good morning message and all hell broke loose 😂😂😂🙊

Crying, temper tantrums… screaming 😂

[Tousicle]

Lived my whole life not using my phone, but as soon as I found the person for me, I didn't not ever text back right away or not have my phone near me when expecting her. She is my queen, and in her eyes, I am her King. So remember, this is really amazing advice, but when you know, you know; and what works for you may not work for anyone else, and vice versa. Have the discernment to know what is in your heart, and you will never be wrong.

[leomaddox]

This is a great reality check honestly. For me things dramatically improved after I read all books Mind-Bloomery. Being assertive, knowing my worth, being calm all the time... really changed how I carry myself. I stopped seeking approval from others and people started respecting me more. Everything is about energy you radiate.

[danmark]

That’s true. I was stupid enough to spend most of my time with my wife in the start. When I began to do my stuff and I didn’t give her the attention she thought she needed arguing started. But we’re still together after 20 years. I made a mistake and corrected it. Because we know each other much better now. So it’s a choice: Deal with it or gtfo.

[ShivaKumar-nyeo]

I found The Shadow Game of Attraction by Atruve and didn’t think much of it at first. But as I read, I realized how much we are never taught about attraction, influence, and power. It reveals why some men make women chase them effortlessly while others go unnoticed. Once you understand it, there’s no going back. Everything just clicks.