The BIGGEST reason why you should stop caring for the Narcissist

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[angelakeely]

After you have helped them, and being forced into a Mother Role, you never wanted in the first place, when they have sucked the Life out of you, and they feel strong, only because of what you did for them, then they Discard you, 😏🚩🏃‍♀️

[amberfuchs]

They love using emotional blackmail - fear/intimidation, obligation/duty/honor/loyalty, guilt/shame.

[alisonblackburn]

From the moment he opened his eyes in the morning, until he closed them at night, he needed attention. Exhausting and unrewarding, as he never took responsibility for his neediness. I have walked away.

[tramekn]

It’s so hard because it’s normal to care about people and want the best for them. However, the narcissist doesn’t feel the same about humanity. It’s best to love them and pray for them from a distance.

[acolley]

Don't stop loving people, because that's who YOU are, but don't go out of your way to please or meet the needs of a narcissist.

[JamesNGames]

It's time to break free from the heavy burdens of being the sole caretaker for someone who constantly demands your attention and drains your energy. By acknowledging the unhealthy dynamics of being entangled in a narcissistic relationship, you have taken a courageous step towards reclaiming your own life. Embrace the darkness of this experience as an opportunity for personal growth and transformation. Redirect your love and care towards yourself, and watch as you emerge stronger, wiser, and more resilient than ever before. Remember, self-preservation is not selfishness, but rather a vital act of self-love. You deserve to thrive!

[aeshaadams]

being the one who is helping, caring, etc to a point where I'm completely and inevitably the one being gossiped about, shunned, is the story of my life

[wittesneeuw]

In this life you only have to be a caring mother or father to your father was the most attention seeking kid to my as result we got far too little attention, emotional neglect. Beware of this for all the people with a narcissistic partner...Keep the attention for your children for their and your own future.

[candlecane]

2:42+ Self compassion is how you set yourself free. Bookmark.

[dougstobaugh]

Danish Bashir, your absolutely right the Narcissists behave like a immature child that acts Irresponsible and doesn't want to be told what to do and don't want to take care of their responsibilities they want to put everything back on you and it's your fault because everything has to go there way or noway you can never make the Narcissists happy they look for ways to create a cause unnecessary problems and turmoil they are miserable so they feel the need to make you miserable Narcissistic Abusive behaviors and personality disorders are impossible to deal with you are better off avoiding any conflict between you and the Narcissists help spread Narcissistic awareness. GOD-BLESS.

[ranahosur]

Very well said. I have been with a narcissist for 21 years. It was only 2 years ago I understood she being a narcissist. Until then I used to think I am not good enough for this relationship and I need to do more.
Now my kids have moved to colleges and I am now working on being assertive and plan to soon move out.
Thank you for your reinforcement in this video

[cck]

I swear, he always seemed to think he was either my father or my child, never a partner.

[mayaros]

This is one of the most clarifying and validating topics you have touched on yet Danish. Thank you!

[magicalsimmy]

I am now a caregiver for my covert narcissist mother, and it’s like being a parent to a psychopath. Yesterday she claimed I did nothing for her even though I do everything for her. It caused me to have an emotional breakdown last night, but my therapist helped me to come up with a long term solution. I just have so much guilt and doubt that it’s me, and leaving just feels like the morally wrong thing to do. I am trying the grey rock method and focussing more on me and getting out.

[JudyBarrette]

You are right on here. Boy! How I wish I knew all this decades ago.

[nnnnnnnnnnn]

Interesting.
That's what I was thinking recently. I feel like a mother to my parent.

[sthomas]

You don’t hold back from the truth and that’s exactly what I need to hear. Thank you.

[Cat-ojoz]

"That inner child is dead"...wow...I confess I have been wanting to love the narc's inner child because her childhood was really rough. I have wanted to mother my own mother! It was jolting to hear that her inner child doesn't even exist! There's nothing to save, except your own self. I needed to hear this blatant truth...I needed a wake-up slap out of my hopeless hope. Wow.

[jerseyrepresentative]

The best advice all day about these Narc 😮

[ggmazin]

I am going through this F. O.G. because of his recent surgery. It is affecting my health. His narcissistic side is even worse . I have become his mother and it sickens me to my core. I pray each day for emotional healing.