AITA For Giving Away My Late Wife’s Stuff to Our Nanny? | 3 r/AITA | Brian's Advice 135

Brian's Advice 135 Timestamps:
1. AITA for giving away my late wife’s stuff to our nanny? 0:00
2. AITA for showing my(M22) roommate a security camera footage of her(F23) having sex in my room? 7:00
3. AITA for taking my kids out to dinner with my boyfriend against my ex’s wishes? 9:56
4. Outro 15:27

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[signity]

1st story- he is thinking with some kind of body part and let me tell you the heart ain’t it

[junequintana]

Hi Brian yay it finally the real Friday. Have a great weekend.

[junequintana]

I keep forgetting to tell you i like your laugh it makes me laugh haha haha

[DelliaWyn]

Yea - I think he is the jerk for giving her stuff away when they were supposed to go to the daughters.

[dreamhobbiz]

Is there some unwritten rule that a late woman's stuff MUST go to her children or sister? So the husband can't make decisions of his own? If the sister wanted the stuff that much, she should have told him to pack them aside for her.

[RSN]

For story 3: She is NTA here at all. Yes, she broke the arrangement, but when her ex got deployed and she was going to be the sole person looking after her kids, what is she going to do? Say, "Sorry, I can't have dinner with you or you can't come over to my place or I can't come over to your place because of kids that aren't there to meet you?" What the heck is YTA judgements. Reddit and you got this one wrong.

[claudiawright]

He even gave away his late wife’s jewelry? And her favorite things as well? What a major a-hole. And what is this dumb question „am I the a-hole for taking care of the people that are still alive“? But his children, who actually have an attachment to their mother don’t fathom into this? Only the college student who is oh so hard working „brilliant“ and intelligent? She even got first dibs here and filled bags upon bags with his late wife’s clothing, purses and jewelry items. That’s thoughtless and selfish as hell. And why was she moaning about not having stuff for her internship to the man whose kids she babysits and who plays secretary for him. She probably noticed he would be a sucker for her. Lol. Oh this guy is thinking with his head, just not the one that’s on top of his neck but the one between his legs. He didn’t tell his Sil who he gave it to, because he knows what this looks like. He wants to score with the 21 year old nanny.

[domeyboy]

Why? That is just nasty... if I was the OP I would let the other roommates that she likes to “spice” things up. I hate cleaning but I would be disinfecting the whole house... l couldn’t look at the kitchen table without being grossed out just because of her “spicing things up” it literally could be anywhere and on anything...

[kellharris]

1st story he should have set down with children and SIL and sorted between keep or good use.

Yes the family is not going to need all of her possessions but they may want some.

Instead he was thinking with his D.

[signity]

Notice how people only bring up gender when the man is the older one in the relationship 🤔 💭

[artictrixter]

Story 1: 15/16 year old girls would probably not want mom’s business attire that would be at least 8 years old by the time they hit high school. Purses are a little different because if they were luxury brands they might retain value. Nta. Because no matter how much sil comes over it’s not her choice.