how to be magnetic - make people obsessed with THEMSELVES

Welcome to my latest Youtube video, where I'm talking about the concept of being magnetic. In today's video, I discuss the importance of making people obsessed with themselves rather than you to become magnetic. I explore how people are driven by self-interest, and how you need to know what you want in life, who will help you get there, and tailor your marketing to communicate shared values and interests. Additionally, I highlight the importance of entertaining people as one of the easiest ways to be magnetic. Furthermore, I discuss how becoming your own dream self is a crucial step to becoming magnetic. I highlight how emotional regulation, being happy with your appearance, and being settled with yourself can help you present yourself naturally to the people in your dream life. I also emphasize how high self-worth is a crucial aspect of becoming magnetic. When you have high self-worth, you repel people who seek to take advantage of you for having low self-worth. Additionally, you become magnetic to the right people who will bring goodness and joy to your life. In conclusion, I emphasize that to become magnetic, you need to make people obsessed with themselves, offer them an escape, become your own dream self, and have unshakeably high self-worth. By doing so, you will attract the right people and repel those who seek to take advantage of you. Thanks for tuning in to today's video, and don't forget to subscribe for more great content!

Keywords: how to be magnetic, self-interest, dream self, emotional regulation, self-worth

[sweetdovecitrine]

This really spoke to me: taking it as a sign that your presence is not loveable because the people around you don't love your presence and realizing you're around the wrong people and it's not really a you problem. So true!!

[AyaEgbuho]

Girl, you nailed it! I want to exude main character energy! Its why I got off of social media. I no longer am interested in watching other women be the main character, I am busy being the main character in my life! It's so refreshing and took years to embrace.

[delilah]

She's basically raising us now ! Thanks Elle❤

[wondergirl]

Notes:
- Entertain people when you socially interact with people
- Talk about non mundane things with new people
- first be confident with yourself and act as if you have your dream life
- play into their fantasies by acting delulu
- act into it and pretend until you are
- Play into what people think of you
- don’t get mad at people be self assured and confident
- Have amazing self worth
- Avoid people who are kinda negative but okay with them
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[mirrorball_]

People like you make me comfortable with the idea of princess treatment and self care because the moment I started caring for myself and drawing boundaries I had people I had done so much for to the point that I couldve bled myself dry for them as I was a hardcore people pleaser come to me and say
"I should learn how to not be rude" and that "I put 1 year long friendships down the drain" and so much more.
But then I started watching your videos and thewwizardliz's videos which literally HEALED me, I have a long way to go, but I feel optimistic.
So yeah I am so grateful for you guys!

[Samantha-ubcf]

This is great. Part of this reinforces a fantastic book I read called The Art of Showing Up. In it, the author explains that you have to find "your people." You can't just be friends with anyone — you gotta have those shared values and you found "your people" when you celebrate each other's presence. When I learned this, it changed my outlook on friendships completely.

[LammyHowl]

One way I've learned to control my social circle is by developing a sense of humor. People love to laugh, and if you make them laugh, they remember that you did that for them. I use humor to attract AND repel people; dropping a witty non-sequiter and changing the topic is a great way to end conversations you don't want to participate in without coming across as rude. I can be direct and blunt if I have to, but I prefer to avoid getting in situations that require that response to begin with. Humor is great for self-confidence as well, which is another great tool for social management, like you said. Thanks for another great lesson, bestie ✨️

[jessreed]

Walked into a very *influencer-esque* event with my high vibe-wise woman-healer-naturalist persona and attracted a decent amount of people because I made THEM feel like they were working on themselves spiritually from simply being in my presence. I landed a lunch with a contact I’ve been wanting for a long time because of this!

[M.]

Also BE CAREFUL about magnetism. As a young person I found myself with a lot of magnetism and not much self worth or discernment and oh boy… do I wish I could go back in time and protect my younger self 😢 discernment and self value is so important to work on when you’re young if your parents didn’t instill it in you as a child.

[prince.c]

You totally have main character energy! That’s dope

[reginageorgetownuni]

I want this badly. I want my life to look as beautiful as it looks inside my head. 2024 is my year of achieving this.

[SwearWerdDebris]

Another thing that i advise people to say to themselves is "i bring a sense of peace to anyone in my vicinity." Or "Why do i bring comfortable /relaxation to everyone in my vicinity?" ( Why affirmations are powerful). It minimizes the amount of negativity you get around you and adds to the magnetism a HUGE amount. And if you feel like you *need* people to be jealous of you in order to feel confident...more inner adjustment/confidence is needed.

[liveitup_GJ]

Omg it has taken me 40+ years to realize that I was dimming my own light to accommodate these people who were bothered by my confidence! You’ve explained it so well! 🙏💙

[LuxyFairy]

You’re literally like the 20 year old fairy god mother 🧚🏼 May your delulu come trululu 🪄

[Wynter_Heat]

The fact that you’ve learned how to treat life like a business and are sharing that is beautiful. You make me proud 🥰

[KaylaNoelle]

This is SO TRUE!!! Right when I clicked on this video my boyfriend texted me "you make me feel so special." and that he knows we'll last forever. Right from the beginning he told me that he feels so amazing when he's with me and that he's obsessed with me. I think it not only makes people obsessed with you but it also makes them more likely to be emotionally vulnerable with you, and quicker!

[Ineverwantedahandle]

I have been bingeing on your content for the last week. I am autistic and I was severely traumatized as a child by a bad man and an autistic mother who invited him into my life. I learned none of the principles that you are teaching because I lacked paternal care, provision and protection in my life. I am almost 40 years old, and countless relationships later, having been drained of my vitality, resources and will at times, I have finally found someone who has managed to explain these principles, in a pragmatic, logical and cogent manner that I can fully grasp and understand. I can feel the transformation taking place within me as a result of this shift and I have been having crazy dreams about it. Thank you so much for the work you are doing, I cannot express my gratitude to you enough. I feel like it still isn't too late to turn things around for myself because thankfully I have taken great care of my body and appearance despite the struggle I have been through and I'm smart as a whip, just have not been able to use discernment in the past. Everything changes NOW.

[twocancan]

this reminds me of a thing I learned in my entrepreneurship classes: you want to position and market yourself so that your product/service is ranked #1 to a strong, if small, group of people. Being rank #1000 to millions of people isn't good enough to keep your business afloat

[Michevell]

Yes to everything you said! What really resonated was when you said to go where you are cherished. I’m naturally really bubbly and friendly and I love myself and some jobs I went to hated that and tried to dim my light but I would quit there, go where people appreciated my self worth, and I thrived there. Makes the biggest difference.
Go where you’re celebrated not tolerated ✌️
Also you are glowing, your hair is gorgeous and I love that lipstick on you. Great presentation per usual, have a blessed day Elle 💖

[ira_herself]

"For the longest time I kept myself in places where a lot of people did not love my presence". Girl, I already liked you before you said this, now I recognize your story. I laughed with you on the "main character energy" thing because I recognize what it means for me too and how annoying it is to some and amusing to others, my people. You rock, you just confirmed I am not crazy for running away from so many low self worth people; girl, I raaaan so fast, I took a break to watch YT and here you are. God bless you! Subscribed. 🎀