Hypergamy Primarily Benefits Men

[baki]

But the problem with Hypergamay is that you'll only attract the Golddiggers and backstabbers. It doesn't worth it if you're trying to build a family imo

[NayaStam]

The fact that a woman would leave a man because she wants a higher social status or is richer actually disgusts me. Women who chase the richest man, chances are they are goldiggers, and not someone you want to spend the rest of your life with

[finalthought]

As a man I would never build myself up just to have a woman. Some of the nicest sweetest women aren't on social media, don't go to bars, don't have to be in the spotlight. The thing is most men want some hot makeup wearing wannabe model and then equate that to having a good woman. You're setting yourself up for failure. Get the woman who doesn't follow the crowd.

[animegodeditz]

True but if you ever become so high valued It would be hard to know if someone is there for you for real or they just want your attention

[Rachael-velo]

I'd rather have a man I can chat with. Laugh with. No matter our financial status. It's always nicer to have wealth, true. But to have a mate who can laugh and enjoy our relationship in wealth or lack of wealth, that's who I want. Wealth can come and go, but a good sense of humor can make life better no matter what.

[JanetAFL]

Hypergamy matches gold diggers with megalomaniacs. Perfect match.

[JohanDanielAlvarezSanchez]

Well, thats the problem with redpill, is just another form of victimization. Being a high value man is not that hard but is easier to blame than to accept and fix

[MrDerkreal]

Uno reverse but then that means they aren't attracted to you as a person. They are just attracted to your wealth and status.

[Hearty]

Using hypergamy as a filter for women means your more likely to attract gold diggers and backstabbers. Compatability and sincere affection are the primary goals of getting into a relationship

[nicholausedwardwijaya]

Nah fam, rather not be with those women who came to me when I'm rich and successful. At least 8 out of 10 would be parasites.

[Alejandro-jcqz]

The problem is there's a limited amount of place for the top echeleor of men, it doesn't matter if everyone put their shit together, the standar only would go up. It would always be the top 20 to 10 percent.
The solution would be to disinsentivice hypergamy, but that train is long gone cause women incentivice each other to be like that.

I still believe anyone can become that top 1 percent man, as long they have ambition, but not everyone will end up being.

[dmbook]

Was married once, not sure i wanna do that again. But then the vibe i had attracted the ex i left.

[alexgregory]

Yeah, he is 100% right. Once I started focusing on work, dieting, saving money and going out responsibly (when my funds were good and I didnt overspend) it was like a new aura around me and people, especially women, notice a guy when they can tell HE feels and shows his life and mind are in good order

[gaborb.]

The only problem being that in the coming economic climate this "just get your life together" action becomes less and less possible to pull off especially if you are not starting from a position that primes you for it

[hardy]

Complicated issue, even movie stars or royalty have marriage break ups and the wives seem to happily monkey branch to the next guy, but the average guy should realise that the best way to attract a mate is to be above average. What’s changed is that women are now better educated and probably on more money that a lot of guys, and their idea of a perfect partner is someone who earns substantially more than them which is only a small percentage of guys. Through dating apps women are exposed to a lot more potential partners but don’t realise these guys will have sex with them but probably not marry them. The other issue is women are protected by society and you cant call bullshit on their bad behaviour without being called and “ist” of some sort, so some women think they can do what they want. In short it tough out there.

[Joker-sxqj]

I mean there will be days when I will be struggling financially and there will be days when I am feeling defeated and emotionally damaged. I want someone to stand with me during those difficult times. If she is there for money and status which I earned after working hard she will never understand the real me who was poor and was vulnerable and not doing great in life. Because at good times everyone will be there but at bad times rarely anyone shows. I just want her to be one who will be with me during bad times . I just don't care how she looks if she stood by me during those times I will never ever let anyone hurt her. But it's rare you will find someone like that so just live with someone who will never understand where you are coming from.

[VendelaIvory]

I don't think hypergamy and "red pill content" are synonymous. I don't think the kinds of women flocking to rich men are necessarily serious partners. Marriage cannot consist of only good times, only health and expected endless prosperity from one partner. Life, money, relationships all have peaks and valleys. You do your best for each other and go through them all together.

[rominalizarraga]

If you don't want someone who will sleep with you just because you have money... I don't think you will attract the women you want to

[Chiongster]

This guy is right except on one point. You won't have the pick even if you attract women as they won't be the ones you want. You will have to seek a woman yourself (or hire other people) It's still about seeking a woman that has your back when you're down. (it's also way easier with the potential in laws when you're on solid footing)

But it doesn't mean that after finding her we have to stop trying to be better. Sometimes we can try and fail, but if she has our back, we can rebuild and try again.

For a short though, this guy has the right mindset. Get yourself up before seeking a mate.

[silverhawk]

Eh I'm not really on boat with this one. There's another option which is to stay single and enjoy your life.