This Is Why Your Crush Is Suddenly Acting Distant (What's Going On Inside The Mind Of Your Crush?)

Is your crush acting distant, different or weird all of a sudden? In today's video we're going to be discussing some common reasons a crush can suddenly start acting distant from you? It's common for people to start worrying "does my crush like me?" but it's not always the case that they've gone off of you, as you'll learn in the video.

Did you perhaps click on this video because you feel that you have messed up a situationship with a lady or a guy then don't worry, because we are going to give you the full lowdown of what makes someone become suddenly distant. Even when you thought that you both had something good going on.

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0:00 Intro
0:20 Why Is Crush Suddenly Acting Distant?
0:27 Someone else is giving them more
1:02 You didn't show enough interest
1:40 They are playing hard to get
2:23 They are not over their ex
2:49 They still hurt from the past
3:11 They are in too deep
3:49 They don't know how they feel
4:25 They think you are a player
4:41 A life stress got in the way
5:45 You had too many red flags
6:01 You were too needy
6:17 They have commitment issues
6:53 Things went way too fast

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[jaymedalbeth]

My Grandfather told me "If you're having a problem with her now, it's going to be a consistent pattern later on".

[markpack]

Just keep doing your own thing. If she likes you okay. If she doesn't" that's okay to. In this day and age, the last thing you need is another problem...

[thomasverslycken]

Yesterday i learned from my self that i can look confident but once i reach my limit i become shy around my crush & then i need to pull back a bit or even take some distance for a few days to refill my confidence

[socialpsychologymantras]

“When we love, we always strive to become better than we are. When we strive to become better than we are, everything around us becomes better too.” ― Paulo Coelho

[EmilyGloeggler]

You forget the last factor - they could have realized you are not what they need in their life, so they are moving on.

[battlevain]

Sometimes a crush is one sided and the other person has only been friendly and polite towards you and nothing else. When you have a crush, most people see what they want to see and begin to stop thinking about the other person. Using a causal friendship to try to be around them more, always finding a way to bump into them and stringing out any conversation or interaction soon becomes tiresome. Stop being a selfish stalker/creep, pretending to just be friendly.

[danielbengtsson]

Very good points, Anna! You can really understand why trying to date someone is so complicated...

[dimpledimple]

Moving too fast is definitely a turn off. It scares me. How can you even tell that you love someone or like someone and want to be in a relationship with them just after 2- 3 dates?? Nope. I'll drag it for months. Not because I love the chase, because I want both of us to be sure of our feelings and how much the guy wants to commit. If the guy is not patient enough, then that's fine.

p.s. I read the 5 love languages. Mine are definitely act of service and quality time. Not so much with words and gifts, so I hope the guy would understand if I'm bad with words and appreciates my efforts. lol.

[supermichaelssecondchannel]

I’m not going to be lead on. Thank you Ana.

[Nick-wtno]

I have a massive crush on a coworker and she knows that I like her! I finished all of her jobs behind her back when she was sick from COVID and she was really grateful! She tries to talk to me sometimes in the office (work related, but it feels like it is an excuse because she could’ve texted me about it) but then I try to distant her because I don’t want her to know I am to strong into it! I don’t want to scare her away

[kylekenan]

Maybe they need to be a little more direct and quit expecting us to know everything. A lot of them require more time, money and attention than a newborn, and aren't worth being with.

[fortminorproject]

My biggest thing is being shy iam trying to get used to ghosting but it's hard dating seemed so much easier a long time ago . My other thing is iam cursed with coming on too strong and I don't mean to and just want want a meaningful relationship. Thanks for this video .

[ooe]

I asked this girl out from my class but I kept noticing she keeps going to the restroom after class and distancing herself from me and she's been doing it for weeks so I just accepted she didn't like me.

[heeheehee]

lol my crush is actually acting distant rn. thank you for this tho

[Cavefire]

I have a crush on my coworker, we would talk to each other on the daily basis, I even got her phone number, but all of a sudden she started to talk to me less and less, and started yo kind of throw me to the curb in a way if that makes sense, she used to say hello everytime she saw me, now she doesn’t even want to come near me. I think I’ve lost hope at this point, I don’t know what I did, was I too boring? Too needy? Too talkative? Or maybe too predicable? Wtf did I do?

[japsukei]

How about we stop acting like we’re still in the 9th grade and just have a conversation like grown up’s and decide if we do or don’t instead of causing emotional anguish on people

[topsyturvy]

Wow, this is too complex for me to handle and in the process I will lose my peace of mind, health, hair, time in which I can read lots of books, learn new skills, etc. Women are important for us men but c-mon this is a game I-m not willing to invest in.

[cosmic]

single is better. or friends with benefits where you get a bit intimate once in a while but don't commit so its more casual.

Things they do that you find amusing now will one day irritate you.

[tripp]

I admire your guidance and counseling so much 🤝nature is so flabbergasting to some point