Why You SHOULD Tell Your Crush How you Feel | A Video Essay

Ask her out, you never know. I'm rooting for you. I hope you enjoyed today's video!
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[KingTheodore]

TL;DR - Ask her out kings (sorry I got a bit repetitive towards the end lol)

[wachsmalstift]

Pro tip: you can't just go and ask your crush out randomly, you gotta start talking to her first

[mariovazquez]

If it wasn’t for this video, I wouldn’t have even gotten the courage to ask my homies mom out. Now, I am one step closer to being a step dad!

[DragDri_]

Here's my experience that no one asked for. I fell in love with my best friend. I met her at high school, and at the beginning, she was just a friend and thought she was kinda cute. Then I went to university and lost contact with her, but I didn't like my career so I changed it and went to another university, and there I found her again, prettier than ever and, in general, better than ever, we were so happy we would study together. Sadly she has a boyfriend, and when I decided I'd tell her I like her and then I heard about it, I backed out.
We continued being friends and forged a better relationship, to a point that now I consider her more than just my best friend. One day at a party, I felt kinda bad about my repressed feelings, so I decided I'd tell her, I was scared cause I thought she would see me differently in a bad way, but actually she was touched, then I told her how I felt about her in general and how much I cared about her, she told me that at some point she came to like me too, but then she met her boyfriend who she's really happy with.
Man, I do not regret at all telling her about my feelings. It felt like taking a big weight off my back.
Today, we are still friends, and let me tell you, we are much closer together, we are more open to each other in general, and I feel like we have a really strong bond built on trust, honesty and love.
What I'm trying to say is that, even when I was scared about rejection, I got something even better, I got closer to the one I love the most, and one of the people that matters most to me. So, even if you're scared, maybe you can win much more. And if you get rejected, there's so many great people out there, so there will always be room for love with someone, always.

[TrickyTri]

if you spend your time chasing butterflies, they'll fly away. If you spend your time making a beautiful garden the butterflies will come to you, and if they don't come, then you still have that beautiful garden

[_fussyfangs]

Best advice I can give, as a girl myself, is to not ask right away if you've only been talking 2 days. It can come off as creepy. Give it time, hang out as much as you can so you can get to know each other. Also, keep in mind that everyone is human & flawed. There will be no "perfect girl."

I dated my friend for years, gave the geeky guy a chance. He turned out to be such a gentleman & so fun to be with. We had nearly the same interests so that helped too. We fell out of love after some distance was put between us, but heck my dude was surprised I ever even agreed to a date. He told me he kept thinking I would say no. We're still friends to this day since things ended in a positive note, we just weren't feeling like we were going anywhere with the relationship.

[LordGreninjack]

The single worst but also best thing that ever happened to me was asking my crush out. The girl who I was madly in love with rejected me, and it was so utterly horrific. I thank God every single day for her saying no.

It hurt me so bad. Felt like the end of the world. Felt like I’d never be happy again. It took months to get over it. But now? I’m the happiest I’ve ever been. The amount of confidence that gave me was insane. Showed me I can do scary things even if I’m terrified. Really taught me a valuable life lesson that you don’t always get everything you want, but that’s okay. Since her, I’ve started self improvement so much. I started working out intensely as a way to cope with the rejection. Thanks to her, I now have a 6 pack and huge biceps. I do things for myself more these days. I’m stronger, more confident, happier. I have a healthier and more realistic understanding of relationships. I’m more independent, and I love myself a whole lot more.

Ask your crush out. Even if they say no. So worth it in the long run.

[moochimartinez]

As a female if a girl says ew after you confessed to her then there might be something wrong with you for liking her. No girl that has a heart would tell you "ew" that's messed up bro drop her QUICK

[SpellboundSpectre]

Ok, but I don’t think I can talk to a biblically accurate angel

[laavanya]

I'm a 17 year old girl and told a guy about my feelings, got rejected in such a manner by the gentlemen that i feel absolutely free, we were and are friends, i wasn't expecting a relationship out of us, he have a crush on someone else, we talked for 40 minutes afterwards, and i must say am grateful to have such friends with me
Edit: i just added comas cause someone got a stroke reading this earlier

[dojo]

It's not always as simple as telling them. In my case I keep ending up stuck in toxic relationships after seeing a girl's true colors once we're dating. Now I always approach girls I like with extreme caution and avoid starting relationships at all unless I'm 100% sure that they're not insane first.

[sliteturtlez]

I'm about to be 18 in a couple months, and I haven't even held a girl's hand romantically. However, looking at it like that discards most of my efforts in the recent past. I remember that only 3 years ago, I was stuttering over every word when talking to pretty girls, but now I can actually hold a conversation and act nonchalant. After 6 rejections, I have been forced to look within myself more intently and question all aspects of my life. The best things in life are indeed on the opposite of fear. Thank you for creating such an inspiring video.

[EthanPrimeElementalist]

I'm pretty loyal when it comes to having a crush and not switching easily

[USSFFRU]

Don't forget to do it when you both know eachother long enough, don't do it after 2 days of falling for her. When you two know eachother atleast for a good amount of time is when it's worth to try

[Ronen-]

I'm personally scared because we've been friends for so long, I'm worried that it will end the wholesome relationship we have. But this gave me courage and made me see things I never would have thought of. Thanks brother.

[Lorenzozooo]

I know a friend who got rejected so many times that it's not even funny, but all those rejections made turned him into a cool and down to earth dude

[jacktheuser-ckqi]

I recently asked a girl out and she said yes. After 3 rejections between different girls, I found one, and my god is she a sweetheart, I want to spend every moment with her. I'm not even that attractive or funny, yet I found a girl who cares and genuinely loves me. So remember Kings, ask her out, if she says no, improve yourself if she says yes you secured the bag.

[ovelhablep]

Growing up, I was rejected by a lot of boys, and they would always say that the pretty girls are skinny and all. I was a child so I would feel really bad about it. Now im on my late teens and I got a personality glow. Tried to be less angry about life and just tried to enjoy my teenhood as much as I can. It landed me in a almost 2 year relationship. And I realized how immature I am compared to him, so I'm trying my best for him and for myself. I feel way better now. I just wanted to say that sometimes, personal growth is everything.

[souzuka]

i confessed after a month of hesitation, I wasn't reject nor was i liked back, she just thanked me and at that point i knew i had to focus more on myself

[rubenhinze]

I think the hardest but most important lesson I've had to learn from rejection is "Just because I like her, does not make her special". What I mean by that is that she's still a human being with flaws and insecurities like me, and this isn't gonna be my only chance in life to get a life partner. There are plenty of people who can be a better fit for me than her. And I know it's hard, it's really f*cking hard, because if u think she isn't special until you get something out of her, doesn't that mean that u don't truly love her? No! Just don't put all the hopes of ur life into a girl simply because she was kind or pretty. It takes a long time to get to know someone and u can't truly love someone until you understand their deepest flaws and insecurities and they reciprocate that love. The average lifespan of a human is 70 years, don't worry u have plenty of time, just take it slow and u'll find the right person. And don't blame urself when they reject u, because then they weren't the right person and realise that sometimes ur gonna be wrong and that's ok.