Why Not Being Afraid Of Losing Him Is Smart & Super Attractive

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[CandidRose]

"Never be afraid of losing him. Be afraid of losing yourself."
"Self-respect is like an aphrodisiac to good men."
"You are a gift to the right man."

[feebsfilms]

Never be afraid of losing him, be afraid of losing YOURSELF! This is so key to keeping balance and healthy dynamics in a relationship. All your videos are so good. ❤️

[deblinadeya]

"The way a person treats us is the way that person feels about us"❤️

[unfoldinglotus]

This is the truth. In my first marriage he was toxic and abusive. No amount of me becoming his doormat ever worked. I left him in 2016 after studying human behavior and psychology. I found self-worth and self-respect. I kept working on myself for 5 years single. Started dating a man and realized he was not going to be what I needed him to be. So I set some healthy boundaries. I was so in love with him, so attracted, but I knew that road, and didn't want to go down it again. So, I chose self-respect and carried on with my life. Then last July I ran into the one that got away twenty years ago. He just proposed on the 26th at our favorite space. He is so different, a good man.

The times I've had to set a boundary or tell him he violated one went so well. He did look at me differently, in a good way. One example is when he said, "You're worthy of all of that". I replied, "I know I am, or I would not have asked." He said, "See, that's why people are intimidated by you. You are intelligent and know your worth." Trust Brian, ladies. He is not lying to you. Stop chasing these half-ass men.

[originalgoldengoddess]

I'd rather be single for the rest of my life than be around people that disrespect me. I'm content on my own anyway... I don't have to answer to anyone or ask permission to go out... and I can be myself when I'm alone without being judged.

[Pipsterz]

Feelings are often wrong.
The way a person *treats* us is how they feel about us. You are a gift to the right man!
Actions speak louder than words. And his indecision is a decision.

[EcoworksFL]

When he disrespected me and I stood my ground.. he did not respect me more..he accused me of being easily offended and he was being restricted!
That's toxic narcissist for you!

[kannahashimoto]

“Self-respect is like an aphrodisiac to good men.” Spot on!

[roseequartzz]

"Be afraid of losing yourself." 💯💯

[autumnakins]

If he's such a great guy to not want to lose him, he's not going anywhere anyway. So true amd I needed to be reminded of that. Thank you!

[SurrealismByKia]

I love staying until the end, he always says thank you for staying and for some reason I feel super special when he does that.

[dreamweaver]

When a man wants you, he will literally come and get you!
❤

[Shellbee]

It’s NOT about games as you’re saying it’s about self respect…in ALL relationships people are attracted to those with self respect who don’t tolerate any BS

[hannahberlinpetry]

That’s because that’s what you do when you love people-you’re afraid to lose them.

The games are ridiculous. It’s stupid to pretend like we don’t care when we do. It’s also ridiculous that we expect men to drop everything for a woman, but the reverse is seen as us being “desperate”.

I’m not saying we shouldn’t have a standard for how we want to be treated. Every person should have these. But to pretend like we don’t love them is lying to them and lying to ourselves. We can say “I love you, and I don’t want to lose you, but this is what I want. I’d like you to be the person that gives me what I want, but if you don’t, I will walk away with a hurt heart, but I will move forward.”

Relationships shouldn’t be a power struggle, and anyone who tries to have power over you is not a person that you should be with. Love lays down weapons. Love is mutually reciprocated.

[samboriboun]

After spending 5 months i asked my ex what are we doing he replied i want what we have now for the moment, i cant give more so that day i said goodbye.

[ptyh]

If he really loves and cares for you, he will never make you feel afraid of losing him or make you wonder if he is still interested in you. Remember to always find a man who is into you more than you are him, then you will never have doubts about him

[hippiechic]

Thank you! ❤️ I was recently called ignorant by the guy I’m seeing. He is not one to apologize. I was recently reminded that I am who God says I am and keep that in mind anytime I hear a negative comment about myself. He needs counseling but says he will never change. My opinion is that you change for the people you love. I do not know what the future holds but I know God has a plan for my life.

[kwashbourne]

I’ve just told the guy of my dreams (literally the it guy I’ve known since school I’m now 44!) that his communication isn’t good enough and it’s not working out for me. It felt Sssooo powerful!!

[vionaxi]

Thank you. You teach me how to be a high value woman who dont chase and crave attention. So now, i know what to do..

[stephaniethelovely]

This is one of your best. Really excellent. This actually helped me a lot, because you're right, why on earth should I be fighting for someone who isn't interested in me! That is kinda bananas, but the "prove myself" cycle is natural I suppose?...It's funny, I thought for awhile. "he's just shy or avoidant" - until I saw him march boldly across the parking lot to talk to a pretty girl he actually likes...so no, he just didn't like me haha!