Cognitive Dissonance And Narcissistic Abuse #narcissist

[rm]

They are nice to everyone else. They save their real self for home, but everyone else gets kindness.

[SheldonBrown]

I hated that! As a kid, my friends always thought so highly of my alcoholic grandiose father and my covert narcissistic mother. Never understood how others don’t see their self absorbed and immature cruel behavior.

[hepdnwt]

So true! Others do not understand often what we went through.

[beautypablotamarini]

Every word you said I felt on my skin.
As narc mom died, right on funural, ppl said how mentaly sick she was.
What All of them kissed her foot all her life! Just bcs she helped them and, in fact, they used her and she used them.
What a sick situation. As child, I constantly begged for them help, I was victim of her undescriable monstruosity...

[machellmcintosh]

Omg! This! It gets irritating on how nice they say he is and it’s gotta be me.

[sparklesp]

If they're covert, they hide it intentionally 😂

[kerrytaggart]

Nothing worse than having people who do not understand your torture tell you that you “should be a family again”.

[elizabethbettencourt]

My narc is beloved by all except those that lived with

[HairbyNardia]

Thank you so much for always making us feel seen and heard ❤

[cefcat]

With support systems like this, you don't need support systems. ❤

[donnasieli]

They move the goal post every time you think you have them figured out to promote peace and you end up frustrated and discouraged....you can't win ever!

[Ed-lian]

My social worker said.
Also narcissists are humans.
A mother is a mother.
Even if she is narcissist.
She is a human being.
Without the mother she would not be alive.

When I say only people who expierienced the narcissist have a real idea what it is.
She claims to knows what a narcissist is.

[nonawolf]

Narc Mom can pull it off for a while... very charming and sweet in short bursts - but over the long haul, her mask always drops. Narcs are sprinters - but they get revealed in a marathon.

[vineethathomas]

they destroyed my entire life...
it is of course my fault....i allowed it

[AnitaSharma-hcib]

You validate my opinion ❤I appreciate your efforts ❤

[jacklimcortez]

That's true Danish thank you what I don't know is God sees everything and lots of angels too see what they're doing so just praying and they can't get the best of you thank you and be aware❤😢😂❤

[susanjohnson]

I was just having a bad evening at home for this very reason. My mind was in a jumble. Thank you for popping up on my feed Danish

[stBorn]

Golden child narcs will rather have the toxic parent in their lives and make you feel as though you're just being ungrateful and thankful that you even have a parent...

[INFJparadox]

No one EVER had a nice thing to say about my mother because she was mean to everyone and why I never had friends over. Of course she was the exact opposite in front of people she had fooled

[ChristopherLarson-cn]

What i have to learn and am sharing is to simply keep my mouth shut. I am being bombarded with information that i was not prepared for. i wasn't aware of. It is overwhelming. I know Danish understands.