Ask Steve - Men Don't Do Anything for FREE

[EdzDayuha]

Exactly what my father told me when i was a teenager — never accept any random gifts or favor from men because they never do it for FREE!

[gotch]

Very little in this world is truly "free". Except maybe the air we breath.

[CB-brjc]

My mom always told me: nothing in life is free love! You want something, figure out how to get it yourself.

[LadyAngela]

No Boo. Give him some rent money so he doesnt think you owe him.

[jaydubb]

It's a time limit on the rent free.. Before things get awkward for both parties.

[kitthecat]

When I ran away from home in highschool my friend let me sleep at his house at night, but literally a couple minutes after his parents left he whipped it out...I thought he wanted to help me out cause he never tried anything before. smh, steve is def telling the truth! I just never understood how people can pretend for so long, when they truly have a motive...

[AlexisNexia]

If its not sex, she'll be cookin or cleaning...

[Veyronp]

she's really attractive so yeah he's got other motives.. no matter how "sweet" he may seem. 

[hannibalmassinissa]

Steve you got it right and wrong. Men can be generous and do good deeds for women for the sake of God.
I have helped women without even looking at their face and did not ask their name. I just saw they needed help and I did and moved on like she has never met me in her life

[kellybangura]

I recently lost weight. Have noticed a lot of people being nicer to me. Especially men. A few weeks ago, some guy ( stranger, didn't know him at all and I've never seen him before ) paid for some groceries that I had to put back, because I didn't have enough food stamps to pay for it all. Have me $8 and heading out the door. Yes I looked really good. But he also didn't stay to find out who I was or my number. Nothing. He was in front of me in the check out line. So it wasn't like he needed to. I have never had some random stranger pay for my groceries. I have noticed that guys are far nicer to me now that I have lost weight. Even friends and family are nicer to me now that I have lost weight. I am still the same nice, honest and politely respectful person I have always been. I wonder why my weight matters so so much to mostly everyone.

[tikeyah]

My father taught me so much; 1) men don’t hang around nothing they don’t want, 2) sex is always on their minds, 3) rap is an option, 4) do not drink from your cup if you leave it to go dance, get a fresh cup, 5) if the man you just broke up with says he needs to speak with you, meet him in a restaurant, bar, or busy park, never at your home or his.

[hendersonli]

For me the deciding factor (and I believe the same goes for a lot of men), is am I physically attracted to her. If yes, then there will always be another motive. If no, then that means I really do see you as a bro.

[YuzieMadison]

Love that Steve helps me understand the mind of a man

[sabirahmalika]

I never had a guy that didn't expect something in return for doing something for me. If he's really just a friend she is blessed

[amojynca]

RIP to my dude FRIENDZONE on national TV

[giovannivernon]

Ladies!! Ladies!! Ladies!!!! Stop fooling yourselves. If you are as hot as this fine young lady, then there is not such thing as "just friends." Her male friend definitely has other motives, without a doubt! If she wasn't so attractive then it's easy to be just friends and do stuff for free, but not when you are as gorgeous as she is!

[JF]

I've done things for free for people wanting nothing in return. But in this situation I believe the guy had ulterior motives. Hope she's doing alright.

[erikhopkins]

Steve is an over protective father. You can see it with the advice he gives women.

[vanaphill]

And woman shouldn't do anything for free, either. Think like a man and you won't get played by men.

[ronjunior]

The only thing that's free in this earth realm is God's love, grace and mercy. EVERYTHING else is "pay to play."