Why High IQ Men Tend to Struggle With Women Ft. @AaronClarey

Why High IQ Men Tend to Struggle With Women
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[jaynoii]

I believe the hardest part of being intelligent is that you see different perspectives of the world that isn’t popular. When you open your mouth and say what you see is coming, backed by data, cancel culture. In dating, sharing intellectual philosophies or ideas is an automatic argument and full of irrational feelings. Feelings over reason is what I’m learning.

[ghriszlybare]

One of the most difficult parts of being intelligent is finding others who can keep up with me. I broke up with a girl once just because she wasnt very bright. We couldnt have good conversations and i had to explain a ton of stuff to her. It was exhausting. I also keep a small group of friends for the same reason. I get along with most people but almost nobody can keep me engaged. I dont know my exact IQ but i sit somewhere between 118 and 142. Alcohol and weed helped me be more normal but they limit my ability so thats not a great solution.

[Mathuselah_]

People don't realize that having a high IQ doesn't always translate to being a high earner. My dad has an incredibly high IQ but he chose to live the simplest life possible. His lack of desire for material success really pissed off a lot of women including my mom. Women will look at you like how can you be so smart and be so poor at the same time. They don't understand when you see the world objectively you can lose the desire to be apart of the rat race. Some examples are Ted kaczynski, Emory Tate (Andrew Tates dad), and Nikola Tesla. These men were highly intelligent and chose not to prioritize earning lots of money. The paradox is they never lost the desire to be innovative and creative. Women hate a smart man who isn't rich. They view those kinds of men as a waste of life.

[Disappointed_Philosoraptor]

The hardest thing to deal with is how terribly emotional and irrational the average person, men ad women, are, and how much they let their emotions not only guide but completely direct especially the most vital descisions in their life. And you're standing there, more aware of your emotions and the influence they have on you, as well as more in control of them for this reason, watching culture and society revolve around and be catered to these irrational emotional people.

[cas]

Cappy said this and it’s true; when you have a high IQ you see things other people don’t. Countless times at work I have brought up a problem that I saw or foresaw. I just got looked at like I had a third eye. But three years later the same people would have an epiphany and realize there was a problem. I never got acknowledged for identifying or proposing a solution years earlier. I’m pretty sure I’ve been way more intelligent than any boss I have ever had.

[roundup]

I struggle with the fact most people simply does not want to learn new things, especially women. They wanna have a good time not more, the shut down if you use more than 3 sentences that belong together. It’s all about short term feel good

[danlimbaugh]

Many of the people you meet in the military are simply awe inspiring. I went into the Navy flight program with a Mathematics major backing me up... but I was suddenly around engineers who had actually quit jobs in aerospace and defense contractors making amazing money, to come fly for the country. But it wasn't just intelligence, they were dependable guys who in general did NOT screw off, nor accept it.

[brianbergen]

My biggest frustration is that when you see something that is plain as the nose on your face, and you're in a room where nobody sees it. Then, if you point out the obvious, someone always gets mad because they end up looking foolish. Many times I keep my opinion to myself simply because it keeps you from people pissed at you.

[Xuter]

My IQ is around 140. I know what women want, i just don't want to do those certains things because of morals, ethics, logic and legal reasons. I like to treat people fairly and with care, but for some reason this make women dry. Also as a man, I'm interested in things not in people, so i can relate to conversation thing. Not doing what it takes to get women also affects my self-esteem. Sometimes i wish i were more average with some courage.

[bitwize]

I've often said that brilliance is corrosive to relationships because when a brilliant person pairs with a normie, the normie just can't keep up. A salient feature of intelligence is unpredictability. Genius does what it does and people of average intelligence are unable to predict what the genius will do next, because they just don't have the brainpower to understand what the genius is doing. This leads to frustration and a breakdown of trust. A big part of trusting someone is being able to model in your mind what they will or won't do, and from that having confidence that the person won't harm or betray you. But again, highly intelligent people are much harder to model by people of low or mid intelligence. One of Richard Feynman's second wife's complaints against him in their divorce was "He does calculus all day!" Calculus was completely unfathomable to her; the fact that he did unfathomable things all the time made him untrustworthy because his next move could not be guessed.

[cwilliams]

crazy how many literal geniuses there are in the comments

[rubyeaw]

I am a girl with an IQ around 135-140. My understanding is that intelligent people can be quite sensitive, as I have seen in academia, and in tech. Some struggles to deal with their thoughts, and emotions. Partly, I think it is hard to raise an intelligent kid right. You need parents that are both emotionally, and intellectually supportive too.

Edit: I also realized that people misunderstand intelligent people. They would be judged as unsuccessful if they do not accomplish something extraordinary. But in fact, many are not interested in worldly things. Many also are not interested in relationships. Also, when you are on an extreme end, you attract other extremes. For example, I think many intelligent people who work on something difficult or stressful can somtimes have very high sexual drive too. I do not know how they are related. But it is just more complicated when it comes to high IQ.

[v-]

Also smarter people usually tend to be more critical of how they're perceived. While the not so smart doesnt really care which often leads to more charisma and self-confidence.

"You're so worried about how you're perceived that you can't fully enjoy living"

[truescotsman]

My IQ averages 132 I've been tested 4 times. All of this is accurate. Intelligence doesn't guarantee success it's actually a detriment to success in social structures. You need a strong work ethic and focus and goals and good discipline. Intelligence helps you solve problems and learn. Most of those things are pretty easy but getting along with people is almost impossible. Intelligent people can't solve the problems stupid people create for them in personal relationships it's that simple. I feel like an alien stranded on an alien planet like planet of the monkey's. It's not even planet of the apes is far worse than that. It's the idiocracy version of that. I get along pretty well with most people but it's hard. Having a girlfriend or close friends is almost impossible. Having family is almost impossible. Being alone is the easiest and most rewarding. Being alone is worth it.

[zombieseezombiedo]

Worse than being behind, is being ahead.

[brushstroke]

Nice to hear someone talking about this. Highly intelligent people are often neglected and abused.

[northernguy]

A smart person constantly playing their smart card is like a gym bro constantly flexing his muscles. Mix it up, switch into action mode, switch into seductive mode. Women like variance, not the same predictable chord played monotonously.

[thesolutiondude]

I consider myself highly intelligent, both extremely book smart & street smart. I took a shroom a few years ago & it made me realize one of the saddest things ever.. in just about every conversation I have with just about everyone I know & have ever met, I can pretty much always meet them at their level depending on if I want to or not for us to get along, but I can just about never ever freely speak my mind & my thoughts & expect anyone to meet me on my level. 😩

[loki]

The hardest part is knowing when you're being lied to or when someone is lying, you see the BS coming. I am a 140-150 guy who managed to marry and have kids with a 130ish woman. It didn't last for whatever, but I've always been adaptable and willing to learn and self improve.

One of the funniest things I learned was that my best dating strategy was to STFU and look pretty.

I'm a hair over 6' and I surf, so I'm fit, and I'm a top 1-2% wage earner, and I can both sing and dance. My best dating profile, I had a picture of me surfing, a good profile pic and said as little as possible.

[micka]

My IQ is at least 140 and it has been difficult to find a partner too.

There is a research out there that indicates that people won’t be able to communicate with each other at all at deep level if the IQ difference is greater than two standard deviations which is 30 points

So a woman with above average IQ, EQ, and facial look is almost nonexistent in my experience