Narcissistic men want Kids but never learn how to be Dads

[bettinagaal]

They treat you like their mom.
They treat their mom like a wife.

[mamamel]

So accurate. The saddest part is when you can see it in your kid’s faces. These are the same men that’ll suddenly fight tooth & nail for custody. Not outta love for their kids, but to hurt you. These demons are Worst of the worst.💀☠️

[TarotAF]

Very true. That is exactly how my covert narcissist ex husband is. He puts on the perfect front. People fall for it all the time.

[andreaj]

This is exactly my ex. And then he goed so far as to tell our kids I am taking his money. There's nothing too low for him

[MumtazRahimvk]

So accurate
He said me after a fight do you want second baby
Out of no where
I was shocked with the response
Then I understood first was also a plan

[grandchahee]

This is so true I feel stuck sick and unsafe dealing with the narcissist and I want to get myself and child far away.

[loiswilliamson]

Soooo accurate and absolutely truly pathetic! I had one for 37 years….

[yabuzagardens]

Everything changed the day my child was born, while I was in labor. It was like his mask fell when things got real. He had already begun sleeping in the living room while I was pregnant and made that permanent with no reason after our son was born. My narc ex admitted that he intentionally did whatever was necessary for the first 5yrs to keep me because he wanted me to have his baby. During that time, we talked often about how our family would function, he swore he's great with kids & joked about how he'd be more fun than me. Our son is a teen now & never wants to see him again. Narc ex is also facing 20yrs in prison for charges of child endangerment & sexual assault of minors on the job. He is not permitted to be around any child in the state, not even ours, without parental or psychiatric approval & supervision. He's a whole predator, I was granted a protective order after he assaulted me. But he refused to pay the ex-spousal & child support that we had a written agreement for, the courts enforced it, he owes over $160k in arrears, lived under the same roof but admitted that he hasn't spoken to our child in years~but shifts all his responsibilities & blame for his neglect & abandonment of our child onto me, while claiming in court with a straight face that he takes care of his child, although he contributes no money, time, thought or effort towards our sons rearing, education, housing, health, spirituality, food costs, social needs, transportation, development, clothing etc. Refusing even after being court ordered, even laughing at the judge when told he must be held to account & comply with the restraining order. I divorced him & he's extremely bitter & vindictive that his plan to baby trap me didn't work & now his name has been put on a statewide domestic violence offender list because of his lies, secrets & abuse.

[RebuildingWithClarity]

This is what I dealt with. I blocked him within the last few days. He wants pictures but doesn't contribute financially nor makes a way or time to see them.

[HyggeHomestead]

Push you to have a child, then get jealous of the attention the baby gets

[sumaiyahakoojee]

💯 thank you for the hard core truth spiritual unconditional love with integrity rules peace ✌

[SuzyQpip]

True! And when they post on fb that it’s the child’s b-day, it’s all about them! They barely mention the child.

[Hy-yncc]

Someone send this to my soon to be ex husband forcing me and our baby to move back to narcissistic parents house not caring at all my parents mentally abused me all childhood and my life . He was physically mentally abuse I had to call cops he tried to kill me

[roopagunasekaran]

Exactly true
My narcissistic husband does the same

[christinav]

No wander I was so exhausted in my marriage as I carried everything on my shoulders while he did as he pleased. Thank God the marriage ended.

[BecauseOfHim]

BINGO! Keep up the GREAT work Danish. Be blessed. 🙏

[Nyctophora]

All true, yet again! The narc ex didn't want a kid - he wanted the family praise his brother was getting.

[zombinaagogo]

Exactly what my father did to my mother.
Including physical abuse, aggressive and passive aggressive verbal abuse to everyone in the family. I was diagnosed at 7 years old with depression. My poor mother had so many physical health issues she passed away at 50 years old, I was the youngest at 13 years old.
Except he was "ultimate father" wanna be at his Church (Morman), not on social media. My parents were born in the late 40's, and my siblings and I were born in 70's to 80's. I went to college out of state tried to get away from him and be independent and healthy. Oh boy, is he manipulative and would not let me go. He does not want his children to be successful unless you mirror him. I finally went complete no contact last year. After keeping my distance for years and trying to be positive and productive in my adult life. Staying in contact with him and my two brothers has been damaging to my mental health.

[justmemother]

Sadly true, true, true, true, true, true, true and true. 😢

[lanamaart]

The legal system enable most of them....