Surviving Infidelity Survey Part 1: What Do You Need to Know?

Do you find it easier to know what isn’t working in recovery more than what is? Contrary to what some may think, there IS a playbook for this level of crisis and trauma. Today you’ll hear specific data from actual betrayed spouses on what they wish they had known early on in the process. I know you’ll find the information to not only be compelling but also instrumental in your own situation and future

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- Amanda, Florida

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[janerichman]

So difficult and painful. It's like constantly reopening the wound with a rusty knife. It's a pain that only the betrayed will understand. Raw and bleeding. So hard. You want to know but the horror of knowing details is nauseating. These videos help so much. Thank you Wayne 😢

[eileenpillmeier]

So true. The trickle is gut wrenching.

[lindalewis]

I can’t say enough praise about AR courses and videos. They literally saved my marriage. We are still on a road to recovery but without them I feel we would have separated long ago. This video encapsulates well the needs of the betrayed early on. Things that I too wish I had known. The dilemma is how to share this with people without exposing your life to others. Well done Wayne.

[mperez]

Thank you Wayne. We had the blessing of working with you this past weekend. Your advice was priceless. Keep making these videos please....

[breederman]

This whole process would have been so much shorter if my UW would have not waited 14 months after the last d day to give me a full detailed written disclosure. FULL WRITTEN DISCLOSURE.

[nancyrevels]

The “trickle truths” were preceded with lies. As the betrayed spouse, I can’t help but to verify his statements with vigilante diligence since trust is broken. The discovery of these new lies deepens the hurt and pain. Regaining trust in the relationship moves further away. Yes, the infidelity was wrong but continuing the secrecy and lies lowers any progress in regaining his integrity and honor in my eyes. I could accept the human being with fault but continuing bad behavior makes me see him as a very weak man. It is sad. He is a father of two boys who look up to him

[brendasparks]

Is it wrong of me as the betrayed to want to know who my husband cheated with and when? Don't I deserve to know. We are up to 14 so far but I have spent over 2 yrs trying to get the truth. He says none of my business😢

[annamariascalderaro-defina]

I have a gut feeling my spouse is cheating, he gets so mad when I ask. It's all social media. He changes the subject, calls me crazy, but hides his cell, his apps. I can't get a answer from him. I need advice. The other woman never wins . It's just a game to them.

[CatBlack]

Not sure what is meant by "understanding their mate's motivations for recovery". Can anyone explain, please?