How We Made It to the Other Side: Overcoming Infidelity

Today Samuel his friends Hank and Aixa as they share their own story of healing from infidelity.

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[Rd]

As a betrayed spouse I’m always asking am I valuable to the unfaithful. Am I worth going through the hard things to win my heart back. Am I desirable enough to pursue. Am I worth fighting for. This whole situation has caused me to feel so devalued and unwanted. I wish my spouse would understand how much it start to heal my brokenness to do these things. Thanks so much for people like you in bringing this message.

[Dawn-tvbk]

I love this informal type of video. Makes the story even more raw and real. This is real life, real sorrow, real joy. Thank you for sharing your story. I’m looking forward to listening to your book on audible. And thank you Samuel for bringing their story of hope and healing to YouTube. So encouraging!

[shellyt]

I’ve been listening for several months. This interview helped me put the seal of commitment on the hope I’ve been so afraid of. He’s hurt me before, but now I’m strong enough to hold my ground and pray until that contrite work happens. I can see it in your faces, hear it in your words: the work is worth it. I understand it’s still his decision, but this encourages me not to give up.

[PrincessSquish]

Where can I find the video Samuel referenced about being happy, not just “less sad”? Sounds spot on!

[kristineellithorpe]

We're 2 years in and its a rollercoaster but this story gives me hope that a broken couple can overcome this and create a new and better relationship.

[pattianndt]

Intimacy is MUCH more than sex. Which I assume she was referring to when she said phenomenal. I would have like hear about emotional intimacy.

[locksannmateo]

This is an awesome post! God bless you all for the work your doing and sharing your experiences.

[katceeee]

Thank you for sharing your story. Right now I hate my husband and want nothing to do with him. I hate him for causing me so much pain. I pray that God heals my heart soon because it's been shattered into pieces for too many years now.

[normaearnisse]

Thank you both god bless you both ... needed to hear that!

[REDSHADOWS]

As I watched... I went on Audible and bought it. Here’s hoping I can move forward and see true change.

[virginiamartinez]

I loved this video, and I feel I really understand their message, thank you.

[edgarquezada]

Great book.... ever time I read it I find something new and positive God bless you two, definitely brought hope

[kimortegastrongwarriorbrid]

Yes, you need to feel safe first are it's not going to work. Brokenness is very important to move forward. And boundaries and accountability. Ty for sharing. Yes me monsters has to be humble and contrite and to think of others and stop the blaming and take full responsibility for their bad behaviors. Loved, Do what it takes to honor and Treat eachother and value eachother. I Love my husband, Praying for my husband to come out of darkness in JesUS name. Thank you for this vedio. 🙏🙏🙏 Hope and reconciliation 🙏⚘🌈

[gonurseyourself__]

This is such an encouraging testimony 😍thanks for sharing !!

[allanbravo]

Enjoyed that very much made a lot of sense to me thank you

[hoodedhippie]

As the unfaithful spouse, there is healing that needs to happen, is there any perspective that sheds light on the deep wounds we may have that cause us to become unfaithful or repeat a perpetual cycle of going from relationship to relationship believing that the next person will love us more? And how that healing can help us through infidelity recovery and recognize what caused our behaviour in the first place so that we may not repeat those same behaviours? As they say... “hurt people will hurt people”...

[tkaki]

I wish 95% of what was out there wasn’t geared towards betrayed women and unfaithful men.

[josuechoquechambi]

Do you have a Spanish version of this book?

[willythewaxman]

We're not having this option because she never gave us this opportunity