The Harsh Reality Of Being A Man In The Modern World

Chris and Connor Beaton discuss the recent rise of the manosphere. What is causing popularity and interest into the manosphere according to Connor Beaton? Why does Connor Beaton think men search for manosphere advice? What do men need to get better at according to Connor Beaton?

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[EntrepreneursInCars]

They tell men 'do what's right' they tell women 'do what's right for you girl'

Massive lesson there.

[ludwigvonsowell]

It’s a bully tactic. The kid that shoots spitballs at the back of your head all day. But when you decide to swing a book at his head suddenly you’re the problem, you’re the one who crossed a line, you blew it out of proportion. It’s 1000% a bully tactic.

[michaelrobinson]

I stood in an auditorium of women - the only man aside from the "White knight" presenting at a White Ribbon showcase on domestic violence Here in Australia (Organised by HR at my work who have a massive hard-on for taking down men). It was entirely about women as poor victims and men as aggressive destroyers. All backed in by the presenter using his own shameful story as the "norm" for men instead of admitting he was a weak alcho who beat his wife.

I stood in question time and called out - "I work with many Veteran's and men who are victims of abuse, vulnerable and in need of support - or who have simply killed themselves. Suicides in my group are 5x the national rate; Please tell me the names of organisations men can go to".

The presenter - a man ffs, had NOTHING. No woman had a reply other than some quiet disquiet over me intruding.

[anuragpradhan]

As a man, a simple rule keeps me sane. Expect the least out of people.

The less you expect of people, the less disappointed you will be.

Don't go about expecting that you will be helped when in trouble, sure give it, but don't expect it back. Don't expect kindness in return for kindness. I try to be my best, but I am under no illusion that I will be rewarded for it, in any way whatsoever.

Of course there will be exceptions to this - for me its my family members.

Bottom line is, keep defending yourself and be safe.

[jamesdoyle]

Society can't face male vulnerability because it rides on male labor and male utility, so it's is terrifying to acknowledge that vulnerability.

[jamesa]

It's harder for boys to just " figure it out" when it's also popular to kick the male role model out of the house and turn him into a court ordered tax-free cash account, or face prison. We won't see it improve in our lifetime.

[Anne_Onymous]

We need happy, healthy, masculine men for a functioning society. Those are our fathers, brothers, husbands, and sons. They should be supported and protected at all costs.

[Chiapanecogűero]

I got divorced after 10yrs and instead of crying I went to the gym and started bodybuilding. I lost 100ibs and feel good about myself. I've never felt better in my life till now.

[tedlogan]

Chris nailed it: zero sum ideology; Marxist ideology. That sits at the bottom of all these issues. Zero sum ideology drives the current feminism that sees men as the competitor for the same resources, rather than complimentary partners that can pursue endeavors which may generate or invent means and vehicles for successful society.

[Ruckus]

I've worked in mental health/substance abuse treatment for about a decade. Ive absolutely lost my job for advocating for improvements to make to male treatment. The "go-girl" female leaders see that as an attack on them and want to do anything to eradicate it. It's a shame, men are struggling but the leadership in the behavioral health industry is ignoring it

[ethanwesthoff]

I used to be a vegan self-hating male liberal with a pink mullet. This New Year I began listening to the other side and heard only logical conclusions/solutions. The liberal view is that being born a male or white or even both means you don’t get to have any problems, you are the problem. I started hitting the gym, I got a normal haircut and hair color, I started eating steak again, and found a brotherhood. MEN NEED MALE FRIENDS. That is what almost every male that is struggling lacks. We need someone we can joke with without walking on eggshells, someone to push us to be better than we are, and someone we can open up to about things we don’t necessarily feel comfortable sharing.

[joan]

I have 2 sons in their early 30s. Trust me, I have dialed into this plight through channels like yours and it has given me greater purpose shepherding young men whether they’re mine or at work. Men need strong peer groups for sure, and women who support healthy masculinity. Talk to the mums, we know exactly how important this is.

[americanhealthcaresurvivor]

We don't need more vulnerability, we need more truth and justice

[thecontrarycontrarian]

The world needs a massive worldwide men's rights movement. Men need justice and protection from atrocities, abuse, and assault by women

[ashade]

The fact that woman feel threatened when men are supported only shows why it's a waste of time to listen to them. How women react is all i need to see.

[mtarlo]

My grandfather had 11 children, he was a policeman, a teacher, a coach, a contractor and he fought in Korea. Like many men his age he didn’t open up about these things, he just did them. Starting maybe with my generation we seemed to believe that this was the cause of many of that generation’s imperfections. Only if they opened up, they could find comfort. I tried that, we have all been trying that for 30 years and its done nothing but ensure the necessity of a certain class of people. That masculinity is the ability in life to get on without needing anything from them. This is what they fear, people who don’t give a damn about their theories and who don’t need their help.

[inelhuayocan_aci]

When victimhood is your currency, your mind filled with the doctrine of self-care, and your heart with avarice, giving care to the suffering of others feels like charity that's purely optional yet undesirable.

[torch_fire]

Support is a threat when you see the person supported as your enemy. The feminist movement is operating a war against men, and in war, you don't see your opposition supported, their plight sympathized with, or their pain showcased. You seek their destruction. That's why you get such backlash whenever you see someone talk about men's issues.

[magicalfrijoles]

Men, no one cares how you feel. Your value is equal to what you can provide.

[MyTruth]

Never listen to anyone about manhood except older MEN who live the manly life you'd like to manifest.