What should happen after relapsing

Relapsing does not make you a failure, so don’t beat up on yourself. Instead, think about what led you to the point, and learn from it.

[legendarygoat]

The fact i just relapsed today and i see this video means a lot man your truly and inspiration❤️

[TommyIce]

For me the trigger is often just being bored. My mind tends to go to porn because I've made it a habit (probably during quarantine), it's getting better tho. I've tried quitting cold turkey many times but it didn't work for me so now I'm trying to ease into it, making the gap between relapses longer. I've managed to stretch it to around 2 weeks for now 🎉. Good luck to everyone who reads this, feel free to comment here, I'll try to help you / keep you accountable if I can. ❤ Love brothers

[toastyy]

Not gonna lie, after deleting social media, the causes of my relapses have just been my thoughts. It's always certain videos that I watched while I was in the deep depths of the addiction that randomly pop up in my brain and give me the urges to go back to them. I know how to control my urges now more than ever though, partly thanks to you. The work you do is appreciated.

[dddemyu]

For me, my trigger is often times just thinking. The internet gives access to things like the hub that ruins and takes over your mind. It has taken over mine and others minds, but we’re all climbing out of this hole, no matter how deep it you are. Personally, I’ve made a lot of progress in controlling my urges, and I hope everyone reading this is too.
Thank you Shimon, from the bottom of my heart❤

[Paraxzc]

social media, especially when you scroll and nothing entertains you, getting bored and searching it up just to feel something. Or going through social media and seeing something we shouldn't have. Social media the problem for me.

[Coaxiumlooter]

It is pretty sad to recognise that I was doing great doing amazing in my journey towards freedom, but I couldn't control my mind after 2 months of struggling. And now I need to start climbing again, but I learn a lot from my past mistakes, and now I will do whatever it takes to succeed. thanks to you my brother 💪
hope you all the best
Stay hard!

[lucmorris]

"Appreciate the loss its a lesson, appreciate the pain it's a blessing" - Jay-Z

[kxqvbtd]

My trigers are just thinking, social media, going to shower. After I relapse after 14 days and more, I can relapsing every day, because I very disapointing in myself. Thank you Shimon

[Renardo.]

Got a 19 day streak mostly thanks to your videos 2 weeks ago. Accidentally relapsed but I knew to learn from my mistakes. I realized I did it because instead of getting recommended the triggers I used to search for them and then block them but it would still trigger me. Learnt from that and now I’m at a 14 day streak and feeling a lot better than on the last streak where I had all these triggers.

[lebensebs]

I had gone over 500 days without relapsing and then fell down into a pit for a few weeks and relapsed. I’m climbing out now, but it really taught me that highs and lows are a part of life and no matter how well, how perfect you could keep something up for, you’re still vulnerable to falling off. That, plus why I relapsed which probably stemmed from thinking about getting into a relationship or getting a gf in general for the month before. It really distracted my mind.

But thank you Shimon. Your words are changing how I live every day for the better.

[Matchitchoo]

Thank you for the energy bro ❤ I’m a week through without p*rn, i’m looking to be more close to god, care about my health, look and dreams, my highest peak was at 2020, and now things feel different, i’ve learn a lot with your videos, and i feel an awesome energy and blessings coming for me, cause after 3 years, i finally feel that i can reach and conquer all that i dream.

God Bless You 🙏 And God Bless every earth brother that is still fighting this war 🫶 trust god, and be a soldier for him guys! One day you will find yourself, and all that is going to be worthy.

[stefanbogdanovic]

People need to understand that bad times should be looked at as a lessons. My favourite MC of all time once said:

It's universal, you play with fire it may hurt you
Or burn you, LESSONS ARE BLESSINGS YOU SHOULD LEARN THROUGH

- Guru

RIP GURU! My man was ahead of his time!

Keep learning every day new thing, and be grateful for all the knowledge you get! Stay strong brothers! Don't quit! One love

[YuhhhhhhhhHhH________]

Currently 18, I started dating the most amazing girl a little more than 9 months ago. Ive been addicted since about 12 and Im now learning that I have PIED. My girlfriend, being the amazing person she is, has unconditionally supported me through recovery but it's still the most disheartening thing to not be able to sexually provide for someone I love so much. This addiction has consumed the past 6 years of my life, and is now affecting someone who I wish I could give the world to. The next time you feel urges, remember that continuing down the path of your habit/addiction could affect more than just your own well-being(not that that isnt important though).

Hopefully someone finds this helpful. Im just glad to get it out there!

goodluck to everyone trying to recover!

[aric]

I'm 27, I started this when I was 13. I'm tired of living like it, feeling sorry for myself. One of my triggers is my the pain in my heart, what I dealt with in life, from being bullied when I was a kid for being overweight to my ex girlfriend who broke up with me last year in November. I want change, even though I've been working on myself, being physically fit now, climbing mountains, and having talents. I still have yet to go.


Thank you, whoever you are for listening.

[NJXBS]

Nearly relapsed today, but I decided to watch one of your videos and it got me out of that mind state of momentary satisfaction. Thank you

[mysticaladventuresofficial]

bro, im loving these videos. you tell it how it is. im working on turning my life around and have found these videos helpful

[Swaze]

Thanks shimon for opening up and making these topics of discussion relevant on YouTube truly an inspiration and soldier of god. Stay blessed.

[zazthedon]

i relapsed multiple times and i thought i would never stop buh i found your channel and you’ve been a guiding light through these dark times. prexiate you for all the good work you doing mane and stay on yo path 🖤

[gerardocontreras]

Thank you for helping me heal after my breakup. I might have lost her but she taught me thousands of lessons that fit into 3 years.

[Theanswerserved]

I was good for a month then a few days ago i stumbled across a video on yt and i went down the hole of searching and scrolling for hours. But i will rise stronger from this thanks to videos like this thank you man.