Are My Standards Too High? (Sometimes I Think My Standards Are Too High)

[NickNotas]

Great perspective Matthew. What we THINK we want is often different from what we will actually enjoy and respond to.

I used to be super insecure about my height because of that "women only want tall guys" notion. Then I realized I could showcase so many other interesting parts about myself: sense of humor, playfulness, style, leadership, good eye contact and body language, a willingness to flirt.

Then you see how the emotions and experience you share with someone will be stronger than anything else. -Nick

[trenchrock]

My problem with height is that I'm 5'7" and grew up with 3 older brothers. It's hard to find a man under 6 foot that can make me feel safe. I've dated loads of men under 6 feet but they all made me feel like I needed to protect him! It's a major turn off. Even though I liked their personality a lot of times the physical attraction was just not there, it cancels out my feminity.

[E.Nobody]

Do you know what I want? It isn't a long list either.
I want someone who likes me for me, and not just the way I look.
Someone who respects me and my time, my opinion, my feelings as their own.
Someone who wants a real honest to God relationship that's leading to marriage.
And someone who wants to grow with me as not only a person, but a Christian.

I don't care about height, I've liked guys of all shapes and sizes.

[kimfrederick]

Good suggestions. Is all about the EXPERIENCE

[Red-ctwx]

I’m 60 years old I haven’t dated in a while... I know now more of what I need and height isn’t one of them, unfortunately for me most men my age are happily married or not willing to go through an divorce at this point in their life which I don’t blame them. I have been very successful I have a nice nest egg for retirement and not willing to share it. Not that I’m against having sex but that’s one of the main reasons why I chose not to date it seems like that’s all they wanted, I have boundaries. I have always enjoy your videos unfortunately for me I’m in a totally different place and I’m afraid I will grow old by myself 😢 But keep the videos coming Matthew women like myself need you ❤️

[anupumguleria]

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[inezmajewska]

It’s true I date my ex boyfriend same high as I , white my whole life I dated guys much higher then me 😀