Why won’t he marry you?

[sarahscroggins]

My husband told me he wanted to marry me on the first date..6 months later we got married.., he’s a good man. Don’t waste your life on a man women...if he don’t want you let him go..🌸🤚🏾

[bodiendominique]

Just like you don't want to marry everyone, not everyone wants to marry you. Accept it and move on with your life!!

[breannn]

Honestly most men today are not looking for wifes honestly. I feel like it's mostly because of the influence today, and that women give boyfriends husband benefits.

[octaviagillion]

If someone shows you who they are believe them!

[tellnolies]

Because he doesn’t want to!! A man knows the woman he wants to marrry and it don’t take 6 years!! One reason you NEVER shack and play house, he’ll string you along for 8 years and marry the next woman after 9 months!

[vchild]

Tony it's the stone cold truth. He does not think you're the one. He is holding out for somebody he believes might be better. Point blank PeriYOD.

[kokoalaska]

Ladies don’t confuse chemistry with compatibility. I’ve had amazing conversations and sexual attraction to dusties/lovebombers who I should NEVER walk down the aisle with! Men know exactly what they want and who they want it with. 💕

[MoncaAhwen]

Doing too much and treating him like he’s the prize.

[dn-cpsh]

I've heard those stories so many times. Couples that have been together for years then get married and divorce a year later. Then there are couples that marry after 6 months and are together for 25 years.

[Dr.Elaine]

“The reason why he won’t marry you, …is because he does not believe you are the one.” TG

[Gigi-rgxy]

3 years and still no proposal.. I think I need to make some choices.

[kellyellis]

Might be hard to hear ladies, but he is 100% on point!

[thegoddessempirelifecoachi]

It’s a matter of disrespect, especially when they know you want marriage and you’re giving him so much of yourself….your time, your life, your sacrifice, your body. He is disrespecting you and you are allowing the disrespect when he shows you year after year that he does not believe you are the one. 💯

[gretasfaith]

He won’t marry you because he doesn’t want you. Women we must accept the truth. When a job doesn’t hire you... usually they will say, you’re not a good fit or we have decided to go with another applicant. In that job situation, you have to accept that job wasn’t for you. If a man doesn’t propose, he isn’t the one. Keep it moving quickly ladies to position yourself for the man that is for you.

[ladawnwarren]

I know this all to well. I was with a guy over 10 years when I should have left years ago.
Met someone else I’m now engaged we are marrying in October it will be exactly 2years
From Dating, engaged to marrying this October. It don’t take all day to see sunshine men
Know early on if your his wife. Glad I decided to wake up and smell the Folgers 😂🥰❤️

[racethehumanrace]

You can't make someone want to marry you either. I learned that the hard way. After two years of dating a guy and he still did not want to marry me. I cut him off and stopped seeing him.

[roxanne]

Tony spitting facts as usual. One thing I will say is DO NOT under any circumstances move in with a man who is not your husband. The amount of stories I have heard, and seen with my own eyes of friends, and friends of friends, where the woman has been living with the boyfriend for years, performing wife duties for him; cleaning, cooking, doing ALL the house work for a grown boy - and still no marriage, or they have broken up. Most of these women also have kids with these men children. And when the topic of marriage is brought up, she's met with 'why should we get married it's like we're already married anyway' and ladies, he's right. Why should he bother marrying you when you already made yourself a wife to him by doing all these wifely duties?

Never underestimate a man's ability to take you for granted and get too comfortable, and moving in with him will do exactly that. If you want marriage, make it clear that if he wants to live together and have children, he must give you marriage first. Don't make the mistake of moving in with him/having kids without that, because NONE of the MANY women I know of that have been living with their bf / have had kids with him for years and years, have gotten married. And it likely will never happen for them. Be smart. Never act like a wife for a man who isn't your husband.

[debbiedeb]

Spot on video!!! Either he does not want to get married, or he doesn’t want to marry you. Either way it isn’t good for you. Had to learn that the hard way… don’t waste your time ladies. Life is way tooo short

[wonderfullymade]

Another reason marriages end after 3+ years of dating, is because the woman goes into the marriage angry and resentful for having had to wait so long.

[c.l.]

There's someone then there's THE ONE. There's the placeholder, then there's the GAME CHANGER. Men immediately know the difference.