How Attractive Men Start Conversations With Women

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In today’s video we’ll go through common mistakes men make when talking to women they’re attracted to. And what you can do instead to stop being boring and immediately be more attractive.

We’ll do this by breaking down some clips of Craig Ferguson.

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0:00 - Intro
0:25 - #1: Stop thinking of conversation as an exchange of information
2:13 - #2: Stop being excited about everything she says
5:06 - #3: Create an environment where women feel safe being flirty and sexual

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[josephjones]

1 stop thinking of conversation as an exchange of information. Have fun. Answer questions with a joke. Respond to answers with a joke.
2 push pull. Positive, negative. Compliment, tease.
3 create a non judgemental, comfortable environment

[karstenwehsner]

Stop thinking of conversation as an exchange of information is probably the best advice i've heard in my entire life and i am 50. Still doing it wrong but i am working on it. 😉

[FELiPES]

I think there are some great tips in here, but the hardest part for most guys is the approach and giving women a reason to engage. Craig is a famous interviewer that is scheduled to talk to these women and they know it's supposed to be a light and casual conversation. The mood is set before they even sit down which is almost never the case in a public setting.

[Свят-хй]

Theres a book called Casanova Playbook of Magnetism, and it talks from body language and conversaton starters to dark mind tricks and flirting through texts, its the real deal

[awaisaurelius]

Habit 4: don’t think about what would make women obsess over you and just vibe

[Cationna]

Craig's secret is he doesn't want anything from his guests except to make it a fun night for everyone. He doesn't want women to find him attractive, he wants everyone to have fun in his company. And I'm sure psychologically it comes from somewhere, who doesn't want to be liked, but I'm not his therapist, and the vibe he gives off is just - having fun in the other person's company and wanting to make it fun for them, too. That's it. No hidden agenda of making himself the most desirable man on TV. Not working up to a hookup with any remotely attractive woman he sees. No expectations, no pressure. He'll meet you where you are, will know when to push playfully and when to back off tactfully. He's a good conversationalist because he builds on what he's given - no answer to his question would be too plain for him to make a start to a great exchange. And that also means he knows and respects boundaries; if you don't want to head to a certain direction, he'll find another, equally fun, without a barest hint of disappointment. He's interested in the other person and not in his own image or goal (or at least he's good at portraying that).

[alexbing]

Instructions Unclear, HR wants to see me tomorrow.

[wolfdima]

The moment I went to a date with "I'll just have fun, I will not even try to seduce her" attitude, girls started to hit me like crazy. Complete game changer.

[tonygibson]

The secret to being successful is to be able to relax. Relaxation is the key, and the people who are the most relaxed are those who have accepted themselves, can laugh at themselves and are able to let go. That self-acceptance allows them to be accepting of other people and because they're not clutching at anything, the person in front of them becomes, in that moment, the most important person in their life. The focus is on the other in a sometimes playful encounter without ever wanting to take from them- just celebrating whatever comes to mind in the moment. Our brains are always more lucid, creative and naturally witty when they're relaxed.

[awaisaurelius]

The unwritten rule of making women obsess over you: stop trying to make women obsess over you 😌

[pranakhan]

My favorite interaction is @4:07. There is something in her eyes that mirrors a curious kind of respect. The essence of "game respecting game". So hard to get that kind of acknowledgement out of a woman, even if you have had a good track record with interactions. Well, it's something I've noticed anyway. No hi-fives or anything, unfortunately

[jurgisvalancauskas]

That's what works for him. Cause Craig's working from his "area of comfort" and his own set of personality. Trying to imitate him is kind of weird cause everyone's different. I think the key is to be in comfort with yourself and relaxed but that manifests in different vibes depending on a guy. The goal is not to imitate Craig but to get to such relaxed mindset where he is just being himself

[megamcee]

Love Craig. Definitely the best late night show host.

[IDonHDTV]

Keep! Keep! Keep! Keep! Keep! This style of format. I loved the colored subtitles, it kept me engaged and helped digest the key concepts that were being coveyed. Thank you guys for all of these amazing videos!

[vijuanisha]

Finding the ebook Women Magic Lure by Calvin Reed should be your top priority, even if it's the last thing you do in life.

[dwcd_]

I’ve learned how to turn my awkwardness into a way to break tension and when it works my goodness. There’s nothing quite like it

[davidclemens]

Simplest advice: keep it light hearted, not too serious!

[GrinderMagee]

So I just need to be effortlessly witty and charismatic. All this time I thought sweating and stumbling over myself awkwardly was enough. 😓

[CRUSADER_]

the crowd helps him not seem creepy, when they laugh it lightens the mood and they are also in a safe place and they know that...it would be much different in a bar or on the street!

[kallvt]

I'll never get tired of this channel and I'll never get tired of Craig. Thanks for keeping it up.
(that's what she said)