Why Your Ex Loses Interest When You Show Yours

Clay Andrews explains Why Your Ex Loses Interest When You Show Yours.

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A lot of us had that experience - your ex seems to be interested in you again, giving you hints as if they are ready to get back together with you but all of a sudden, they started pulling out. The interactions start to feel cold again and you sit there wondering what happened, what you did wrong, and all that.

In this video, Clay Andrews explains Why Your Ex Loses Interest When You Show Yours like they are emotionally unavailable, that could be where they're at. They could be in a place where they're like, "Well, you know, I have this worldview that I'm not worthy of love." so they pull out all of a sudden.

Other things that could be going on is that maybe your ex isn't in a place right now where it makes sense to actually reveal your emotional feelings for them. Maybe it's too soon in the 5 Stages that your ex is going through, hence why they pull out right away.

If you want a better understanding, YOU SHOULD watch this video!

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[juels]

I'm exhausted. This happens constantly. Things go great and then out of no where, he's quiet and cold and asks me what I want and we get in an argument Then when he comes back again, I'm just angry. Especially after it happening numerous times. It's hurtful and disrespectful to just flip a 180 like that on someone. Use your words and communicate and if you don't "have time" then don't flirt and text me and call me. That simple.

[hannahh.]

I don’t understand how your channel doesn’t have more subscribers! I wish I would have found this channel two months ago. This channel has changed me and really opened my eyes to what’s going on. Thank you!

[angelamaro]

This video answered my biggest question and put things into perspective for me. Thanks, Clay!

[mariannamaniquis]

I do hope this technique can help me for my ex boyfriend. I messed up with him by accusing him.

[grace]

mine was literally telling me he thinks im still in love with him then he drifted away when things started feeling real again..

[mercwiffamouff]

Wow i thought i was subbed this entire time. Youtube just keeps showing me all your ish lol... I'll sub now 😅

[preciousGpottery]

How to move from small talk to actuall conversation. Both sides initiate, but me as a dumpee i always finish the convo early, im afraid to go deep with the conversation. Could create an impression of chase on my side. 😔

[reginawoess]

How can a man who once asked u to Marry him then 5yrs later ask you to come over and act excited to see you and tell you right away and tells you the woman you broke up over they married and she divorced him. Next time a woman calls and he tells her your there and he laughs and says shes trying to keep us from being intimate which made me feel he was using you to make her jealous. Just really cant understand this and yet cant call him as I dont know what to say.

[The_Darrell]

I got the following response from my ex... "Sometimes things don’t work out. We both contributed to how things ended, but it’s no ones fault." What do you think, Clay? No chance for us ever getting back together, or should I try to contact her after some active no contact? Thanks

[chrismcevoy]

My ex-girlfriend Tracci’s Ludwick lost interest in me when I showed mine because she was just to emotionally damaged by guys, who hurt her.

[jelovibes]

Coach Clay do you have a videos that how to start over with the ex..
Me and my ex are getting back just a few days...i am a jealous type of a woman but after 2 months of no contact i back my confidence on track and im giving his needs now..the little space for us and trust him fully.

[adrienneg]

Clayyyy!! My ex texted me saying he wanted to get back together, and gave me a couple conditions on what I needed to change. As soon as I said I wanted him to change some things too he agreed for 15 mins and then suddenly changed his mind and said getting back together would be a mistake. What's going on here?! He told me it's not about finding someone else because he still loves me and misses me.. I think he just doesn't want to compromise or change.. ?

[dwocelot]

Sometimes it's about power. Especially if you broke up with them. If you're trying to get back together with them they want to regain power and control, so they pull away when you show interest

[aquest]

My ex and I reconnected for dinner over the weekend after not seeing each other for 2 months. He told me he still loves me but I didn’t say it back and just generally tried to avoid relationship talk! As I was texting him during the week at the end of our conversation I said I hope that he has a good day and that I love him to which he responded he loves me too! Is this okay? I’ve been really focusing on becoming a better version of myself but I would still like to be with him although I know he is casually seeing someone. What should I do?

[christinemcwaters]

Match emotionally. If they pull back, so do I. If they want to be all in, match that.

[lisat]

So we have to be someone other than ourselves....forget it...

[ulabrzoza]

2 months after our breakup and my ex has deleted not only our photos but also all the birthday wishes i sent him during our relationship. What does this mean ?