How To Get Kids To Stop Fighting With Each Other

Children have different ways of communicating and they have their own ways of thinking too! It's quite unavoidable for children to argue with each other, but did you know there is a way to control it so it doesn't get too messy? Stay tuned to today's episode of how to get kids to stop fighting with each other because I have some really effective tips for you!

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Nicholeen Peck
Teaching Self-Government

Key Moments in this Episode
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00:39 5 Tips to help with fight resolution
01:06 Self-government
02:13 Valuing other people
03:43 Skills
06:26 Group problem solving
07:38 Practice it the right way

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About Nicholeen Peck
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Despite your best efforts at raising children, is your family dysfunctional? Do your children set the rules and have control of your home instead of you? Are you looking for parenting skills that will help you create a united, happy family?

Then meet Nicholeen Peck, one of the world’s most effective parenting experts. Whether you want to fix child behavioral issues, create more unity in the home, or simply strengthen your family relationships, her proven system — Teaching Self-Government — can help you turn chaos into calm.

"People are starving for help to save their families," says Nicholeen.

Since 1999, her seminars, workshops, one-on-one training sessions, parenting videos and books have helped thousands of families worldwide regain peace, be happy and maintain unity in their home. The secret? Learning how to use effective family systems based on parenting that’s deliberate and pro-active (instead of reactive). It all starts with the principles of self-government. If you’re a family of faith, you’ll especially love how your faith and values can be woven into her parenting system.

Nicholeen Peck’s Accomplishments
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* Author of “Parenting: A House United,” “Popular Parenting Methods: Are They Really Working?,” “Roles: The Secret to Family, Business, and Social Success” and many other books and magazine articles.
* President of The Worldwide Organization for Women (WOW).
* Nicholeen regularly speaks at the United Nations and other congresses around the world as an advocate for strengthening families and motherhood.
* In 2009 her family was featured on the BBC reality show, “The World’s Strictest Parents.
* Trained as a foster parent for Utah Youth Village.
* Has parented many troubled foster children.
* Successfully raised (and raising) four children of her own.

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[carlosayam]

That conversation between your kids was way more mature than many disagreements among adults today. Hard to believe it was between a 7yo and a 5yo. Amazing!

[Purkarik]

As a mother of three,
I want to thank you so much for this amazing video. My children fight less which is a blessing since they have been fighting alot, but there is much more peace in my household now, I will try my best to follow all of you're amazing tips with children, 😊 Good night/ Good Evening/ Good morning everyone bye.☆

[oakadi]

I hate to be this person... But my husband and I (super tight-knit loving family), definitely try and teach them these skills. You know my son (who's 3) now says to his sister (5) "That's not necessary"... And we have good days where they've figured it out, but there are still days where when they don't get along and it's an allll day thing... And it is exhaustinggg to gently guide them through each and every situation. Eventually, it's a TV show or movie that makes it stop, so that's obv not the answer either. I know consistency is key, and we have been consistent, but every second day it's war between them. And my childhood is one where my entire family hated and fought with each other, so sometimes their yelling, and screaming really triggers me and I'll even experience wicked chest pains. I get it, consistency... And I have sharp smart kids, I'm just so exhausted and experiencing physical symptoms because of the stress of their battle matches.

[lillymichael]

Thanks! Yes schools teach about loving self, but not necessarily valuing others

[chanamintz]

How can you cultivate empathy in a child who's constantly aggressive and obnoxious to his siblings?

[amandafreeman]

I liked when you explained how to do a group training with your kids

[naimay]

As mother of to, I want to thank you so much for this amazing video !!and I will try to follow all your tips with 5 yr and 8 yr children 😊 again big. Thanks

[Gregh]

For what age are the children’s books written?

[adeletheart]

Where can I find the kids books you mentioned?

[lusalmon]

What do you do when they all have cognitive delays???