How Young Men Can Stop Being Creepy To Girls

[iota_jian]

Holy shit you're so right. I'm totally flirtatious and many girls that I talk to like me, but once I start "liking" them back, EVERYTHING BECOMES CREEPY. you're so right omg

[commentbot]

If you are overly friendly/helpful to the girl, you will make her uncomfortable. I don’t mean you can’t be friendly and helpful, but there is a point where you come off as desperate or obsessive. You also make them feel guilty for not liking you back. Giving them gifts will not make them like you romantically.

[Begeru]

It’s similar to being an artist of any kind (musician, actor, comedian, etc) you have to just dgaf about what other people think as you perfect your craft. If you’re not making mistakes then you’re not trying hard enough. You’ll never learn until you deal with awkwardness/rejection and then move past it.

[tictacbergerac]

Hey, I'm a woman and I really appreciate this video. The popular media and p*rn teaches boys and men to see women as a prize, an item, a monolith. There are so many examples of how NOT to treat a woman, and I'm so glad to see a lesson in how to do it right. I really appreciate all your life advice. It's a great resource for men (and women, too). We need more people teaching what you teach.

[eugengolubic]

"welcome to being Asian"

*me coming from a Balkan household*

[Redaxi]

The deep "Adonisss" is legendary man i keep coming back to videos just for the first jeffrey vs adonis and stick till the end

[imilanfit]

Hamza honestly finding your channel was THE best thing that happened to me recently; I'm on the journey to fix my life after a 5-month rut and it would not have been possible without you, thanks for everything :)

[swpneelhoque]

When I learned about SMV from you, I realized mine was raised throughout highschool, in middle school no girl liked me back but over highschool, I did sports and worked out and grew wiser and saw girls come to me easily, easier to speak to them and everything

[Milk-y]

I like how he's not afraid to say "the girl I'm love with". The redpill community has made is seem like all women have malicious intent therefore its more convenient to just fuck them instead of date them. To a certain degree I agree but there are some women who can actually add to your life as a partner. As a young male I think its important to focus on yourself first but down the line, as you get older you will not be happy unless you have a partner on you side stated by jordan peterson himself.

[dakchox_]

when this channel blows up one day, we OG's subscribers are gonna be so proud

[zeus___]

"best thing you can do to improve your SMV is build an aesthetic body" I will be honest i feel way more confident and less creepy when im leaner but when im bulking up my confidence is a bit more down you could say and as for creepyness i feel like i dont realise im creepy but apparently in some cases iam? honestly i dont understand it as much tbh

[maskedviper]

Yes i have that anxious attachment style. Not just with the girls but in friends too. Its like your obsess or concern about them too much or something like that. But now i realize that they don't even care or think about me. That's why my goal is to have an abundance mindset. That i don't need to impress every people in the room. Just be myself and Be happy.

[freealexlee]

Compared to these other youtubers Hamza seems like he actually trying to help

[cameronlobo]

First story reminded me of when I tried to flirt with this girl even after she told me she had a boyfriend. When you haven't progressed far into self-improvement there's still the undying desire to be accepted by women. I hate it.

[chiragjain]

I really want to thank you man. Watching you has genuinely helped me progress in my self development journey

[アレックス-jj]

Yo! Just wanted to thank you for the progress you helped me and others make. Thanks man!

[jonan]

Respect for telling your romantic misadventures, especially in today's "sexism aware" world

[kevinslyter]

Personally my thoughts are what make me feel creepy, my sister always called me a creep when I tried to make friends or date, things were generally positive but her comments are always in the back of my mind telling me “I’m creepy, a loser, and no one wants to talk to me.” But when I do talk to people it goes pretty well.

[henrobhd]

i think we all appreciate the mass of content we are getting around here. thank you hamza!

[weiyuan]

Damn bro, you are so right about the anxious attachment style...I had Asian parents too, and now that I think of it, it really screwed with my head. That's really the only thing that's holding me back, and now that I know of it, I can work on it.