Do this to stop taking things personally

A video breaking down how to stop taking things personally. Many people struggle with letting people's judgments, opinions, and attitudes get to them.

Watch this entire video for a deep understanding of why you may take things personally and how to prevent it (may require multiple watches).

Enjoy!

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[xydny]

I always suffered from the spotlight effect untill I realized that it was just a mental state

[kabeblak]

Never take it personally especially when you know it's personal

[WeRNthisToGetHer]

One time when I was overly worried about people disliking me, someone told me to consider that I am probably not really that important, but if I am then that's an accomplishment. You are living rent free in people's heads.

[andrethealchemist]

“Misalignments are not personal, they’re vibrational”

[christinetobiasz]

It says more about the person who attacks you personally than you yourself. I had to learn this the hard way recently.
Tbh I still struggle with how people perceive me and I can’t understand why some people are mean hearted

[nicolemora]

I need this video. In my friend group I was the one who was constantly teased and made fun of. When I asked my friends why they only did that to me they said I should learn how to take a joke. But constantly being belittled is very tiring. I realized I was just an easy target because I was kind of like the childish one in the friend group so no one respected me.

[AftreGaol]

I changed the way I perceive things. Things don't happen TO me . Things happen FOR me.

[CobaltLobo]

Both you and another guy posted about not taking things personally within hours of each other in the midst of me taking something personally and man, if that ain’t the universe grabbing me by the shoulders and telling me to snap out of it, idk what else will 😂

[Jwk_comics]

Always go for passion, no matter what! You live once and people dont last!

[milanmumm]

I appreciate this. My therapist sent it to me and it’s made me rethink a lot of things.

[Nate_tureboy]

Opportune timing of this video. I passed it over actually thinking someone else could benefit from it, without even listening to it myself. So instead I listened to it first and it resonated so nicely within me.
I am grateful Jim

[Satsui_No_Hado]

This is one of the best videos I've watched in 2024. It's funny how when the student is ready, the teacher appears. I'll definitely listen to this multiple times. Either way, it's a gem Appreciate your content and will definitely be watching more of it! 👊

[ryand]

This video is gold. This video is 💯 the way I am. Within the first 30 seconds when you're going through the scenario of someone looking at you negatively I said in my head I bet he used to be this way too because you nailed it . 👍👍👍

[amandajade]

I'm watching this because a close friend of mine has taken a lot of things personally when it comes to their interactions with others (but not me, I'm an angel lol) I'm hoping to find new ways to articulate this topic in the future... coz for me, it's a very low vibe mentality and it needs to go 🤞

[chowell]

U have helped me so much with my cptsd bruh❤🙏

[michellesoria]

Amazing video !! I started a new job about 3 weeks ago and I was just talking about this with my therapist! I literally was thinking my coworkers were out to get me 😭 I’m so happy you posted this!

[vaxhuvuden]

Your videos have helped me process so many emotions, thank you!

[abundancemindset]

I love this and your channel in general! Thank you, brother

[zannigan]

Thank you gor this. You keep me from slipping into unconscious thought and believing my own distortions❤

[davidsinogui]

Thank you Jem. You have no idea just how timely this video popping might be for others. It certainly is for me today. Bless you. 🙏🏼