What's the most painful thing you've been told? (Strangers Answer)

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[Thorayaa]

I want to thank everyone who stopped to answer this question... this episode wouldn't be possible without YOU. Thank you for your kindness in stopping to hear me out and your braveness in answering the question. I try to put as many answers as I can in the episode, however, not every answer goes on the page. Please know that if your answer is not in the episode, it does not take away from the importance of your story. There are many outside variables that determine the order and answers that go in the episode. Things like duration, flow, variety in answers, ensuring a diverse range of voices, overall feel of an episode, and sometimes background noise, or other audio and visual problems. I love you all. Thank you ❤

[deniselancaster]

To the gentleman who was told not to smile. Please start smiling, smile every day, look in the mirror and smile at yourself. You have a lovely kind face.

[danaibrahim]

Imagine you are the reason why someone is continuously feeling sad … that’s horrible

[oomay]

I'll never understand how grown adults, especially parents and teachers, will say the most hurtful shit to kids...

[chrisanderson]

"I just wanna find someone who will dream with me." Excellent.

[fatoufrancescambow]

I hope the lady diagnosed with HIV hears how grateful we are for her sharing such deeply painful moment - and feels loved, always. And I hope the gentleman who was told isn’t good looking when he smiles, smiles a lot, seeing how beautiful he is. Thank you to all for sharing sorrow 🧡

[izzyhyatt-marley]

“ if you’re going to kill yourself just get on and do it because I’m tired of waiting” my mother said it me when she was drunk and I was battling depression, I must have been early twenties. Have never forgotten it.

[michelleelliot]

After my car broke my down a year ago, I was sexually assaulted by the person who stopped to "help" me. I was distraught and when in that vulnerable state someone I considered a good friend told me "what were you doing there at that time of night?". I stopped talking to her and I didn't feel right about how things ended and so I reached out to her again and she told me that she did not remember why we even stopped talking. That was the most painful thing that I have ever been told. It didn't even register to her.

[DKMinii]

“When someone tells you to repress your emotions, you don’t get acknowledged for it either…”

This is such a brilliant point.

[emily]

Mine is “you are so ugly, I don’t even know why you bother trying with that makeup” that was 20 years ago when I was 14. I still cry when I think about it

[up]

My adopted mom told me she wished she had listened to God when she was unable to have children. I'm 59 and it still brings me to tears. :(

[LisaMocarski]

When I was about 7, my adopted mother told me that my biological mom is burning in hell for her sins...my bio mom committed suicide when I was 2 and that was her sin, according to my adopted me. That one comment has stayed with me for my entire life, and I am 59 years old now.

[Jon]

"I just really want someone, who maybe, would want to dream with me" I think that is one of the most beautiful and relatable things I've ever heard. Your videos always bring me to tears in the best way and remind me that humanity does still exist out there. We all put on our masks, but your channel helps remind me that there is actually a person behind it.

[dekarriofficial]

Therapy Girl: it is definitely okay to be a Christian and have a therapist. God is not fanatical. He loves you and knows what you need. Enjoy your therapy and growth!❤❤❤❤

[vonettamedlock]

2:46: The fact that a grown woman said that to a young lady is just straight villainous.

[kelceynicole]

i’m a hygiene assistant & you’ll be amazed at how many people are insecure, embarrassed, & cry about the look of their teeth - both young and old. the guy at 2:05 honestly broke my heart.
I hear ppl talk about others teeth so much in a very rude way & truthfully his response & how it affected him is why i try my best to be sensitive to other peoples feelings when it comes to their teeth.
Dental work is NOT cheap - especially if it’s cosmetic.
my rule is if a person can’t change it over night, then watch your words bc they really do hurt and (clearly) stick around for a long time.

[toinfinity]

A $20 subway card after being diagnosed with HIV is CA-RAZY.

[tobinrogers]

“Why can’t you just be a human?” Said by my dad. I’m autistic and have felt subhuman my whole life. For my own father to say that to me hurts enough to bring tears to my eyes today.

[fernandayya]

6:59 Lots of love to that teacher ❤
She can surely knows she changed that little student's life ♡

[kjk]

I was in an abusive marriage. He seemed perfect - until shortly after our wedding. Then he started to belittle and insult me. At some point, he even threatened me. Finally, he hit me. I separated when my daughter was 2 years old. He said so many hurtful things to me that it's hard to name any of them as the worst. For example, he said to our baby: "You see, mommy doesn't love you. All she ever does is cry." I know she doesn't remember that, but it hurt me badly. As I found out later, I probably also had postnatal depression.
The worst thing about being constantly insulted and belittled is that at some point you start to believe it yourself. I needed a lot of time and help from other people to get my self-confidence back. I am now married to a wonderful man who would never hurt me or my children (including his stepdaughter) like that. Never let anyone tell you that you are worth nothing!