HE MUST LOVE YOU MORE THAN YOU LOVE HIM

Keep this in mind ladies when choosing a man

[CC-bzrd]

if he ain't afraid to lose you the relationship will never work

[Mrs.]

If a man loves you more than you love him I believe he’s less likely to leave you for someone else. Plus when he’s into you more, he’ll constantly find ways to make you happy.

[lindsb]

I love this. My German grandmother said this: 'find a man who loves you more than you love him'. And it wasn't necessarily about the power dynamic or stringing a guy along; it was, as you mention here, about the fact that women naturally nurture and will put our family before ourselves, so we have to make sure that someone is putting us first so we don't end up worn out, left for last, and neglected - emotionally and otherwise. Love your videos !

[dajiahwr]

Never seen someone so unfazed by haters ❤️

[lionsimba]

“The power of any relationship lies in the one ☝🏾 who CARES LESS”

[Minaj]

You have to find a man who loves you more than you love him In my opinion. Women are natural caretakers, givers, all that mushy stuff. In order to find that balance it has to be this way. Otherwise you'll be chasing him, & that never ends up good.

[Unapologeticallyme]

This is absolutely true, you will forever be unhappy if you show a man that you love him more.

[havegrace]

This is how I got my husband. I've always been better looking and I'm younger. He knows I could of gotten a much better looking guy, but he pays the bills and is taking care of the family and me. Most of those hotter looking guys I noticed can't pay there own bills and still live with there mommas lol. Gross. Good looks don't pay for food and mortgage. People have to really think and get priorities straight. Think more long term ! Him & I make one another better. I push him to make more money and be more successful, and I help him by accepting what he has to offer and show appreciation, & looking sexy & being a good mother who is there for our children. I never stopped taking care of myself. And it shows, most women my age after kids look all run through n sloppy. He says he appreciates that I care, men are visual. Never let yourself go !

[viktoriake]

"How do you deal with liars, Shera?" - SheRaSeven1: "I lie back" LMAO

[jazzyone]

This is one of the hardest lessons to learn as a woman. But it’s so true listen to Shera.

[joannejoanne]

I'm 38 and I learned this philosophy as a teenager just by the experiencing the hard knocks in life. The man should love more because GENERALLY the woman is more faithful so the relationship will work whereas if it was the reverse the man will trample all over the woman, cheat, and leave his family in the dust

[karanapier]

This is absolutely true. And I've been told by many men that they have to love you more or they wont pursue you or marry you. You have to be the prize. Good video❤

[Lalajewel]

Ladies this is so true, let me tell you a story that happened I knew someone who was dating an older guy he took her out, he invested money into her, he handed her the keys to his home . He loved her . A few weeks into them dating she heard about another woman, she spoke to this woman and the other woman seemed so lost, she said the woman told her that she was so in love with him and he was in loved with her ; this woman stayed out of the state, she said she paid her own bills she didn’t need his money she was set. She said the woman seemed so delusional. She has never been taken out to eat. No kind of face to face conversations. Just a bunch of lonely messages to hold on to for memories . The morale of the story is let that man be a MAN, allow him to invest his money, if you don’t allow him to be a man he WILL leave you for a younger woman as this man did .

[lawoman]

It's like saying, "I love you" first. NO NO. Keep him hoping and wishing even if inside you're super crazy about him. Once you fail, he's gone!

[VibeWithVida]

Don't compete with the man you want. Brilliant.

[Iamkennedyt]

This Is So True.... My Best Friends Mother told Us long ago.. “Find a Man who Loves you more and you will grow to love him” ❤️❤️❤️❤️

[jessicaholting]

I might end up permanently single but it’s better than being in an unhealthy relationship. I can treat myself a whole lot better than so many men can.

[nessness]

If a man don’t like you because your makeup what you do. Queen: find a new man. That’s a dusty 😂😂😂😂

[go_off_Sis]

The same Dusty men up in these comments demonizing us for hypergamy - are the same ones that would go to Brazil and spend up their savings on those women.

[kpopobsessed]

Shera, i realized that you care for women the most! People might call you selfish ! But honestly you really wanna help women i can tell! Thank you for your every lesson❤