What if he loves you more than you love him? - The Feminine Woman

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What if a man loves you more than you love him?

I recently received a great question...
"I have been following your blog and it has changed my life significantly. Thank you.
I recently met a guy who I believe truly loves me, the problem is, He has a lot of habits I used to have but worked really hard on myself to quit.（ex. talking too much)
If I am being honest, am not sure I love this man but I realized I have been too picky with men.
This guy calls me, checks up and tells me he loves me often (too often even).
Should I give him a chance?"

In this video, I will address this specific issue.

Renee
The Feminine Woman

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[singingallalone]

I married a man I didn’t fully love. I was being told by everyone that it’s better to be the one that’s less interested then too much. He was infatuated with me and we got married only for him to realize he was gay and cheated on me with a man.

Best advice. Follow your heart. Don’t even listen to anyone that tells you to try to feel something for someone you don’t.

[sofiaoropesa]

why is that the people who loves me i am not attracted to and those i am attracted to do not love me?

[JenFromCa]

I’m with a person I’m really trying to have a connection with. But I’m kind of struggling.. at first I felt he was a good match but as I get to know him more, his beliefs and standards... I’m realizing he’s probably not the right fit for my future. It’s so hard!!

[chaosblade]

Men: don't let a woman be the only thing in your life. Don't even let her be the center of your attention. Find your purpose and do that. Women should enrich your life, not be your life.

[WayezK]

This is exactly the reason why I am perfectly happy accepting a lonely death over having a woman in my life I can never fully trust, be able to love more than anyone else, or completely understand her motives. Great video. Subscribed.

[sophiab]

I felt the disconnect or that is wrong, as soon he started to be too much too fast and pushing me so I tried to stop, but he just kept on pushing and pushing and pushing, not giving up until I was like OKAY FINE, but now I am considering breaking up simply because I'm not feeling it, although he is great and has lots of important qualities..

[Oli_the_Alien]

I guess I am here to search for help. I am in a relationship since 7 months. At first I was really surprised when he asked me to be his girlfriend but as a few time went by I realized that he was already more than just a friend to me. I really liked spending time with him, calling or texting him. When we both were on holiday with our families I missed him really much. But now I feel like my romantic feelings are gone. I still like him as a very good friend while he keeps telling me he loves me, I were the love of his life or even his whole life. Due to the fact neither I had a boyfriend before nor has he been in a relationship, I feel overwhelmed and anxious about making the wrong decision or being unable to feel romantic love or being picky. I don't want to pretend I am deeply love him but also don't want to hurt him. Possibly someone can help me and give me some advice or just telling about their own experiences. Thx.

[kentclarkp]

Nothing wrong with leading someone on as long as you know he he’s not the one and your intentions are to improve your self esteem or “value/status”? If you don’t think that’s manipulative and misleading...you may benefit from a psychological and self-esteem self-help video that aren’t about using someone to find someone you’re more interested in.

[alyn]

I’ve been looking for content like yours. You give us the truth without sugar coating it but also do it in a gentle way. Very feminine. More, videos please!

[johnphamlore]

Ladies, you are never doing a man for whom you do not wish to be his one and only a favor if you lie to him about what you feel. If a man of value wants you to be his one and only, he will given enough time make you part of his life's mission. One of the worst things you can do to a man is trick him into wasting his finite energy and time on an inauthentic mission. The only reason to not tell the truth is selfishness to maintain options -- and for what, you don't even want what he offers.

Also the caller may be retaining some presentation of herself that leads the men she doesn't want to assume she is still living her old lifestyle. and repels the men she does want.

[rebeccaware]

Renee - yet another fantastic video. I love it. The Feminine Woman is my #1 favourite website for femininity!
No one can explain the concepts quite like you do. Very authentic and original business or website, yet it makes complete sense. Just wanted you to know this. I love your work and many of my friends do too!

[aanders]

I think I have judgemental habits. I think he is a great person. I'd like to get to know him, but I'm not into being around someone for something to do. Only if it goes somewhere...even if it's just friendship ...but I'd like to explore for more.
Thanks for your Vlog

[lindafinney]

Suggestion to your comment. Why not just confront this man's bad habits and see what his reactions is or are! Maybe he is not aware of his habits and maybe he would like to change. Plus, what is she DOING to make this man say or tell her he loves he so often. There seems to be something left out, after all there are two sides to every story. I think it is healthier for both parties to just sit down and talk openly about the relationship and their feelings. There is NO mention of her age or his in the video or life experiences. Such as are they both divorced, have children and how they were raised. With all this mentioned, the best advice is to openly speak with the other party. No mind games and no self analyzing . Age give us wisdom and fore thought.

[CapeEniEer]

Hello. Awesome awesome AWESOME video!!! My grandma used to tell me that if I wanted to be happy that I needed to marry someone who loved ME, not someone that I loved... And this advice has been fucking me in the ass and my early relationships! Coaches and people like you have helped me set on the right path and I am so grateful that you are here doing what you do. And yes please keep doing what you do!


Btw the audio has a weird static noise and its a bit hard to listen with it there. GL!!!

[hollywisconsin]

these are good tips, these are starting to cover different attachment styles/patterns. i suggest Heidi Priebe's channel to dovetail with the feminine woman channel.

[kopilapariyar]

I had the same kind of confusion in life.Your video really helped me. Thank you so much.Love the video.

[MsVelandra]

Hi Renee, Love the video format!! Thanks :)

[withlove]

Great vibe, Renee! 😀... you are so objective when giving insight, in a way that translates your doing this for others, opposed to self oriented reason. Good stuff 😜❤✌

[Donnabritus]

High Standards. Stay away from the needys man.

[kentclarkp]

What makes her content so feminine? She seems to be speaking from a business mindset, which is unfortunate more heartless.