10 Easy Ways to Be More Elegant & Ladylike | Femininity 101

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Hello, everyone! This is my first "installment" of my Femininity 101 series. Today, I'm discussing how you can easily be more ladylike and why it's a wonderful thing to be a lady, even in modern times. As Eunice from the blog "Elegant Lady" puts it (I'm paraphrasing): Of course, over time, manners, attitudes, attire, and social mores have both evolved and atrophied so intensely that the definition of “lady-like” has left everyone confused. A lady by today’s definition knows that educating herself in every way possible, from higher education to the commonsense manners, empowers her to become a woman of accomplishment and poise. She knows that it’s not her body or money that will bring her fulfillment since she acknowledges that outer beauty and wealth can be transient, but her inner character is the true measure of her beauty. Her courtesies, the high esteem in which she holds herself and others, her genuine kindness, and her sincere words of praise and thoughtfulness will reflect her convictions and place her ahead in the minds and hearts of those who know her.

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Timestamps/chapters:
Intro - 0:00-2:01
I - Interrupting others - 2:02-2:35
II - Leading the conversation back to you - 2:36-3:52
III - Gossiping - 3:53-4:13
IV - Looking at your phone - 4:14-4:52
V - Handle conflict graciously - 4:53-5:38
VI - Prioritize privacy & mystery 5:39-6:11
VII - Profanity 6:12-6:49
VIII - Alcohol - 6:50-7:19
IX - Sitting ladylike - 7:20-7:36
X - Getting in & out of cars - 7:37-8:06
Outro - 8:07-8:39

FAQ:
Height: 5'9"
Occupation: Model
Race: Biracial (black & white)
Religion: Orthodox Christian
Location: Pacific Northwest

-xo.

[JasmyneTheodora]

Please like & subscribe for more _femininity_ content <3

[mumbi_maina]

It's good to see a feminine woman in our natural God-given hair. It's a breathe of fresh air from all the black 'feminine' women on this app discussing how to be feminine in wigs and excess makeup.

[joyrainbowdress]

1. Do not interrupt others while talking.
2. Refrain from bringing the conversation back to the topic of yourself all the time. Ask questions to others. Refrain from replying "I know!".
3. Refrain from speaking ill of others, bashing reputations of other people and gossiping.
4. Do not check your phone while talking to others. It's basic courtesy.
5. Handle conflict graciously. Be gentle yet firm. Remove yourself from the conversation if situation escalates.
6. Prioritize privacy and mystery.
7. Limit your usage of profanity.
8. Limit alcohol intake, especially in public settings.
9. Sit ladylike, with poise and elegance. Straight posture and crossed ankles.
10. Getting in and out of a car elegantly. Sit first then swivel your legs in together.

[crelove]

Your Channel is like a breath of fresh air for this generation✨

[indiahunter]

I love your videos, as I’m navigating finding my way back to Christ, I notice that my femininity was under attack for the longest. I could not move graciously, I was hostile and easily tempered. This could only go on for so long before I experienced the damaging toll of taking on this “hard” way of life. I am so excited to know that while I’m on my walk with Christ, I am really coming into who I am by His design. Thank you for your videos, you are so blessed and an inspiration for us soft girls ❤️

[fibrahimfi]

I always used to interrupt people so much and I had no idea I was doing it, I was not conscious of it… I realised that it is a symptom of adhd along with all the other symptoms.

[akankshajha]

I just found out your channel. I am from India and we are very feminine women but somehow the "liberal west" automatically assumes that we're oppressed. I absolutely loved your video ❤️🌺.

[LLShiningOtter]

Thank you so so so so wonderful to see a young woman being so elegant
The world NEEDS MORE ELEGANCE AND GRACE. These are vital, a feminine woman adds so much to the world. You are helping us all be more civilized, hopeful and be our best. Elegant woman make the world a better place. Seeing someone be aware and respectful make us all be and do better.
You have a little of the Audrey Hepburn vibe by the way

[reberee]

I have 4 brothers and 3 sisters. All my sister's moved away when I was very young because of the age gap between us. My sister's were 1st, 2d and 6th born. They were really close. I was the 7th born. I grew up without them and around nothing but boys. My mother was neglectful and abusive in multiple ways so I never learned anything from her.
This has caused me a lot of trouble and pain in my life. Because I was to much like, "one a the guys, " a guy once told me... None of the guys I met were ever interested in me. They just thought I was cool to hang out with.
My father was in the Marine Corp so I grew up around a lot of profanity. Because of this I use it a lot and it's just like you said. People say I'm aggressive or angry all the time when it's not true. I want to cry because I don't know how to be a woman. I've never been taught anything.
I finally found a guy who was interested in me and he turned out to be manipulative and abusive.
4 years ago a guy found me. We dated and ended up living together. He's appreciated and loved me... But we've been having trouble this passed year. Maybe a little longer but idk. Last night was the last straw. We were at the gym working out together as we usually do when he said he was worried about bringing something up. I asked him what and he said he didn't want to hurt my feelings. I had to drag it out of him but he finally said... That I wasn't feminine at all and that there was to much masculine energy in the relationship... That it was making him uncomfortable and putting tension between us.
I knew something was up but not that... I know it's true but it still hurts to here him say. Please I love this man! I'll do anything to keep him in my life. He says he'll never leave me but that's not enough! I just want to make him happy! I want to learn to be a proper woman so I can finally make him as happy as he makes me. It hurts me so much that my mother didn't teach me these things.😭

[jaderussell]

I love that this is titled "how to be elegant and ladylike" not "how to be a woman". You have such a beautiful essence 💖

[elevatedlife]

This was a really refreshing take on Femininity 😂

[vitamincalmasmr]

I just found your channel today and I'm so glad I did. This is exactly what I was looking for and thank you for the amazing tips. I'm looking forward to future videos and the start of my femanine journey. Thank you so much

[ItsjustMemyGodandI]

I truly loved this video! As a 19 year old young lady, I am learning and seeking to know more about what it is to be a woman. Especially a Proverbs 31 woman 🙏🏽! To conduct myself in a modest, respectful, and humble manner. With that being said, I am so happy that I found your YouTube channel for your videos are truly helpful and I appreciate them so much! God bless you and your family 🤍

[sheilamassey]

You're adorable 💕. Laughed out loud when you told the other lady she's number 1.

[harshita]

You have such a soft energy, i get inspired by you. 💕💕✨

[youarethecooleriest]

Thank you for this video! I’m definitely guilty of a lot of the things listed. Working on unlearning these bad habits and becoming a lady! 😇

[ActiveBserver]

So grateful to have found your channel! The way you speak, alone, radiates so much feminine energy 💖

[pluvio]

These videos are deeply healing for my inner child. Thank you so much, I feel so much comfort watching these videos 🥺😊

[abyssmom]

I did not expect the bird! You are all around!

I began to try to do the feminine thing after I had kids. I don't want to leave my girls hanging when it comes to makeup/fashion like I was and I don't want them getting suspect messages. Thanks, can't wait to watch your videos with my spawn.

[leslierositag]

Another is nagging to someone/ partner
Complaining be grateful for what we have, it shows simplicity even in the smallest of things
arguing- arguing with someone just shows that we stoop down to their level and we ain’t low over here lol. It’s some that I’ve been working on as well. Love your videos 🤍