When You Can't be with Your Soul Mate

The concept of a soul mate is a wonderful idea - that perfect person you get to spend the rest of your life with in blissful, joyful happy loving harmony.

But what happens when you KNOW someone is your soul mate, but you can't be with him or her for whatever reason?

In this video, I talk about how and why this happens (and it happens a LOT). It's never easy, but understanding a little more about the concept might just help a little.

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[coryvermillion]

I met my soulmate one year ago. We were both 50 and couldn't believe what was happening. We kept saying "its too good to be true". We matched up perfectly. On feb 19th she died of a heart attack. We were supposed to be married this weekend. I feel so lost now and can't figure out the point of the whole thing.

[speccyguy]

I'm met my soulmate 4 years ago it didn't work out after a couple of months, I have never connected with anyone like that in my life. I haven't dated since 2016 as im still not over her.

[FortLaurel]

I am married. But I met my soulmate and it's not who I am married to. I never experienced the most purest and unconditional love. But I will not leave my husband.

[Coasterdude]

I met my soul mate 28 years ago when I was 24, they were 22. Eye contact, everyone else in the room vanished, could hear nobody else's voice. Could SEE the connection in their eyes as well. Every time I caught them looking at me, they'd look away, look down at the ground, smile and blush as red as a lobster. COULD NOT hold my gaze...PAINFULLY shy. I could not figure out what the hell to say, cat had my tongue but yet there was this sense of "I know you, somehow...." Long story short....28 years pass and I finally find this person again and cried, time had not changed them much at all....they're now married with 2 kids. I sent a Hi, how are ya? How's life been treating you" message....after a week I got blocked. 28 years I've thought about this person EVERY SINGLE DAY. This hurts more than anything else I've ever been through. The only thing holding me together is I know that we will once gain be together on the other side. This human journey really sucks sometimes.

[monac]

I hear you. What sucks though is when you meet the second soul mate but happens so much later in life and you can’t be with them either. Your time becomes limited. Instead you go back to being “thrown to the wolves” in hopes that one day you do get to be with a soul mate. It hurts if you’re destined to meet your soul mates but not only can you not be with them…you may never be with any of them…that’s what hurts 😞

[tld]

Listening to this makes me wanna cry. I’m hurting so bad

[TimewithSerendipityTarot]

I met one of my soulmates, I can’t even explain how perfect we are/we’re for each other and he came in at the perfect time and I came into his life when I know he needed me. He was not ready he immediately cut it off and ran. I feel so destroyed not because he ran but because he took my happy ending (in this time period) away from me and didn’t even give us a real chance. This was my first real encounter with a soulmate and I was scarred too but I am healed so I recognized my behavior and made the effort to do what is right, he did not fell right back into his patterns and chose to not heal. We could have healed further and learned an incredible amount together. It was an oppurtunity for geniuine love. I know I will get that again it just really sucks that it was so close and I had no control over him leaving. I just pray my true divine counterpart is basically exactly like him in attributes, spirit and life experience and decides to choose me and love me the way a soulmate connection should. Much love great video, asè.

[marchbabi]

I met my soulmate November 11, 2010. It had been a year since I broke up with a guy I was dating (and our relationship didn't amount to a swift breeze) and I wasn't really looking for anyone, but focusing on myself. I met this man a year later, and it was then I knew he was meant for me. He felt the same about me. We talked, spent time together, put all of what we felt and what we were ready to build on the table. It was beautiful! Then....it dissolved. It was a mystery for a while, until I found out from a friend of his that he was a troubled soul, and he didn't know how to make himself whole, because he kept everything so bottled in. He then started dating other women in hopes for a great relationship that lead to marriage (and none were compatible). His friend reached out to me and told me he had been asking about me quite often, and they needed to arrange it to get me to a yearly event. By the time it was to occur, he passed away. I was broken, and I still am. If we talked, we would've probably had a second chance to make things right.

[jeraherrera]

If your soulmate wants to leave you for someone else..you let them go otherwise you're going to be the one suffering in silence

[phoenics]

I met my soulmate in elementary and we never saw eachother again after middle school. I didn’t have the guts to talk to her during middle school but now that I’ve worked on myself and have gained confidence in myself I feel bad for not talking to her. It’s an unsolved mystery as to what would’ve happened if I became friends or something more with her and that hurts. I felt such a strong connection with her but who knows. Things happen for a reason right? :/

[takwaxaweelew]

He recognized me first but I was married. Well now I've been separated twice from my husband and frightened my soul mate away. He had nothing to with my separation. We've connected and bonded since I recognized him 2 years ago. On the phone mostly and one beautiful date. Now he's running and dating others. But I know he's looking for the connection we have. I've blown it and I grieve. This is more painful than my marriage ending.

He and I have been dancing around this for almost 4 years. We used to work in the same building. Now I keep running into him whenever I think of him. I'm seeing others as well but I long for him deeply. I know he feels it too. I'm lost. What do I do?

[scotthargrove]

After the love that you share with your soulmate, Anything afterwards is going to be very unfulfilling. I've been dating the most amazing woman I have ever been involved with in my life for the past year and a half. But every moment of my day my heart is still calling out to my soulmate. I will never recover from that separation. I went through a divorce that was not nearly as painful as separation of our souls from the mate I lost in the relationship

[jonjones]

Rule no 1... you will both never ask is this my soulmate 👍

[hailcthulhu]

I knew my soulmate for years. She was my perfect match, but I was too scared to ever say anything through the course of our friendship. Over a four year period I had opportunity after opportunity to act on how I felt, but I just couldn't. I suffer from OCD, depression and severe social anxiety and as a result I have extremely low self-esteem. That coupled with being hurt over and over again throughout my life (including being dumped by a prior fiancé a few months before our wedding) really prevented me from being able to say how I felt until it was way too late. I did confess my feelings during a conversation we had after she had already gotten engaged. She was sweet, as she always is, but she basically told me that I waited way too long to say anything and that it was too late. I knew that before I even said it, but it was eating away at me and I needed to get it off my chest. She got married two years ago and I have never been the same since. My struggles with mental illness have become so severe that I can barely function anymore and at this point I kind of just feel like I'm waiting for death. Throughout my difficult life, the only thing that kept me fighting and trying to push forward was the hope of finding that connection. Now that it's gone, I feel no hope, I have no faith and my life truly feels meaningless.

[puremaledark]

3 years and we hurt each other so bad. Ive been no contact for a month and I cant stop thinking about her or stop crying. This pain is too much.

[damianryan]

Met my soulmate 4 years ago. Married. so special to me she was like my twin. Weve now broken up.
Devasted but i know i cant live with her.

[sashutka]

My soulmate left me for someone else.1 year together i was so so happy
Then i got depressed and he instead of supporting me left me for another and engaged 4 months later.i am in a new relationship now but my heart longs for my ex .what would you do ?

[tomkruse]

Hello, i have a question.
I have a really strong "soulmate" connection to a girl, who has special needs (traumatic disability)(She's 17 im 20)
Its nothing physical it is just a strong feeling from inside. Is that possible? The Point is, no-one can understand it so they won't let us be together which hurts both of us so bad but there is nothing I can do about it. Do you have any tipps, how I can help people understand that? Or do we just have to live with the pain.. I wish they would listen...
Thank you!

[Babesinthewood]

I lost him shortly after meeting him, because he was warned of me by another guy who was blatantly slandering me for rejecting him. He didn't say "she rejected me" but he says I'm all kinds of bad things. He made up lies. It couldn't have come at a worse time! They are friends so he chose to believe the lie instead of asking me. The liar has some kind of high status and I'm a foreign woman without friends. That's why no-one asked me. I'm incredibly sad over this. It's the only time in my life I've felt a true soul connection. I'm wondering if I was completely mistaken. Or can a lie be stronger than love. I was 38 when we met. I have met many men and this has never occurred before.

[Anxxtt]

I wish I could die without the body experiencing death. It never looks like something anyone would want to go through