9 Warning Signs You’re In A TOXIC FRIENDSHIP

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Friends make our lives better. You feel happier as a person when you’re around your friends. However, some friendships may not be as beneficial as others. Toxic friendships make you feel exhausted, and have a negative effect on your health.

In today’s video, we’ll share signs that will help you spot a toxic friendship. Is leaving you unsettled an indication? Are they always trying to change you? We’re talking about all that AND more…

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Timestamps:
Intro - 0:00
They make you uncomfortable - 00:25
They're envious of your other friends - 01:21
They make an apology without sincerity - 02:18
They put you down frequently - 02:56
They keep comparing you to others - 03:32
They gossip on a regular basis - 04:28
They’re always trying to change you - 05:42
They don’t respect your limits - 06:18
Everything revolves around them and their issues - 07:02

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Summary:
They make you uncomfortable
The tough thing about friends is that we love and appreciate them, and that affection may often blind us to their terrible behavior. You need to recognize these signs.

They're envious of your other friends
Toxic friends like to be the center of attention. If there are other people in your life, they will often feel envious, especially if they feel you’re spending more time with these people than you are with them.

They make an apology without sincerity
We all have good days and bad days. A bad day can turn a nice person into your worst enemy. But this doesn’t make them toxic. A toxic friend will flip out no matter what mood they’re in. The worst part is they rarely apologize.

They put you down frequently
Friends joke a lot, and a little good-natured teasing doesn't always imply your friendship is toxic, especially if you're laughing along with them.

They keep comparing you to others
Do you have a friend who enjoys pointing out how you don’t match up to their other friends? For example, it’s possible that because your car isn’t as nice as another person’s, hanging out with you isn't as enjoyable.

They gossip on a regular basis
What if you confided in a buddy, and the next day, your whole social circle is aware of what you said? Anyone can make a mistake and say something they shouldn't. Even when you beg them to keep sensitive information private, toxic friends will share secrets.

They’re always trying to change you
Someone who’s always trying to change you is not your best friend. A good friend accepts you for who you are, and realizes you’re already the best “you” you can be. They’re not picking away at every little flaw you have.

They don’t respect your limits
The key word for this next point is “boundaries”. Everybody has them. The thing with boundaries is that when they’re set, we don’t want anyone to cross them. A toxic friend always fails to recognize another person’s limits, and will do whatever makes them feel comfortable.

Everything revolves around them and their issues
Remember when I said they get jealous when you pay attention to others? This is because the world needs to revolve around them. It’s a case of pure narcissism. They’re only happy when other people are concerned with them.

For more information, please watch the video until the very end.
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If someone treats you badly just remember, There is something WRONG, with them Not YOU, , healthy people don't go around destroying

curtistinemiller
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I had a friend get told she was attention seeking after losing her dad by someone she thought was her best friend. He got mad because she wasn’t responding to his messages. He was an alcoholic so she asked if he was drinking and he snapped and said a lot of horrible things to her. She was already hurt enough and having her best friend say those things made her feel worse. I still feel so bad for her because she’s still grieving

Coochiedestroyer
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Thank you for this Ma'am! 🙂
You sure are helpful! 😊
This is my personal problem. I do forgive a lot, while I know that those people whom I forgive will not benefit me, like mentally.
I know it's bad to hold grudges against someone, but most of the people can't help it. They think that it'll be their great loss, and they allow those toxic people in their lives, especially in a case of an introvert who gives importance of their friend or the one they love.
It's not your loss, my fellow introvert! You're just too valuable for you to deserve maltreatment from others! Even your words have weight, I believe, since an introvert (especially) don't want small talks.

Noname-
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Sounds like how a lot of women treat their husbands !!!

wiz
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Which kind of friendship thumbnail shows 😏😏😏

hyper_hardik
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What about family? A mom that tells your sisters everything you do bad = I drink to much= ( once every two weeks I drink until I'm drunk Because of this feeling I'm not good enough... ) Butt nothing that I do for her seam's good enough? I fix all her meal's .. breakfast. Lunch, dinner, drive her to Doctors, dentist, store shopping. Do maintenance on her house and I am still the blacksheap Son ..My sisters call me only when they can't get mom on the phone me having 3 attempts at suicide because I am in a room full of people and still feel alone. Family of 3 kid's two older family be

kennethcoburn
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Idk My friendship is kinna weird type cus we r boys, , , And boys are God of sins

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