How To Deal With The Pathological Liar: 6 Tips: Psychotherapy Crash Course

A pathological liar is difficult to be in a relationship with.

Have you ever communicated with a person who seemed to live in a fantasy world?

Have you ever had an experience with a person who always seems mysterious and nothing they say ever comes to fruition?

Although we have to make it clear that not EVERYBODY lies, there are quite a few people who do and they may be sleeping, eating, and functioning right next to you.

In this video, I discuss common signs, that seem to be subtle, of people who pathologically lie.

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[Keys]

You can't play with a liar. If you feel uncomfortable speaking to them about their lying; show them with your actions: I know you are a liar and I won't tolerate your behavior. And the only way that can be communicated through behavior is to keep your distance, permanently. Be emotional distant at all times, even if you must communicate with them. We must learn to protect our energetical bodies.

[Centuries_of_Nope]

The worst situation is when they become so involved in their lies, they begin to truly believe the false world they created.

[mfar]

I lived with my manipulative grandmother who would constantly play two ends against the middle & cause family drama. When confronted with her BS she would deny, deny & deny some more, twist words, use selective memory, etc. When she couldn’t worm her way out, she’d cry, blame her advanced age, failing memory, poor hearing, etc.

[chocolatesugar]

These people are dangerous for real they triangulate and come out smelling like roses.

[f.mercury]

i love this thus, my mom has this and its extremely hard to talk with her, and it breaks my heart thta i never can belive her

[jpeterson]

She knows what she is talking about. Few therapists really understand how dangerous pathological liars are.
She clearly gets it and every bit of this advice WORKS. I know
from experience. Too bad I had to learn on my own.

[tommygun]

When it’s someone you love you just want to believe them but you know there lies it’s really messed my head up and finding hard to trust anyone lost family and friends to

[bellakrinkle]

The best way is to go NO Contact, then get ideally 7 hrs sleep per night so you don't feel lost or broken.

[simplylily]

This is a absolute wonderful video..Extremely helpful! Thank u kindly

[Homoclite]

This is GREAT Advice. I’d like to add some to this which is this:

Some situations with pathological liars call for simply limiting personal involvement to the extent of giving an almost sterile and basic interaction with.

Sometimes one never know how or what triggers the individual who’s hired on as “an expert witness” might have and turn against you.

I’ve been in that type of situation on a crappy Home Depot job years back. I’ve been through that with family members and so-called friends becoming attacked and hated by a few.

That kind of messiness actually caused me to question myself on more than one occasion.

I’ve learned to better look and listen from a safe distance with my cutting off all who betrayed me.

A lot of these types give off an aura of being messy and pathological liars. A SURE sign in my opinion is when someone gives the air of having histrionic personality disorder. One with stronger than average narcissistic features are really a treat! ☠️

A coworker from that Home Depot gig eventually got fired for pulling some shady mess (stealing/fraud).

Could you do a video on Histrionic Personality Disorder in both male and female?

[squidiz]

Hey thanks a ton for the great vid! I have a friend I've known for a few months, I met him through my life long friend and after a cupple months of knowing him I confronted my buddy about the guys lies. It made no sense they were lies that meant nothing. About dumb things that just weren't true. I mean this guy is an expert at everything and had a answer for everything but is a horible liar. I just sit and nod. I only believed his bs because I give awkward or different people the benefit of the doubt. But my buddy said that this has been how he has been since they met but it got worse over time. He is truely a kind guy and his lies seem to have no real goal. I think that he has very bad self esteem issues and doesn't think his life experience is enough so he has to make stuff up. We have been planning to confront him but I don't even know if its a good idea. I really am not concerned about him hurting me I could care less. I'm worried about his mental health and want to help him pull himself out of this hole more then anything. It can't be good for relationships and staying happy. Would appreciate any tips.

[tiffanyharris]

I love your videos!!! These videos really relates so much to my life as an Assistant Vice President of a small company (I’m nobody one of like 10). My co- avp is a pathological liar. However you give me so much good advice to tell my subordinates.

[MikeHunt-fucm]

You are a god send and I'm subscribing. Thank u so much for...just being a real person. Seriously thank u. I am a first time father with someone I didn't know was this way. I'm broken and I really really needed this

[julietalbuquerque]

Oh lord Nail on the head ! So accurate to the tee ! 18-48 and now he’s trying to get an injunction of all the evidence I have threatening and blackmailing my livelihood to erase my life story while he lives his life with no remorse saying it’s his ‘ choice’ but yet wants to control mine and change the truth of the so disturbing .... like a world where you just go WHAT You mean you can do more ??!!! And the answer is ‘Yes they can ‘ And you wish cameras were capturing this abnormal being 24/7 . Sorry for the long post but boy do I need to vent . This video couldn’t be more accurate! Thank you 🙏

[rome]

1.How do you hold them responsible
For thier behavior.
2. Distancing is not always easy. You may see them again in the streets, sometimes you even work with these type of people. Well I m just going to respect them in public and just show love and walk away and distance yourself. Without anger more time away because they are very disrespectful and just live in complete denial.

[littleangelF]

thank you for this video. i just left a relationship with a pathological liar, and i’m struggling because i really loved him. i had a feeling that the things he was telling me weren’t true, but it took awhile to get proof. i kept confronting him with things and he would just talk his way out of it. for example, he told me he owned a company and that he was traveling to romania for work. i finally met his mother and his best friend, and they confirmed that he’s an employee not an owner, and that he did not go to romania. i broke up with him, but my head is still messing with me. i miss him a lot and keep trying to convince myself that somehow i can still be with him or that i can deal with the lies.. or that i’m going to get him to start being honest. it’s the worst! how do i get out of this cycle?

[blaisenbuds]

my room mate is a pathological liar an he triangulating on me an my girl friend trying to get us to turn on each other its such a drain.

[louiseroberts]

It’s ruining my trust in relationships because of how many lies I’ve heard...

[aaronoliver]

triangulating blew my mind, that's exactly what I experienced