Making A Relationship OFFICIAL | 5 Things To Consider Before You Do

The reality is that people get into boyfriend-girlfriend relationships and want to make the relationship official before they get married.

However, people get themselves into a lot of trouble because of skipping these 5 things that they should have considered before making a relationship official. Many times because people like someone and they see potential in a person, you find that people decide on making a relationship official without even considering the five things that I discuss in this relationship advice video.

In as much as it is important to do your due diligence before getting married it also is important to do your due diligence before making it official. Below are the 5 things to consider before making a relationship official that are discussed in this dating and relationship advice video in the order that they are mentioned in the video.

1. Have you discussed expectations? 2:20

How we behave or what we consider appropriate or what we expect while we're dating does not always tend to match up with what people are expecting in an official relationship.

2. Can you be happily committed to this person? 5:03

If you cannot see yourself happily committed then what is the point of making it official?

3. Do you see a future with them? 7:29

Do you see a future with them? If you do not see a future with them and only see them as a temporary filler, why are we trying to make it official?

4. Do you even want the same things? 9:48

You have to talk to each other and find out do we even want the same things because if we don’t, what the hell are we doing here? What is the point of making it official if we want to go in different directions in this relationship?

5. Have you addressed any lingering baggage? 11:36

Have they healed from their past? Have they healed from their past relationship? Many people and it may be you, you have issues of unresolved pain and hurt and disappointment that will actually impact the relationship in a very negative way. That needs to be resolved. That needs to be addressed.

If you are serious about setting yourself up for a great amazing relationship and one that can then become a healthy amazing marriage, then you need to consider the 5 things mentioned above before making a relationship official.

It is important to make a relationship official and get into a serious relationship only after addressing the five tips mentioned above.

As a dating coach who provides dating advice for women and men, I want to make dating and relationships easier for you and I pray you find this video helpful. If you are asking yourself the following questions

- What should I do before making a relationship official?
- Are we ready to make it official?
- Have we discussed the expectations before we make our relationship official?
- Will I be happily committed after making it official?
- Do I see a future with my partner before making it official?
- Do we want the same things?
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-Have we addressed any lingering baggage in order to make our relationship official?

Well, I believe this dating and relationship advice video will give you the clarity you need.

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[EverythingLydia]

When i was dating my husband he said it FLAT OUT. “I don’t want you seeing anybody else, i want this to be official” there was no doubt in his mind. Ladies when a man is ready.... HE READY, and you’ll KNOW. I made a video about this exact thing.

[mayasheartdesiire]

The truth is that people aren’t being truthful to themselves. They will string a person along for years knowing they don’t see a future with them smh people be soo manipulative! My ex told me he wanted marriage and all the things I wanted. Told me he healed from his past relationship and been thru a lot as I have to....told me all that just to drop the ball and tell me he’s not the man I originally wanted and he broke up with me smh all this took place within 6 months and he the one who pushed the relationship ..people will waste your time...so guard your heart good people...

[AcostaMethod]

1. Same long term goals.
2. Same values/morals and religious beliefs for you and your future kids.
3. Expectations on loyalty and how each persons boundaries
4. Family connection
5. Can you be yourself with them/ are they making you better by being around them (vice versa)

[ScaryToRemarry]

Although I dated my wife long distance, we made our relationship official by asking her “will you be my lady?” She said yes! We both needed the verbal confirmation

[katebeckinsale]

"Real love is knowing someone's weaknesses and not taking advantage of them. Knowing their flaws and accepting who they are" ❤

[lilnasty]

Omg thank you! I just got out of a situationship and finally feel at peace.. if he’s not ready to be in a relationship def let it go

[aliscia]

We made sure that this commitment is permanent and real before we made it official. This is really what we both want. It’s official now and we are truly committed to each other and planning our wedding in December.

[missnurseeri]

The man I just met recently had this exact same conversation with me the night before you posted this. Amazing. I knew he was different and serious about pursuing me and a committed relationship after that conversation. And look, I'm here for it! Lol. So refreshing.

[suzanbelfield]

I was dating a gentleman who was talking marriage. I told him I would not consider marrying anyone without premarital counseling. I could tell by the look on his face that he didn’t feel the same way. His reaction was a huge red flag. I had to end our dating relationship at that point.

[tiffanyhogan]

This is good advice, make sure there’s no sex while the guy is “figuring things out”. For me, sex is a relationship benefit

[evewilson]

Don't treat the person u seeing bad because of your past .make sure u let go of the past

[tiffanyjohnson]

I had a guy friend that said he wasn't ready for a relationship for whatever reason...I had to let him go but i really liked him tho!

[esavaiano]

Yes! This all makes sense. Too many people jump into relationships quickly without doing any introspection to figure out what they want and what their partner wants and needs to be happy. Life is too short. Choose your relationships wisely.

[diamondunicorn]

A relationship to me especially now in my older years is like a plant, plant the seed, but don’t expect it to grow overnight. You know the process of taking care of a plant, so I’ll speed up to the end of this metaphor.. it takes time. Start the roots of the relationship which includes friendship.. water it it’ll grow beautifully over time. No matter what happens to that plant. The roots will always stand. If not “uprooted “.

[DeeSlimVision]

I just met this girl and we’ve been talkin for almost 2 months.. we have A LOT in common and its weird in a good way... i love her company and she loves being in mine.. everything feels genuine and not forced with no hidden motives.. i want to make this girl my girlfriend but i want to make sure all of my reasons are in order.

[sepisosikobela]

1. Have you discussed expectations.
2. Can you be happily committed to this relationship?
3. Do you see a future with them?
4. Do you want the same things?
5. Have you addressed any lingering baggage?

[blondieb.harris]

Monogamy, trust, respect, honesty, communication, joy, peace and happiness makes a healthy relationship to me

[reneehaskett]

When it comes down to a relationship/marriage, people have to consider if you can get along with the other person's family and friends. Because if you can't and the other person does not try to protect you and the relationship, then you may need to consider if you should marry this person.

[Super_saiyan_e]

I’ve been following your content for a few years brother. I read your book “he who seeks a wife.” And applied the knowledge I received. I’m currently dating a dope woman and going to make it official soon. I think what confirmed it is that she follows your page as well. Anyways thanks brother keep the content coming. Just because I’ll soon be in a relationship doesn’t mean I’ll stop learning. Peace

[karijaye]

We talked about each step and where we want to be. Over our baggage and we've used the disappointments and made aspects into strengths. My king has shown me the kind of man, person that he is. We followed the path of what we expect from each other to where we are now and heading to nuptials with a clear mindset of we each want and what we both want... 💞